How things can lure into more streess and pain for one soul, i neec to understand this as i am in bitter confusion!

My mother is scheduled for an operation in 12 days time..and this problem has been occurring for a month or more..she hjas been in and out of hospital maybe 4 times in the last month and a half!! Thank god my elder Sissy she has been strong and givin' out the positive vibes fora ll us three to keep things moving on..

Then all of a sudden , out of random disaster and abrupt intrusion to a day of excitement ( me and my sis were planning to go and watch Brasil play soccer in London) ...She collapsed and had some sort of a seizure..i was alerted by my screaming mother and the taxi driver who founded her on the Floor..
I came and saw my Sister near dead, not moving..still..grey and fixed down to the earth!!
My mother was in hysterics, she was shouting, crying, screaming.. calling my name to help and revive my sister..i came and help my baby girl, and rubbed her back and called her name...and Allah almighty bless, she came through, and in time for the Medics to pull up and take over...

To cut this story short...she went to the Hospital and was checked up, so far she is OK..she's at home , sleeping, resting!!!...Man i do not know what to think or feel, i feel alone and as if i am losing the closest ones to me!!!

I really don't know what to say. I think your sis is ok. Stress does this to you!! I bet she is physically ok and all the pressure you all feel, got to her!! I hope this helps!!

You're not the only one who feels this way. All you can do is be there for everyone, be positive, be thankful for certain things, and remember better times.

I take all the positive things into account..and also question my role to take care of them more than i have been!!

Another thing to this was..i had Kate Bush's Original Demo of "why should i love you" playing during this incident...as i was about to take a shower..then i heard my Mom screaming...the whole scene plagued my whole day and evening!!

Thanks guys!!!!!

Praying for you and your family, man.

Omg....

U will be in my prayers, Purplewisdom...

Most appreciated!!!
It was hard telling this to my closest friends, but i had to let it out.All they could do is give me HOPE, what more can 1 ask for!!

it sounds like your sister had a panic attack, which can be very serious but at least if that's the case, there is some kind of clue as to what caused the incident.

i have been in a situation where i've gone through a lot of repeated family medical trauma and it's really not easy. i wish i had advice, but i think you unfortunately just have to ride through it and make the best decisions you know how given the situations. the only thing i would recommend is to let all your friends and loved ones know what's happening, because their support is golden right now. if it hadn't been for my friends and loved ones during the difficult times i went through, i don't know how i would have gotten through.

good luck and warm thoughts

i will take that and use that for my guide!!!

mucho blesses Anx!!!!

You're not alone, honey. I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this. Like Anx said...don't underestimate the support of your friends and don't be afraid to ask for help - even if it's just an ear to listen or a shoulder to cry on.

Purple...sorry to hear about all of this The only advice I can offer is to surround yourslef with good supportie people and make sure you do something physcially to help release the tension and stress so that you stay strong.

Anxiety said:

a seizure does not mean death! unfortunatly you are now the one with all the stress on your back/heck her seizure could have been an allergic reaction/dont let stress win/you are not alone

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