It matters when it's so big you can't walk or talk after the deed.

It matters if you can only use your thumb and index finger on it.

I guess it's the extremes....anything in between is fine with me.

CarrieLee said:

Exactly, and that's what I believe most women think as well.

shanti0608 said:

Imago said:

I will keep that in mind!

JustErin said:

I have been with both..and no it doesn't matter. But once again, those are my thoughts.

Imago said:

MoniGram said:

I guess you have not come face to face with a man who's girth is the size of a coke can. Or the above mentioned "thumb/index finger".....

JustErin said:

you go girl !

CarrieLee said:

CarrieLee said:

Wow...I will sound like a whore after this..but I have been with a man with a very large penis, so large is was painful, and I have dealt with a man who has had a very very small penis. Once again, size still doesn't matter to me. I guess I am just different that way. But whatever floats another person's boat is okay with me.

MoniGram said:

MoniGram said:

You don't sound like a whore at all! But if you say it was painful how could it be good? F that! I mean, don't F that!

Stymie said:

I don't know but all of this talk about penis' is getting me hot.


Who needs the penis really? I can get off without it.

shanti0608 said:

Me, you and Moni?

Stymie said:

count me in too...I've been getting off without penis for years....

Stymie said:

Yes.. now that is HOT!!!!!


Ha!! We can leave the men here to ponder the size of their penis'.

Sorry say what you want but that shit matters

heybaby said:

i was waitin for that

jonylawson said:

heybaby said:

I disagree. Big or small has done jackshit for me. That's the truth.

Stymie said:

That's cus you ain't been with the right man

MoniGram said:

All I'l say is...size does matter!



Sort of.

It depends on the person and their sex partner. Just as there are varying sizes of men penises, women's vaginas vary in size too. I know that while a lot of women find a ultra long penis aesthetically pleasing , the sexual experience actually comes up painful for them. Then again, there are guys with tiny penis lengths (3 inches) that are really thick, and they can make a woman cum every time during sex. Likewise, there are men who are extremely well endowed but are bad lovers, and there are guys who don't measure up to the average male but can do other things to get their woman off.

As for the penis size myth. while black men are larger on average then other races, it is only by about an inch, so for the most part, 98% of men are just large enough to satisfy their partners. There are some people like John Holmes, Tommy Lee, and a number of black porn studs who are nine inches or more, but over time their penis length becomes a disadvantage because it takes longer for those males to become aroused and fully erect. Smoking and bad dietary habits compound that problem, and some of these monster men suddenly get erectile dysfunction.

As for the ladies, some women have really deep vaginas, and even average-sized males may have difficulty pleasing their partners if they don't hit their erogenous areas like the g-spot often enough. Then again, you have women who are so tight and shallow that even a small guy can make their bodies shudder in ecstasy.

Then there's the attraction factor. I have a close female friend who is in an unhappy marriage right now who can't stand to have sex with her husband. She says that he is very well endowed (8 inches) but acts like a mama's boy outside the bedroom, which is a real turnoff to her. She said that he used to make her hot in the bedroom at one time, but other things in the marriage made him repulsive to her.

And one other thing; for all of the talk about how Asian men are so lacking in the sex department, there sure seem to be a lot of Asians on the planet, so these guys must be doing something right.

newpower99 said:

I...I... was not criticizing you my Paul Bunyan

Stymie said:

Well it has for me and small does not cut it. big too the extreme ain't good either. And it sounds like your opinion is based on performance not on size

PREDOMINANT said:

Shut it, Steve.

As far as foreplay making up for lack of (or too much of) size...no amount of foreplay will make up for missing out on some good old fashioned hard fucking. No amount.

But that's just me.

I'd be very disappointed if I just had to rely on things like manual stimulation and oral to get me off.

JustErin said:

NO, it ain't

CalhounSq said:

heybaby said:

What else would I base my opinion on?

Even if it wasn't that, I don't have a preference for size. A guy with four inches may do what a guy with eight can't.

Stymie said:

can't believe I wrote it. Couldn't resist

Penis' do nothing for me either - except my own!