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Thread started 03/18/08 1:41am

matt

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30 is the new 20

Or am I just telling myself that so I don't feel old? hmmm
Please note: effective March 21, 2010, I've stepped down from my prince.org Moderator position.
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Reply #1 posted 03/18/08 1:57am

Spookymuffin

You're just lying to yourself. nod
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Reply #2 posted 03/18/08 2:20am

ZombieKitten

Spookymuffin said:

You're just lying to yourself. nod

19 is the new 11 nod
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Reply #3 posted 03/18/08 2:57am

PANDURITO

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matt said:

'30 is the new 20'

Damned crisis pout
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Reply #4 posted 03/18/08 3:01am

Ocean

matt said:

Or am I just telling myself that so I don't feel old? hmmm

I'm with u neutral
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Reply #5 posted 03/18/08 3:06am

PANDURITO

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I meant, happy birthday Matt smile
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Reply #6 posted 03/18/08 3:22am

matt

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Thanks! smile
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Reply #7 posted 03/18/08 3:26am

Ocean

matt said:

Thanks! smile

Yes..Happy Birthday love...welcome to the team hug
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Reply #8 posted 03/18/08 3:42am

Imago

matt stop kidding yourself. You're not that fun spirited. disbelief
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Reply #9 posted 03/18/08 3:43am

abierman

37 is the new 17.....watch it, Dan! mad
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Reply #10 posted 03/18/08 3:45am

Ocean

abierman said:

37 is the new 17.....watch it, Dan! mad

woot! batting eyes
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Reply #11 posted 03/18/08 3:59am

Imago

abierman said:

37 is the new 17.....watch it, Dan! mad

That's what I tried to tell my ex-girlfriend last year when I was trying to convince her it would be a good idea for us to try and adopt this 17 year old Korean girl from overseas.
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Reply #12 posted 03/18/08 4:04am

Sander

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at the top of my page it says:

"Welcome to "the org", Sander… if I see 11, U can say it's 7. "

Weird.

Anyway, happy birthday senior Mod, sr.
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Reply #13 posted 03/18/08 4:12am

abierman

Imago said:

abierman said:

37 is the new 17.....watch it, Dan! mad

That's what I tried to tell my ex-girlfriend last year when I was trying to convince her it would be a good idea for us to try and adopt this 17 year old Korean girl from overseas.



wacky
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Reply #14 posted 03/18/08 5:24am

CarrieMpls

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Happy birthday, Matt!


woot!
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Reply #15 posted 03/18/08 6:15am

newpower99

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No Its 40 is the new 30, damnit ! mad


lol


Happy B-day!
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Reply #16 posted 03/18/08 6:19am

Spookymuffin

doh! Damnit! Happy Birthday!
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Reply #17 posted 03/18/08 6:19am

Imago

newpower99 said:

No Its 40 is the new 30, damnit ! mad


lol


Happy B-day!

lick
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Reply #18 posted 03/18/08 6:20am

Mach

rose Happy Day
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Reply #19 posted 03/18/08 6:21am

newpower99

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Imago said:

newpower99 said:

No Its 40 is the new 30, damnit ! mad


lol


Happy B-day!

lick


THE best 2 1/2 hours of your life .
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Reply #20 posted 03/18/08 6:55am

Imago

newpower99 said:

Imago said:


lick


THE best 2 1/2 hours of your life .
[Edited 3/18/08 6:21am]


I'm a fucking believer. lol
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Reply #21 posted 03/18/08 7:26am

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People just need to accept their age and grow the fuck up.
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Reply #22 posted 03/18/08 7:30am

Imago

Genesia said:

People just need to accept their age and grow the fuck up.

I can't wait until I'm 40 lol

The 30s were so tumultuous and stressful. I can't imagine being 40 could be worse.


Plus men in their 40s are drool
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Reply #23 posted 03/18/08 7:34am

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Genesia said:

People just need to accept their age and grow the fuck up.


How are 30 somethings supposed to act anyway?
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Reply #24 posted 03/18/08 7:45am

Genesia

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Imago said:

Genesia said:

People just need to accept their age and grow the fuck up.

I can't wait until I'm 40 lol

The 30s were so tumultuous and stressful. I can't imagine being 40 could be worse.


Plus men in their 40s are drool


One of my friends (we've known each other for almost 20 years) always said she couldn't wait to turn 30...because she felt like that's when people finally started to get their shit together. lol

Both of us had a terrible time in our 20s. Job insecurity (so no money), bad guy choices, etc. The 30s were better for both of us...and the 40s better still. cool
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Reply #25 posted 03/18/08 7:53am

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JustErin said:

Genesia said:

People just need to accept their age and grow the fuck up.


