nakedpianoplayer said:

A woman with a slowhand and a skilled tongue (and I'm not just talking 'bout how she uses it on the meat-and-two-veg; I actually don't get how so many guys are absolutely obsessed with getting their cock sucked - sometimes even to the point of preferring it to fucking ). I also like women who:

• like to put on sexy outfits
  
  
• enjoy the dirty talk (receiving and giving)
  
  
• are vocal in general (e.g. sex w/my ex often involved BDSM roleplay and she used to like to say, "CAN I CUM NOW, SIR?!!!". I found this a huge turn-on, especially when she'd take my hand afterwards and rub it on her pussy to show me how wet she was.)
  
  
• like it rough

Then again, I've also had some really great "slow love" sessions with girlfriends (including the ex mentioned above) - where the emotional intimacy was a huge factor.

But these days, I kinda feel like Norm MacDonald, who's said, "I don't even like to have dinner with someone anymore, never mind all that filthy stuff afterwards."

Also, if you say things like, "Yes, I want to be fucked hard!!!" that's never a bad thing.

"Yes, spank me! Pull my hair! Fuck me in the ass!"...all good things.

Nasty ass sweaty violent degrading sex.

I used to like when I'd arrive to my ex's place and she'd have candles lit and be wearing some really kinky outfit and, as soon as I walked in the door, she'd bend over and say the kinds of things I've mentioned in my last three posts. And, if I felt like nutting in her mouth, she'd swallow every last drop and lick the kid clean.

Ladies: spitting is really bad form. And, if you're gonna suck dick, it helps if you can take the kielbasa all the way down to the base (keep in mind that most men, given their druthers, would ram their cock down your throat and fuck it like it was an anesthetized cooch).

Ace said:

Blowjobs are lame. I've only had one, and it was a wake up one. It felt good and all, but I told her she was way too classy and beautiful to do something like that.

Ace said:

I consider fucking to be more intimate, something that requires a partner that I am very close to. There is something very erotic about oral that isn't present in fucking.

Volitan said:

Spats!

But, seriously... I would never say they're lame, I just don't understand why some guys are so fixated on it. And giving head has nothing to do with how "classy" or "beautiful" you are.

Ace said:

Spitters are quitters!

Deep throating is great, but there is also great talent in working the head properly with your tongue.

Perhaps it's because guys do it differently than girls (who - I've heard - usually have no idea what they're doing).
[Edited 4/7/08 18:22pm]

Have you noticed how the topic says "Men only" and the first to post on it is luv4u?

ArielB said:

VoicesCarry said:

The top of the head of my cock is super, super sensitive and most girls overdo it (in the same way a lot of guys are too rough on a clit at the wrong time).

Ace said:

Blowjobs just strike me as really slutty, and she wasn't....

VoicesCarry said:

demonstration please! now!

Ace said:

Amateurs!

Spookymuffin said:

just like high school i guess i'm the only one on the org that thinks i'm in the closet.

LOL.

ehuffnsd said:

Volitan said:

WTF? Blow jobs are fantastic! Really, WTF?!?

Volitan said:

The RETURN OF SPATS!!!!! We've missed you!!!!!

Volitan said:

Nah nah,..blowjobs are a wonderful thing. Especially if she knows what she's doing. And it's especially great when she knows what u like so she knows what to do and how to do. Personally, I don't like fast paced blowjobs. I like very slow, dragging the tongue across the top blowjobs. I like to see a lot of tongue and a lot of time devoted to the head. Some girls just have it. They know how to do it.

blackguitaristz said:

OTOH, a blow job is like a cup of coffee: it'd take a lot for me to turn one down.

blackguitaristz said:

watch out for them ladyboys, dude.....

nakedpianoplayer said:

Some women that I have been with are just very sexual. Meaning that it's a major turn on when they look at me and I can see the look in their eyes like I'm the only person in the world that they want to be with. Also if their passionate; Passionate in their kissing is a HELLA turn on. A woman who really loves to kiss and actually gets turned on by the act of kissing; that to me is a major turn on. A woman who loves to kiss and is a great kisser is going to be fantastic in bed. Because that's going to carry over into every act. So passionate id the key for me. I've been with good looking women who were a disaster in bed. Horrible. Because they were too caught up in how good they thought they looked. Point is, wonderful body, pretty face, sure. Does it matter? Yes of course. But that alone is going to make it when it comes to good lovemaking. Passion. I also love when a woman is moaning, whimpering, panting, a little cursing, when she grabs my hair, scratches my back and my ass, all of that shit. If I see some bites on my neck and when I hop into the shower and my back is stinging from the little scratches, then cool. And again, if she's really trying to make out with u while you're inside her, and she's twisting and trying to buck u off the bed, that's 4 stars right there.

Volitan said:

"Please don't suck my cock, you're too classy for that."

something that stands out i would have to say fellatio of all

And the sexy outfits is a must

Gots2be said:

shut..the...fuck...up

DanceWme said:

Volitan said:

Ahh, to be young...