Do you hold your member when you pee or do you just let it hang and hope for the best? I don't think I'm in the minority when I say I hold it during that process to insure that it is aimed in the urinal/toilet. Depending on the strength of the stream it can be like a runaway hose

I'm asking because I just found out that my brother in law is trying to teach his 3 year old son not to touch it while he is peeing And he was basically yelling at him when he told him no This made me mad because it feels like he is going to attach some kind of shame connected to his penis and I really don't think that 3 years old is too young to learn that kind of lesson. I feel that my brother in law has some major sexual hangup or something.

Dads, is this a concern for you that your son not hold his member when peeing? If so why?.

I have a question too.

How am I supposed to teach my son how to pee standing up?

hold, grab, talk about, point, play, ask, pee, clean, find, explore, compare

all good!

Oh and I encourage my boy to do the same

I'm a holder..

I taught my son to be a holder...

I hate pissy toilets, floors, walls, ceilings, etc...

I've always thought those guys standing at the urinals with their hands on their hips are just assholes...
guys, hold AND aim your stuff...nobody wants to clean up your piss sprinkles...

JustErin said:

Learn fast, it's not that hard.

PREDOMINANT said:

How though?

Do I hold it for him? It's not like I can actually show him how to do it?

JustErin said:

if you have to, hold it for him...or put his hand on it and guide him...

I've always assumed everyone held it. I don't see what's so manly about just letting it dangle.

If you're not holding it and a piss fight breaks out, who's gonna be all wet? Who's manly then?

I find the question of snaking it out the little flap to be more of a mystery.

roodboi said:

It's what I do, the only dif is that he sometimes sees me going, appart from that he needs showing when it happens for him. On that score, either mum or dad can help.

It is more of a light support than "holding it", just keeping it in check. He will be pissing up (and over) walls in no time.

depends how the stream comes out. if it's in the right direction just hanging, I just let it be. If it's hard and needs to be shown the way, I help it.

PREDOMINANT said:

Now yer talkin'!

It would seem to me that one would have to have a smallish unit in order to be able to not hold it while whizzing and maintain a horizontal stream.

Ergo, I hold mine.

PREDOMINANT said:

I asked him a couple of times if he wanted to try it but he gave me a definite "no".

JustErin said:

when Preston was small, he did the same thing...so, I made him start peeing outside if we were out playing...he caught on pretty quick...

roodboi said:

Ok, good idea...I'll have to wait until it's not -40 out though.

JustErin said:

pee-sicles....

JustErin said:

Is he tall enough to reach the bowl?

I have a friend whose son just scored a 1500 on the SAT. Both USC and UCLA want to give him academic scholarships. UCLA went so far as to ask him to graduate early so that he could come to UCLA after his junior year.

But when this boy was five years old, he came inside after a hard afternoon of playing in the yard. His mother immediately determined the boy had pooped his pants. Why? she asked.

"Mom," said the boy, "playing outside is fun. Coming inside to go poo-poo is not fun. Why would I stop doing something fun to do something that's not fun?"

True story.

ArielB said:

Yes. He also has a little step stool.

roodboi said:

Bingo again!

We get lots of no's and probably we will wait untill the summer so he can run around outside uninhibited

if i do pee standing up i have to hold it. because of my accersory the spray can go in many directions if i'm not careful.

JustErin said:

Get a strap on that you can pee through.

Supa, he's an idiot or he doesn't have to clean the bathroom, either way, idiot.

You have to aim or piss goes everywhere.

Sometimes even when aiming, it shoots out in different angles (hole skin stuck together?)

Erin, show him how, haven't you ever wrote your name in the snow with your significant other's dick?

What a great day on the Org, so many topics not covered, labia, cock sizes, nut sacks, oh my...

Slave2daGroove said:

wtf?

No. If I'm holding a dick the last thing I am thinking about is piss.

JustErin said:

Linking rather beautifully to the sexual lactation thread - the org is on fire tonight

For the love of God, hold and aim.

I live with 4 guys and it's pretty obvious one of them thinks it's a grand idea not to control the ol' firehose.

JustErin said:

Ah, ever the romantic... try writing your name in the snow, use cursive though, the stops and starts will test the prostate...

Mars23 said:

DAMNIT!!

Hey, my son is only 7months and he's already discovering his cash and prizes. I don't think I'll have to teach him how to hold them.

That's my boy A chip off the ol' block!

just wait until he wants to, then put his hand on it to show him how to aim - you can put a ping pong ball in the toilet bowl and get him to aim for that, it bobs up and down, usually boys think that is fun, and less piss all over the walls

ZombieKitten said:

Cool. Thanks!