Okay, ya'll I can't take it anymore , when do u say when? Am I supposed 2 deal with hiz CRAZY, EVIL azz nlawz? ???? Later on 0)+>

Shouldn't you be asking HIM this question?

Not here...he'z somewhere drinkin'

I'll be perfectly frank. I'm not sure I understand the question.

Divorce iz n UGLY thing, but it'z also necessary sometimez...wht I'm askin' I guess is when do u REALLY know that ur fed up with the other person?

do you want to get divorced because his inlaws are nuts?

They r a HUGE part of the many problems that we have. Problems come n go nlawz NEVER go away!

Potential in-laws have hastened my departure from a shaky relationship. I hear ya.

ThreadBare said:

for real?

JasmineFire said:

It was shaky because of the relationship. But there were some really weird dynamics there (that had nothing to do with me) that made me take a long, hard look.

No one's family's perfect (mine certainly isn't), but there were some very real issues there that weren't being addressed.

thanks for that...my siuation iz THREE years old n it 4 what ever reasonz, it'z not solved. It should'nt even b n issue but it iz. MY husband WILL NOT wake up when it comez 2 matters dealin' with hiz sister. Here'z the problem.

Do you have kids with him?

Yez...thus more complication of the whole matter

solandsky said:

i really like your avvie, btw. it's one of my favorite prince and vanity pics.

dysfunctional, passionate love...

I just have a really strong feelin' that I HAVE 2 let him go....he'z n azz

solandsky said:

Hey, my potential in-law situation was different... orgnote.

Consult a lawyer for advice as well as your legal rights.

JasmineFire said:

oh I wouldn't worry, I'm sure your folks are really nice

Hey...you shouldn't do anything hasty or while your in an emotional state. Divorce is neccessary sometimes, but it really, really sucks and a lot of the time people don't fully heal afterwards. Definitely, find somebody you trust that isn't biased to really help you get a handle on what you are dealing with (ummmmm....by the way....you best friend is probably biased in your favor).

Divorce is such an immense step, I say make sure you have exhausted everything before you go there. And if you get a lawyer, don't let them push you into aggressiveness if that isn't your style. Lawyers sometimes cause things to become uglier than they need to be, simply because they hate the other lawyer and that transfers to your relationship with your soon to be ex, and causes everyone to spend more money on fighting using.....lawyers.

By the way...are there kids involved? If there are kids involved, you REALLY need to take a deep breath and examine, re-examine, and then look even harder at your situation.

solandsky said:

bring him to the org so he can distract himself from the issue by orgnoting people he doesnt know in attempt to feel less guilty inside by pretending to be someone he's not.

royalshyness said:

is that working for you?

Aw, Che sorry to hear you feel so crappy.
Before you take a leap to divorce, is there absolutely NO hope for him?

Tried 2 talk 2 him 2day , now I'm SUPER PISSED . Thankz ya'll 4 lisening 2 me, n some great advice, although I'm still very confused ??? Later on 0)+>

solandsky said:

Honey, you're the only one that knows when enough is enough. If that's what needs to be done then do it. Now, you know, that as soon as he finds out that you don't want to deal with him anymore he's going to be beggin you to come back. Don't give in, if that's what you really want to do.

Kinda been there.....definately did that.

INSATIABLE said:

I think what you're really trying to say is that you don't understand this person's writing.



Why the hell get married anyway?

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

if someone doesnt appreciate you until you leave them, they've got more holes in their character than a golf course.

royalshyness said:

A - Men!!!!!

I guess ur right miguelgomez, I know that right now my emotionz r on a ROLLER COASTER I can't think straight. I did decide 2 have a meeting with hiz BITCH AZZ sister, n I'm NOT gonna b nice I'm gonna tear n 2 her azz, because nobody haz ever done it b4...she REALLY iz ALOT of the problem. N if my huzband won't tell her about herself then it'z LONG over due time 4 me 2! I have 2 let go of all of thiz anger that I have nside of me, n the only way I c fit iz by REALLY hurtin' her feelin'z, it may not b right , but it'z what'z gonna have 2 happen. I feel like it will help me heal...nothin' like a good cussin' out

solandsky said:

ley him do his own dirtywork and clean up his own gaddam mess. u keep babying him like that he's only gunna get weaker.

I dunno know about babyin' anybody but I am gonna cuss her out 4 me, trust