CarrieLee said:

His teeth are really yellow. eww!

If you would post more videos, perhaps we could get a better feel for your personality and help you better.

Mars23 said:

My "personality" eh?

JustErin said:

Yea, you could talk to us and explain what you like while doing whatever else you saw fit to do in the video. I posted an idea on Imago's nerd thread for costuming.

My idea of hot isn't in sync with many others so I really wouldn't know. What IS true though is that I'm terribly biased - if I see a hot guy I can't help thinking that he's dumb, or at least not spent any energy on getting book-smart so to speak. It helps a lot cos I can't stand dumb people.
I've had bf's in the past that _I_ thought was hotter than anything but my best friend was like Then she and I hung in different circles, I was with the long-haired geeky LARP/RPG crowd and she likes muscles. That explains a lot.

My idea of hot isn't in sync with many others so I really wouldn't know. What IS true though is that I'm terribly biased - if I see a hot guy I can't help thinking that he's dumb, or at least not spent any energy on getting book-smart so to speak. It helps a lot cos I can't stand dumb people.
I've had bf's in the past that _I_ thought was hotter than anything but my best friend was like Then she and I hung in different circles, I was with the long-haired geeky LARP/RPG crowd and she likes muscles. That explains a lot.

Teacher said:

So you're saying my voice is really jankity but that you have specific tastes.

Maybe my hot isn't in sync either. I dunno.

I can't do the whole hot but dumb thing though. These guys aren't dumb...actually, they are always very intelligent.

They're just not boyfriend material cuz they are all over the place...and always extremely self-centered.

JustErin said:

I know what you mean, I didn't express myself very clearly. It's exactly that but I'd like to add that I find them dumb solely because they are that self-centered. I find them dumb because they don't understand that they won't be able to sail on those looks until people find out they're intelligent for that much longer, we all age. You know? I have very specific and probably incorrect definitions of "dumb" though, but self-centered is def one.
Did you try online dating services? If they're all over the place you can usually tell when their attention span wavers.

Stop letting guys mess you around.

That's all.

I tried online dating once...but deleted my profile within a week as the people who contacted me scared the shit outta me.

It's not that I am unhappy not being in a relationship...I'm fine with that. I am just frustrated that I have not been able to let go of certain guys because I am totally weak when it comes to them.

Imago said:

MISSISSIPPI.

WSAMP.

GIRL! P.

I am MADLY falling for somebody right now. The past 2 weeks have been blissful, and we've talked at length. One thing I can say for sure, is that despite me finding this person attractive, it's all about personality. It trumps EVERYTHING.

Falling for somebody just for looks, which I've done before, was always about self-worth to me. It felt that I DESERVED this or that level of person with regards to looks. At my age, self-worth is really something I should have had to begin with, and wanting someone who has sweet attributes regardless if they're a model or eye candy, is far more important.

I love beuatiful people. I always have. They give me inspiration to get in they gym and to keep myself up, or to get back in shape. But they don't make me happy.

That's not to say I wouldn't shag the shit out of rushing07, newpower99, Threadcula, Fauxie, Monigram, Jess, Jerseykrs, SpoolyMuffin, pardonme4livin, Ocean, Anxiety, CarrieMpls, Stax, Statuesque, Dancewme, VoicesCarry, and a few dozen other people though. It just means, looks , ultimately, really aren't all that to me anymore.

JustErin said:

I recognise that but from the Org, when I re-joined as the Org turned grey/purple and filled out my profile I got some seriously scary shit, including "you're the woman of my dreams, let me take you to the Celebration in MPLS"....I hadn't posted a pic, I said I was in a long term relationship...

You don't seem the weak type to me, do they make you feel that good about yourself when you're with them or are you just afraid of being what you equal to be lonely? Just asking, I have no idea.

i think you just need to let fate do its thing and one day you'll meet some guy who kicks your ass and you'll think he's the sexgod of the universe, and you'll be so loveblind that you won't understand when all your friends start asking you why you're dating such a nasty looking fugburger. this happened to me once, with someone i was with for three years. i thought he was the hottest thing going, and after we broke up, all my friends came forward and admitted they thought he was ugly and skanktrocious (not in a good way). in retrospect, i guess he was pretty gruesome, but at the time i thought i was the luckiest boy in puppetland.

While he wouldn't have to be drop dead gorgeous ...I would have to be attracted to him or it simply wouldn't work....it is just as well we all have different taste and different things attract us physically

I'm more attracted to quirks, personality and then looks. I think that most of the time looks or not you'll know if there is some kind of chemistry right away. If your not feelin someone like that I wouldn't force it to keep from being shallow. Its a waste of time for you and that person.

heybaby said:

I just feel like I am missing out on some really great people because I am not feeling them in that way...know what I mean?

But I can't change it.

emm said:

I don't really care about body.

I fall in love (in lust) with a face - everytime.

Don't get me wrong...these guys are not total morons or stupid idiots. They're just not turning out to be anything special.

JustErin said:

What would make them special?

Beauty fades. Time will end up forcing you to look past their looks.