Imago said:

you lie. or was that fear
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ermm..go for a guy who has both.

LleeLlee said:

or just keep the ridiculously hot ones around for sex and don't tolerate any of their crap.

LleeLlee said:

Well, yes, as stymie said as well....that is the goal.

I guess what I am saying is that I tend to let those hot boys hang around even when I know they are giving me nothing in return and don't really care for me that much.

There is a better way.

Just a reminder!

would it be a plus if he likes to choke you during sex?

I am MADLY falling for somebody right now. The past 2 weeks have been blissful, and we've talked at length. One thing I can say for sure, is that despite me finding this person attractive, it's all about personality. It trumps EVERYTHING.

Falling for somebody just for looks, which I've done before, was always about self-worth to me. It felt that I DESERVED this or that level of person with regards to looks. At my age, self-worth is really something I should have had to begin with, and wanting someone who has sweet attributes regardless if they're a model or eye candy, is far more important.

I love beuatiful people. I always have. They give me inspiration to get in they gym and to keep myself up, or to get back in shape. But they don't make me happy.

That's not to say I wouldn't shag the shit out of rushing07, newpower99, Threadcula, Fauxie, Monigram, Jess, Jerseykrs, SpoolyMuffin, pardonme4livin, Ocean, Anxiety, CarrieMpls, Stax, Statuesque, Dancewme, VoicesCarry, and a few dozen other people though. It just means, looks , ultimately, really aren't all that to me anymore.

the hottest guy with the best body can turn ugly really quick when he starts speaking


you can go for a round or two
just to get it out of your system
but that ride isn't any fun any longer than that.

Stop letting guys mess you around.

That's all.

CarrieMpls said:

this from someone who will eat someone else's left over pie, because he said so

CarrieMpls said:

this from someone who will eat someone else's left over pie, because he said so

Just keep doing what you're doing.
Eventually, you'll get sick & tired of it, & start becoming a deeper person.
And if not, then you can at least become a great example for others of the ill-effects of dating people based mostly on looks.

Either way, somebody wins at the end.

Talking.
So.
Which Orger?

PaisleyPark5083 said:

And that , folks, is how you PWN somebody on the org








Carrie, I love you

Stop letting guys mess you around.

That's all.

Imago said:

Ripe. Lemon.

CarrieMpls said:

Well, yes. That is the goal.

Easier said than done though.

Imago said:

Ripe. Lemon.

You just want trophy boyfriends.

CarrieMpls said:

Well, yes. That is the goal.

Easier said than done though.

LleeLlee said:

That's a clever way of describing it actually.

I used to just want trophy girlfriends. I should have done much more gay stuff in my 20s cause there are sooooo many good looking gay men. It's like there is this incredibly strong positive correlation between sucking dick and good looks.

You just want trophy boyfriends.

JustErin said:

I know.

As someone who goes for personality above all else, looks still DO play a part. Just a minimal one. One of my last dates was sweet as pie, we had a lot in common and he had lots of fabulous qualities. Great on paper, but he was utterly unattractive to me. That's just the way it goes.

Heck, if I had it figured out, I wouldn't be single any more myself.