How are 30 somethings supposed to act anyway?


I'm not trying to lay out any specific behavior. People are individuals and can make their own choices.

But "extended adolescence" seems to be becoming a rather pervasive phenomenon. It used to be that high school actually prepared people to assume adult roles. Now, you're considered a "kid" until you're out of college - or even longer than that, if you move back home with mommy and daddy.

30 may be the new 20 in terms of how people think and behave. But it is not the same as 20 biologically - especially for women.
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Genesia said:

JustErin said:



How are 30 somethings supposed to act anyway?


I'm not trying to lay out any specific behavior. People are individuals and can make their own choices.

But "extended adolescence" seems to be becoming a rather pervasive phenomenon. It used to be that high school actually prepared people to assume adult roles. Now, you're considered a "kid" until you're out of college - or even longer than that, if you move back home with mommy and daddy.

30 may be the new 20 in terms of how people think and behave. But it is not the same as 20 biologically - especially for women.


Ahhhh....I see what you're saying.

It's interesting. I always looked at myself as one of those 30 somethings that was stuck in their adolescent years but just this weekend a friend of mine told me that when she first met me she thought that I was in my early 20s and couldn't understand how someone so young could be so together and confident - not interested at all in trying to make people like me, just being me, take it or leave it. When she found out I was a single mom (like her) she was even more surprised. Then she found out my age and said it made more sense.

I had to laugh because I never, ever looked at myself that way.

I have many male friends that are in their 30s or almost 30 who are stuck in this forever young role. I kinda thought I was in that same rut. shrug
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Reply #27 posted 03/18/08 8:11am

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Happy Birthday Matt! biggrin
It's a mess, ain't it, sheriff?
If it ain't, it'll do till the mess gets here
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Reply #28 posted 03/18/08 8:13am

Genesia

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JustErin said:

Genesia said:



I'm not trying to lay out any specific behavior. People are individuals and can make their own choices.

But "extended adolescence" seems to be becoming a rather pervasive phenomenon. It used to be that high school actually prepared people to assume adult roles. Now, you're considered a "kid" until you're out of college - or even longer than that, if you move back home with mommy and daddy.

30 may be the new 20 in terms of how people think and behave. But it is not the same as 20 biologically - especially for women.


Ahhhh....I see what you're saying.

It's interesting. I always looked at myself as one of those 30 somethings that was stuck in their adolescent years but just this weekend a friend of mine told me that when she first met me she thought that I was in my early 20s and couldn't understand how someone so young could be so together and confident - not interested at all in trying to make people like me, just being me, take it or leave it. When she found out I was a single mom (like her) she was even more surprised. Then she found out my age and said it made more sense.

I had to laugh because I never, ever looked at myself that way.

I have many male friends that are in their 30s or almost 30 who are stuck in this forever young role. I kinda thought I was in that same rut. shrug


I don't think there is anything wrong with maintaining a "youthful outlook." (People think I'm younger than I am, too.) I just believe that it's possible to strike a happy medium. You can handle your business like an adult without becoming a nooge. lol
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Reply #29 posted 03/18/08 8:22am

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JustErin said:

Genesia said:



I'm not trying to lay out any specific behavior. People are individuals and can make their own choices.

But "extended adolescence" seems to be becoming a rather pervasive phenomenon. It used to be that high school actually prepared people to assume adult roles. Now, you're considered a "kid" until you're out of college - or even longer than that, if you move back home with mommy and daddy.

30 may be the new 20 in terms of how people think and behave. But it is not the same as 20 biologically - especially for women.


Ahhhh....I see what you're saying.

It's interesting. I always looked at myself as one of those 30 somethings that was stuck in their adolescent years but just this weekend a friend of mine told me that when she first met me she thought that I was in my early 20s and couldn't understand how someone so young could be so together and confident - not interested at all in trying to make people like me, just being me, take it or leave it. When she found out I was a single mom (like her) she was even more surprised. Then she found out my age and said it made more sense.

I had to laugh because I never, ever looked at myself that way.

I have many male friends that are in their 30s or almost 30 who are stuck in this forever young role. I kinda thought I was in that same rut. shrug



I hear you 100% Erin . I just turned 40 last year and honestly couldnt be happier . Ive always maintainted a youthful attitude all through my 30's and now . and dont think im a nooge about it. I know sometimes on here I can come across that way. But yes being a parent forces you to strike that equal balance , having 2 kids myself. It keeps you in check and focused on whats really important in life.
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