Imago said:

DanceWme said:

oh fuck this jankity ass thread!



:dims-the-lights:

Imago said:

Yeah u should know the deal by now!


:whipped cream:


And whoever else (KEN) wants to join.

ok, just take Prince for example . (I can NOT believe I'm using this example in this wasteland of a fan forum).



He's 5'3
He's skinny as all hell.
He looks like Liza Manelli ... and that's BEFORE the makeup.
He just doesn't fit the profile of the 'clasically' good looking male.

But if you go into the 'other' forum (I do NOT recommend that), you'll find legions of folks willing to boil their own children in hot oil, and drink blood for Prince.

DanceWme said:

Between your vagina and ken's asshole, I swear to GAWD I could die the next day and not care.

Imago said:

BTW, my vagina says hi.

May I jump in?

When I was growing up, I was always too skinny, my nose was too big, I had acne, and I had broken my front tooth in 3rd grade. I was teased, esp. in jr. high, about my teeth, my voice (I sound like Demi Moore- and have since I was 13), and my features. There was a group of girls who took pleasure in calling me ugly almost everyday.

Now, at 40, I feel good about myself. That skinny body is long gone, my face has filled out around the nose, my skin has cleared up, and the voice is now considered "sexy". Oh! I got my teeth fixed permanently at 30!
I don't think I even look 40, which also helps my self-esteem. I know I'm no beauty queen, but I know I'm a long way from backinthaday...

Imago said:

OMG

I feel ugly from below my boobs to my thighs but I guess thats my own fault, if only I'd workout and keep myself in shape, I may not be so unhappy Been a lifetime struggle for me

for the most part I really do think that how you feel on the inside about yourself self shows on the outside. there are tons of celebs whom we deem unattractive but their confidence shines through.

Imago said:

DanceWme said:

My asshole does not...

I never felt comfortable with the way I look and until now I'd love to look different. But it's a lot better than when I was younger. I have learned to deal with my insecurities better. We all have them, even the most beautiful people do. Just think of some ladies who have posted here. I'd love to look like Laurel for example, but I never will and I have learned to appreciate what I got. I know I have got style and I know what I have to wear to pretend to be better looking than I actually am .

heybaby said:

Good point. When I feel better about myself, I seem to attract more attention than when I give off the "U don't want to look at me" vibe.

chocolate1 said:

I agree that people who feel confident about themselves are way more attractive than those who are not. Although for whatever reason I attract attention on days when I have the "U don't want to look at me" vibe and don't look good at all, sometimes even more than on days when I really like the way I look . It's strange.

I don't think I know. From the inside out and I've been told so.

heybaby said:

That is true but even when I'm feeling confident, it does not take away fromthe fact that others are considered more physically beautiful to others.

When I say I'm ugly, people take it as a self-esteem issue. It totally is not.

I've finally come to terms with myself. I don't think I'm ugly but I'm certainly no beauty queen. This is as good as it gets. True, I could and should lose a lot of weight but I'd still be of average looks. I'm okay with that. And as far as how men feel about my looks, my attitude is "ya win some, ya lose some."

Stymie said:

It's an issue of people who give others the feeling they are less beautiful. That's ugly IMO.

This is how I see me. Up until I was 4, I was absolutely adorable. I have to find my mom's pictures cuz there is one of me that is so unbelievably cute and then I look at the next 14 years after that and wonder what the hell happened! I got my front teeth knocked out when I was four and they didn't start growing back for 3 years. And when they did they came in mega snaggly. I had braces from 7th grade until after I graduated high school I was 65 pound going into highschool so I was massively much smaller than other boys my age and much smaller than most girls. I was born with the same size head that I have now, I simply had to grow into it Mix all these things together and I was a fucking beast.

When I came out and started dating, I never viewed myself as attractive so it was very hard for me to get with that concept if someone was attracted to me. I didn't believe it was true. Well I have certainly grown into my looks and am pretty comfortable with how I look, however that ugly beast of a kid is always in my head knocking and asking if I remember him and. i. DO! and sometimes I will look in the mirror and go OMG, I look cute today! If I was all that, I'd be able to get any man I wanted any time but it doesn't work that way for me and some say that men are afraid of me because I'm attractive but I don't believe that either. I just don't think most men are interested in me.

PLUS I think there is a conspiracy with the mirror companies! Some mirrors are totally fun house quality and it's not until you look in a flat pure mirror that you see your features and everything else accurately and you realize that you have a fucking clown mirror at home that distorts everything about you this really adds to the problem!
[Edited 4/2/08 9:50am]

evenstar said:

This goes back to the little kid in my head telling me I'm a freak. Same with the overweight girl knocking on the door of your mind yelling Remember me?! Remember? I don't want you to forget me!!

Shut Up!

Stymie said:

Hideous grill? Girl, you have great teeth and the best smile so shut thee the fuck up!

pardonme4livin said:

I went beyond your looks.. I am not that shallow, but then realised you ARE ugly inside..

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

She mos definitely is NOT ugly.. she has a beautiful smile and face, and she is a beautiful person inside too..

Stymie

you people are so fucked up. This is better than cable t.v.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

For real.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

We sometimes refer to a face as a grill in the hood.

Imago said:

you're just now figuring this out?

eVeRsOlEsA said:

for real..

Imago said:

It is cuz you're gonna fuck us anyway despite the love