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Reply #30 posted 03/19/08 3:31pm

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No. No one is forcing the women to be there. They're on that set because they wanna be there. women get paid more, get to call the shots, etc, etc. No one's forcing them to be there.
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Reply #31 posted 03/19/08 3:35pm

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I say no. People make a choice to be in it and are compensated. And why don't we ever worry about men being exploited by porn? Men get paid a lot less than women in straight porn, and gay-for-pay straight men are doing something that they're theoretically not into at all.
In my opinion, men are not exploited in straight porn. It's all pleasure for them. They are the ones inflicting pain/discomfort, getting but not giving. It's a win/win situation for them.


WTF? Women like sex too. Is it so far of a stretch to think that women are in it for pleasure too?
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Reply #32 posted 03/19/08 3:46pm

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If anyone watched the Pornucopia series, they would know the men are the exploited ones. Most of the women agreed it was a woman's industry. The woman controls who she sleeps with and what she will and won't do
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Reply #33 posted 03/19/08 4:13pm

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My initial thought is that anyone involved in pornography makes a choice to do so, and therefore no. But purely from an aesthetic viewpoint, it's hard to argue otherwise.
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Reply #34 posted 03/19/08 4:18pm

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Everybody involved in porn is exploited to a degree.
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Reply #35 posted 03/19/08 4:24pm

Dance

Janfriend said:

If anyone watched the Pornucopia series, they would know the men are the exploited ones. Most of the women agreed it was a woman's industry. The woman controls who she sleeps with and what she will and won't do



All the female porn stars say that.

They aren't so quick to tell you how when they sign on to do the films it's only after they've banged 498576984577464857 different industry dudes they had no desire to sleep with AND that in order to continue they have to offer their bodies up like this at any time(fuckin for tracks times ten)and that's NOT on the set. Rape, brutal sex, and physical abuse are common in these situations. It's sex slavery they consent to and it's not limited to the industry. These girls are "working" everywhere.

The only thing these women control is whether or not they want to be in the industry. With men it's pretty much the same way.
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Reply #36 posted 03/19/08 4:36pm

ZombieKitten

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My initial thought is that anyone involved in pornography makes a choice to do so, and therefore no. But purely from an aesthetic viewpoint, it's hard to argue otherwise.


I think some girls got into it kind of by circumstance. Not exactly what they meant to be doing with their lives. The money ends up being too good to hold down a normal job after that.
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Reply #37 posted 03/19/08 4:38pm

Dance

ZombieKitten said:

violator said:

My initial thought is that anyone involved in pornography makes a choice to do so, and therefore no. But purely from an aesthetic viewpoint, it's hard to argue otherwise.


I think some girls got into it kind of by circumstance. Not exactly what they meant to be doing with their lives. The money ends up being too good to hold down a normal job after that.


That's kind of like saying,"I'm only stripping to pay for college."

Not so much.
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Reply #38 posted 03/19/08 4:43pm

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Dance said:

ZombieKitten said:



I think some girls got into it kind of by circumstance. Not exactly what they meant to be doing with their lives. The money ends up being too good to hold down a normal job after that.


That's kind of like saying,"I'm only stripping to pay for college."

Not so much.


substitute college with substance abuse
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Reply #39 posted 03/19/08 4:50pm

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ZombieKitten said:

Dance said:



That's kind of like saying,"I'm only stripping to pay for college."

Not so much.


substitute college with substance abuse

not everyone infront of the camera has substance abuse issues or high.
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Reply #40 posted 03/19/08 4:51pm

Dance

ZombieKitten said:

Dance said:



That's kind of like saying,"I'm only stripping to pay for college."

Not so much.


substitute college with substance abuse


In some cases, but the majority are girls with a mess of problems that don't include that. They'd be there even if they never touched that stuff.
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Reply #41 posted 03/19/08 4:51pm

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ZombieKitten said:

Dance said:



That's kind of like saying,"I'm only stripping to pay for college."

