have you ever caught someone of the same sex oogling your goodies? a guy from work carried on 95% of our conversation with his eyes on my crotch. no biggies to look i guess, but i'm like "hello, this head up here is the only one you'll be seeing"

was standing on a 16ft. ladder reparing those old style wood shutters. was wearing cut off sweat pants with no underware as always. i look down and this seventy year old man was right below me looking up my ass. i couldnt even say anything. i was in shock. shisty ass old bastard.

^

i know this is a thread for the hetras, but you manly men imagine this scenario:

you're in a bar with your girlfriend and your buddies, minding your own business, having a good time - the music's not bad, so you might even be dancing a bit....then all of a sudden, the door swings open and a gaggle of gay men come in and decide that you and your boys are their personal chew toys and they start molesting you on the dance floor and making rude comments and basically turning your local hangout into their personal terror pit.

this happens all the time in gay bars when they get attacked by bachelorette parties. they think it's "cool" to bombard gay bars because they think they can feel up all the men they want without us doing anything to them in return, plus - you know - we homos won't be offended, since it's all in good fun.

i guess what i'm trying to say is, hetras aren't the only ones who have to deal with unwanted advances from genders we are not attracted to.

Yup


Boobs have a way of drawing both men and women's attentions equally

Anxiety said:

very well put anxiety. hope i didnt offend.

PricelessHo said:

You want a shoda? You like popsicles? I got a whole bunch of popsicles in the cellar. Just waiting for the muscley paper boy to bring me some good news!! Freakin' Awesome!!!

Of course! They don't just oogle. They also make comments.

crazyhorse said:

I'm sorry that's not funny!!

I've gotten more numbers from women then men while working at the bar

CarrieLee said:

thats just because your fuckin' hot carrie. men and women wanna get with ya.

Anxiety said:

That shit is disgusting.

Seriously.

Even worse than the couples who troll lesbian clubs looking for a third for their threesome. At least they usually keep their distance.

FunkMistress said:

crazyhorse said:

nah, not offended. i guess my point is, it's not easy being sexy, no matter where you butter your bread.

Yep, all the time. But I go to a college with a high gay/lesbian population, so it isn't really surprising . I've always seemed to attract way more women than men

crazyhorse said:

Then why aren't I getting numbers from men?? The girls have more balls I guess.

CarrieLee said:

exactly. most men are intimidated by beautiful women. i just ask her if i'm intrested. confidence is key and women know this.

Only on the org and usually we're talking orgnotes, and he asks first.

foxyflawedhands said:

I do not ask. I take.

not really, and i check out girls quite a bit.

Anxiety said:

I guess it goes all ways because if I go to a gay bar the GAY MEN MOLEST ME!!! Seriously I have never been groped so much in my life!!! Why is that? The only reason I can come up with is that maybe they feel as though they aren't a threat because they're not going to try and come home with me...but keep your hands off my body! I don't care if you're gay or straight, I do not want to be molested on the dance floor thanks!

CarrieLee said:

Gay dudes at gay bars avoid me at all costs.

why is that?

JustErin said:

I guess I'm a magnet for gay people then. I don't mind, and I love dancing with them but when they start to go up my shirt or skirt it's NOT ok.

I realize it's a gay bar and I don't want to hear "you're in their territory deal with it" because I don't discriminate when gays are in a "straight bar". I mean do "straight bars" even exist? I say the more the merrier whatever the hell you are. It's just when the hands get busy...it frustrates the fuck out of me!

If I was all up over them I'd understand...but I'm a mind my own business kinda gal.

CarrieLee said:

Not really.

Only men look at me.
Only homosexual men touch.
Gay women look at my boobs.
Gay men avoid me.
Groups of young girls touch me.

Lawd, this thread is all over the place!

LOL
the gays love me.
constantly tell me that i'm too "well dressed" to be straight or that i'm "confused". LOL

whatever.
doesn't bother me at all.

First off, have you seen the jankity haircuts straight men have?
Where do you get your hair cut, honestly? This is not an insult in any way shape or form, and not directed at you personally, but I bet it's at a barber shop.... a. fate. worse. than. death.


But honestly, I would think that it happens to gays as much as straights. It's just straights would be more sensitive to it, especially American men. American men being to scared to have a 'homo' moment is the primary reason, as Margaret Cho once put it, that straight porn has such ugly ass men in it.

I would think gay men would be far more sensitive to not coming on to a straight guy. Where as men oogling women might get them a rude comment or a slap. A gay man could find himself fatally attacked.
No gay man wants to end his life at the hands of a man with a cheap, jankity ass haircut.

All the time..... you should see my orgnotes...