I cheated before for these reasons:

1. Because I kept getting cheated on.

2. Because my partner was not doing the things I pleaded for him to do in the bedroom. Even warned him...

3. Because I made some 'booty call' connections while being single and just wanted them @ the time.

I truly truly wasnt a cheater when I first started, but after being hurt so deep and menacingly by relationships one starts to think every1 will do it.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

I was young , I was drinking, and I was impulsive. I never meant to hurt the other person, but I just didn't 'think' beyond the present moment.


When I was cheated on it was because she found someone she just liked better and that was that.

I was ever the opportunist....and upon reflection, ever EVER the egotist....my daliances have been for a myriad of reasons....mainly someone stroking my ego...or someone from the past who didn't expect me to age well....or in one instance where I was feeling my age prematurely and the person in question was a little over half my age (36-19)....but when all of my shit hit the fan at once, I came to realize that the main reason for all the mess was that I was being selfish, concerned only with what I wanted and not spending a whole lot of time worrying about how others might be affected.....

...I may not make ammends with everyone thats been caught up in the vortex, but I'm trying....

I'm no moralist. I did it once. It was too much work and I just decided that being single and honest was the better way to go.

reneGade20 said:

never cheated, never will

I'll end it first

I've never cheated on anyone and I never will. I was cheated on before. Why? I don't know and I really don't care 'cause that relationship is over and done. Cheating is fucked up.

What would Prince think reading this post on his sight?!

jess555ja said:

I know thats right, one time my girlfriend stayed at home while I was working cause she was jobless and I used to pay her 100 a week just to clean place, cook, and basically just normal girl things. While I was at work she stook off down the street behind some man house and i found out about it via internet!! So I cut her funds off not break up just cut off funds.

cheeseburger said:

LOL

I wudda did more than that if that was me

I've never cheated on anyone...can't see me doing it either.

But I have been cheated on and I have been the person someone has cheated with. It's not a good feeling.

RodeoSchro said:

my thoughts EXACTLY!!!

JustErin said:

Me also!

i met one of my closest friends about 8 years ago when i was having relations with his partner on the kitchen table...

and is it cheating if you know the relationship is over, and you have sex with someone the day before you break up?


changed my conjunction.
[Edited 3/11/08 12:42pm]

ehuffnsd said:

Meh not really....


Some1 said 2 wrongs dont make a right...thats correct. Sometime u just gotta learn to grow and not do it again. Its hard to break it once u start. Im tryin to do that myself.

paisleypark4 said:

well i had the sex and than the next day we came to an agreement that it was over. he didn't know about the night before.

I made a selfish choice...I could reason it away even as I sit here today I can still say I had my reasons...

I bet there'd be some REALLY surprised people here if everyone who has cheated was to admit to it....

People make decisions(good and bad) and deal with their consequences....if I was to make a guess I bet more than 70% of people have cheated in some form or another on their significant other....

Flowerz said:

Thats ANOTHER one...women do that at least a few that i knew of. However...alot of women are faithful.
Alot of men I know do it cuz they always think they girl is messin around (especially if she pretty) or just to stroke their ego.



ehuffnsd:


I had a similar situation with my second /first bf. I had sex with my second the night before me and my first broke up. But I was glad, I couldnt deal with a man that was stealing my money and usin drugs anymore.

paisleypark4 said:

glad you are in a better one now.

ehuffnsd said:

Well it took 2 more to get it right this time

At least..if that what my life chart holds out for me
[Edited 3/11/08 14:17pm]

REDFEATHERS said:

Co-sign

paisleypark4 said:

i went to a psychic that told me i'd only get married once, have no kids and have no major health issues...

About a year ago, there was a rumor going around that a friend of mine (female) cheated on her boyfriend. Everyone thought the kid who was spreading the rumor (our friend at the time) was being a douche and just spreading lies. So we threatened him, this and that. And I asked my friend (the boyfriend) straight up "Is it true?" He said no, and we all stood up for her, dismissed it as a lie. and let it pass. Then one day my friend told me she actually DID cheat on him. My jaw was on the floor man. I was speechless for hours. Because these two are like two peas in a pod you know. I was like "When did you find out?" and he said she told him 2 or 3 days after it happened! Crazy stuff, and it kinda changed my perception about her.