Not so much.


substitute college with substance abuse


nod I think any career that is youth oriented also exploits. Even professional sports. It doesn't matter how much you're paid, they use you up and spit you out--literally in porn!
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Reply #42 posted 03/19/08 4:53pm

ZombieKitten

ehuffnsd said:

ZombieKitten said:



substitute college with substance abuse

not everyone infront of the camera has substance abuse issues or high.


no not everyone, but many, right? If we are making broad generalising statements that "women are in control, they are getting paid well, they want to do this" for every one of those there is one who is ashamed, lonely, lost and under pressure with a generous serve of self-loathing, not to mention any drugs they may or may not be using sigh
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Reply #43 posted 03/19/08 4:54pm

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728huey said:

Dance said:
Porn is as old as dirt, and one of the biggest industries out there, so we're all(regardless of gender)buying and watching. Hell the net is pretty much just Porntube.

It's not exactly empowering, but to call it that is going too far. Compare the lifestyles of these women and men with some poor young man or woman in a foreign country who's parents sell them into sex slavery or prostitute them or who just get kidnapped. NOT EVEN CLOSE.

But pretty much everyone who's involved in porn, male and female, has a history of abuse. There are no well-adjusted people who do porn.

There are exceptions, those people who've almost been forced into it by whatever situation they're in...but that isn't true for the majority


While I agree that there are a lot of people who willingly get into porn and even get their kicks out of being porn superstars, you're right in that just about all professional porn stars have some type of horrible back story involving abuse, neglect, addiction, or molestation. It's finding out about this stuff that turned me from an excited fan to an ambivalent viewer of porn. It's hard to enjoy the fantasy of those sex scenes when you know that the performers are basically psychologically damaged in some form.

The other sightly more disturbing development in porn is the creation of gonzo movies, or what should really be called "jack crack". It used to be that there would be at least an attempt to create a plotline in a porn movie, however flimsy it was, but now there are massive subgenres of pornos that go straight into the sex act and dispense with any plot whatsoever. Now you get videos like "Anal Assassins", "Big Black Booties", or "Cum Sucking Sluts" that are made just for primarily male viewers to use as a sexual aid. That's not to say that some of these aren't hot; some of them are especially hot drooling ; but it gives people a highly distorted and cheap view of sexuality that even sexually healthy and highly horny people can't live up to.

typing


Gonzo is not made just for men. Most women I know have no interest in plot lines. They just tune in for the sex. I don't know anyone who bothers with those storyline porn movies - everyone watches gonzo.
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Reply #44 posted 03/19/08 4:55pm

ZombieKitten

JustErin said:

728huey said:

Dance said:

While I agree that there are a lot of people who willingly get into porn and even get their kicks out of being porn superstars, you're right in that just about all professional porn stars have some type of horrible back story involving abuse, neglect, addiction, or molestation. It's finding out about this stuff that turned me from an excited fan to an ambivalent viewer of porn. It's hard to enjoy the fantasy of those sex scenes when you know that the performers are basically psychologically damaged in some form.

The other sightly more disturbing development in porn is the creation of gonzo movies, or what should really be called "jack crack". It used to be that there would be at least an attempt to create a plotline in a porn movie, however flimsy it was, but now there are massive subgenres of pornos that go straight into the sex act and dispense with any plot whatsoever. Now you get videos like "Anal Assassins", "Big Black Booties", or "Cum Sucking Sluts" that are made just for primarily male viewers to use as a sexual aid. That's not to say that some of these aren't hot; some of them are especially hot drooling ; but it gives people a highly distorted and cheap view of sexuality that even sexually healthy and highly horny people can't live up to.

typing


Gonzo is not made just for men. Most women I know have no interest in plot lines. They just tune in for the sex. I don't know anyone who bothers with those storyline porn movies - everyone watches gonzo.


I HATE plotlines - bad acting is a turn-off barf
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Reply #45 posted 03/19/08 5:00pm

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ZombieKitten said:

ehuffnsd said:


not everyone infront of the camera has substance abuse issues or high.


no not everyone, but many, right? If we are making broad generalising statements that "women are in control, they are getting paid well, they want to do this" for every one of those there is one who is ashamed, lonely, lost and under pressure with a generous serve of self-loathing, not to mention any drugs they may or may not be using sigh

i never stated women are in control. i've only mentioned the expection Jenna Jameson and that men are explotied in gay porn.

in the end humans exploted each other all the time
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Reply #46 posted 03/19/08 5:03pm

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ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:



Gonzo is not made just for men. Most women I know have no interest in plot lines. They just tune in for the sex. I don't know anyone who bothers with those storyline porn movies - everyone watches gonzo.


