All the time..... you should see my orgnotes...

i know this is a thread for the hetras, but you manly men imagine this scenario:

you're in a bar with your girlfriend and your buddies, minding your own business, having a good time - the music's not bad, so you might even be dancing a bit....then all of a sudden, the door swings open and a gaggle of gay men come in and decide that you and your boys are their personal chew toys and they start molesting you on the dance floor and making rude comments and basically turning your local hangout into their personal terror pit.

this happens all the time in gay bars when they get attacked by bachelorette parties. they think it's "cool" to bombard gay bars because they think they can feel up all the men they want without us doing anything to them in return, plus - you know - we homos won't be offended, since it's all in good fun.

i guess what i'm trying to say is, hetras aren't the only ones who have to deal with unwanted advances from genders we are not attracted to.

See what I mean...

I really don't mean to offend though you know.

In a way, it's really just me paying you compliments.



In other ways, I feel like you're my bitch.

So I'm not all that then huh?

Thanks....now I'm not wanted by women OR gay guys....

All the time..... you should see my orgnotes...

So I'm not all that then huh?

Thanks....now I'm not wanted by women OR gay guys....

Gay men avoid me.

All the time..... you should see my orgnotes...

imago doesn't really count, though. seriously, he's being given his own personal float at the pride parade this year. look for him between the jagermeister float and the LGBT speed knitting float.

i know this is a thread for the hetras, but you manly men imagine this scenario:

you're in a bar with your girlfriend and your buddies, minding your own business, having a good time - the music's not bad, so you might even be dancing a bit....then all of a sudden, the door swings open and a gaggle of gay men come in and decide that you and your boys are their personal chew toys and they start molesting you on the dance floor and making rude comments and basically turning your local hangout into their personal terror pit.

this happens all the time in gay bars when they get attacked by bachelorette parties. they think it's "cool" to bombard gay bars because they think they can feel up all the men they want without us doing anything to them in return, plus - you know - we homos won't be offended, since it's all in good fun.

i guess what i'm trying to say is, hetras aren't the only ones who have to deal with unwanted advances from genders we are not attracted to.

I guess I'm a magnet for gay people then. I don't mind, and I love dancing with them but when they start to go up my shirt or skirt it's NOT ok.

I realize it's a gay bar and I don't want to hear "you're in their territory deal with it" because I don't discriminate when gays are in a "straight bar". I mean do "straight bars" even exist? I say the more the merrier whatever the hell you are. It's just when the hands get busy...it frustrates the fuck out of me!

First off, have you seen the jankity haircuts straight men have?
Where do you get your hair cut, honestly? This is not an insult in any way shape or form, and not directed at you personally, but I bet it's at a barber shop.... a. fate. worse. than. death.


But honestly, I would think that it happens to gays as much as straights. It's just straights would be more sensitive to it, especially American men. American men being to scared to have a 'homo' moment is the primary reason, as Margaret Cho once put it, that straight porn has such ugly ass men in it.

I would think gay men would be far more sensitive to not coming on to a straight guy. Where as men oogling women might get them a rude comment or a slap. A gay man could find himself fatally attacked.
No gay man wants to end his life at the hands of a man with a cheap, jankity ass haircut.

Not really.

Of course "straight bars" exist. Bars where heterosexuality is assumed and expected, otherwise known as mainstream culture. Does that mean the clientele is exclusively straight? No. But it does mean that it is not automatically a safe and comfortable environment for queerfolk.

Sorry, Carrie, but in the majority of establishments you can express your sexuality without fear of retaliation. Gay people (and gay MEN in particular) don't have that luxury. So if it gets a little, um, intense for you when you choose to venture into the few areas where that expression is allowed and welcomed...you guessed it...go to a straight bar!

I'm not trying to be mean or sarcastic here. I just see a lack of perspective. Did you ever think that maybe, just maybe, some of the dudes at the gay bars you waltz into want you to feel uncomfortable and leave?

The so called "straight" clubs and club nights I go to have a huge gay clientele. Maybe it's the crowd I roll with, or the kind of people who go to these nights and clubs, but there is no retaliation or even mention of fear of retaliation by gay friends.

Gay dudes at gay bars avoid me at all costs.