I HATE plotlines - bad acting is a turn-off barf


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Reply #47 posted 03/19/08 5:04pm

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JustErin said:

728huey said:

Dance said:

While I agree that there are a lot of people who willingly get into porn and even get their kicks out of being porn superstars, you're right in that just about all professional porn stars have some type of horrible back story involving abuse, neglect, addiction, or molestation. It's finding out about this stuff that turned me from an excited fan to an ambivalent viewer of porn. It's hard to enjoy the fantasy of those sex scenes when you know that the performers are basically psychologically damaged in some form.

The other sightly more disturbing development in porn is the creation of gonzo movies, or what should really be called "jack crack". It used to be that there would be at least an attempt to create a plotline in a porn movie, however flimsy it was, but now there are massive subgenres of pornos that go straight into the sex act and dispense with any plot whatsoever. Now you get videos like "Anal Assassins", "Big Black Booties", or "Cum Sucking Sluts" that are made just for primarily male viewers to use as a sexual aid. That's not to say that some of these aren't hot; some of them are especially hot drooling ; but it gives people a highly distorted and cheap view of sexuality that even sexually healthy and highly horny people can't live up to.

typing


Gonzo is not made just for men. Most women I know have no interest in plot lines. They just tune in for the sex. I don't know anyone who bothers with those storyline porn movies - everyone watches gonzo.


yup. i have zero interest in plotlines or any of that bullshit, just get to the sex please. nod
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Reply #48 posted 03/19/08 5:05pm

ZombieKitten

ehuffnsd said:

ZombieKitten said:



no not everyone, but many, right? If we are making broad generalising statements that "women are in control, they are getting paid well, they want to do this" for every one of those there is one who is ashamed, lonely, lost and under pressure with a generous serve of self-loathing, not to mention any drugs they may or may not be using sigh

i never stated women are in control. i've only mentioned the expection Jenna Jameson and that men are explotied in gay porn.

in the end humans exploted each other all the time


Yes, though I mean anyone who says that.

I would be very interested in your views on the porn industry nod
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Reply #49 posted 03/19/08 5:13pm

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ZombieKitten said:

ehuffnsd said:


not everyone infront of the camera has substance abuse issues or high.


no not everyone, but many, right? If we are making broad generalising statements that "women are in control, they are getting paid well, they want to do this" for every one of those there is one who is ashamed, lonely, lost and under pressure with a generous serve of self-loathing, not to mention any drugs they may or may not be using sigh


yes for every Tara Patrick & Jenna Jameson there are a hundred young (perhaps previously) abused girls on drugs getting screwed by a gang of sleazy men for hardly any money.
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Reply #50 posted 03/19/08 5:13pm

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ZombieKitten said:

ehuffnsd said:


i never stated women are in control. i've only mentioned the expection Jenna Jameson and that men are explotied in gay porn.

in the end humans exploted each other all the time


Yes, though I mean anyone who says that.

I would be very interested in your views on the porn industry nod


i have views more on certain studios more than on the industry. i know several people that work infront and behind the cameras at almost every single major gay studio and many of the smaller ones. i can see both sides of the coin. my own exploits in the industry some have been positive others have been negative but most of the people are good people but because of the way society is we tend to view sex nudity and other things as seedy.
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Reply #51 posted 03/19/08 5:14pm

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NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:



no not everyone, but many, right? If we are making broad generalising statements that "women are in control, they are getting paid well, they want to do this" for every one of those there is one who is ashamed, lonely, lost and under pressure with a generous serve of self-loathing, not to mention any drugs they may or may not be using sigh


yes for every Tara Patrick & Jenna Jameson there are a hundred young (perhaps previously) abused girls on drugs getting screwed by a gang of sleazy men for hardly any money.

from what i know about straight porn, women do make more...
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Reply #52 posted 03/19/08 5:18pm

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ehuffnsd said:

ZombieKitten said:



Yes, though I mean anyone who says that.

I would be very interested in your views on the porn industry nod


i have views more on certain studios more than on the industry. i know several people that work infront and behind the cameras at almost every single major gay studio and many of the smaller ones. i can see both sides of the coin. my own exploits in the industry some have been positive others have been negative but most of the people are good people but because of the way society is we tend to view sex nudity and other things as seedy.


so basically, if you get in with the right studio, that's well regulated, with a family atmosphere and good support network, you are in an empowered situation and can call the shots. Are there really such places that operate totally professionally and treat their employees very well? (I would imagine that should be on the rise, but perhaps not).
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Reply #53 posted 03/19/08 5:20pm

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ehuffnsd said:

NDRU said:



yes for every Tara Patrick & Jenna Jameson there are a hundred young (perhaps previously) abused girls on drugs getting screwed by a gang of sleazy men for hardly any money.

from what i know about straight porn, women do make more...


yes I know, but is "more" really enough? Women get paid more, but men have longer careers.
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Reply #54 posted 03/19/08 5:32pm

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DesertEskimo said:

ehuffnsd said:



i have views more on certain studios more than on the industry. i know several people that work infront and behind the cameras at almost every single major gay studio and many of the smaller ones. i can see both sides of the coin. my own exploits in the industry some have been positive others have been negative but most of the people are good people but because of the way society is we tend to view sex nudity and other things as seedy.


so basically, if you get in with the right studio, that's well regulated, with a family atmosphere and good support network, you are in an empowered situation and can call the shots. Are there really such places that operate totally professionally and treat their employees very well? (I would imagine that should be on the rise, but perhaps not).


yeah there are some really great family studios that treat their models extrememly well. several gay studios are strongly antidrug on set, or as best as they can, because it messes with the quality of the video. the studios do realize their income does come from the welfare of the models. they have to have a product.
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Reply #55 posted 03/19/08 5:33pm

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NDRU said:

ehuffnsd said:


from what i know about straight porn, women do make more...


yes I know, but is "more" really enough? Women get paid more, but men have longer careers.

when porn is geared to the males, who are more visual creatures than women, they have to keep changing up the models the male is attracted to ensure they contiune buying new product and don't get bored. it's knowning your market. there times myself where if find myself going on no not so and so again in another movie.
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Reply #56 posted 03/19/08 5:34pm

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ehuffnsd said:

DesertEskimo said:



so basically, if you get in with the right studio, that's well regulated, with a family atmosphere and good support network, you are in an empowered situation and can call the shots. Are there really such places that operate totally professionally and treat their employees very well? (I would imagine that should be on the rise, but perhaps not).


yeah there are some really great family studios that treat their models extrememly well. several gay studios are strongly antidrug on set, or as best as they can, because it messes with the quality of the video. the studios do realize their income does come from the welfare of the models. they have to have a product.


exactly, and I hope more studios come to realise this.
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Reply #57 posted 03/19/08 5:36pm

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ehuffnsd said:

NDRU said:



yes I know, but is "more" really enough? Women get paid more, but men have longer careers.

when porn is geared to the males, who are more visual creatures than women, they have to keep changing up the models the male is attracted to ensure they contiune buying new product and don't get bored. it's knowning your market. there times myself where if find myself going on no not so and so again in another movie.


I understand that, definitely, but again that doesn't rule out exploitation. It's the nature of the business, but that business may still exploit young women.
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Reply #58 posted 03/19/08 5:37pm

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DesertEskimo said:

ehuffnsd said:



yeah there are some really great family studios that treat their models extrememly well. several gay studios are strongly antidrug on set, or as best as they can, because it messes with the quality of the video. the studios do realize their income does come from the welfare of the models. they have to have a product.


exactly, and I hope more studios come to realise this.


honestly i think most do. but can a studio control what a model does in his or her free time? when models escort or dance they aren't always working for the studios. unless it's tied to promo of a movie. is it the studios fault that only certain types of people are attracted to working in the industry?
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Reply #59 posted 03/19/08 5:38pm

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NDRU said:

ehuffnsd said:


when porn is geared to the males, who are more visual creatures than women, they have to keep changing up the models the male is attracted to ensure they contiune buying new product and don't get bored. it's knowning your market. there times myself where if find myself going on no not so and so again in another movie.


I understand that, definitely, but again that doesn't rule out exploitation. It's the nature of the business, but that business may still exploit young women.

who's fault is it? the industry? the girls? or the people buying the porn?
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