Stymie said:

I agree, but why is everyone assuming that the guy in the equation isn't attractive or fuckable? Look at all the athletes that end up with obvious gold diggers. Most of them are physically fine AND rich. That's a good combination if you ask me. All men that offer to keep a woman are not old and ugly.
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SCNDLS said:

When I hear gold digger, I hear a woman that is solely in it for the money. I never considered that the woman may actually be attracted to the guy.

Stymie said:

If you really think about it, most male celebrities that are with non-celebrity females are probably with girls that are gold diggers. How many celebrity men are married to doctors, lawyers, professors, or some other type of professional woman. Not many I'm sure. They marry beautiful actress/model type chicks that most likely cashed in on their looks. It's no different.

CarrieMpls said:

And I wish them the best of luck.

JustErin said:

What is "going [snip-CarrieMpls]"? I've seen that poster but don't know what this refers to.

RodeoSchro said:

It's a way to pick on [snip-CarrieMpls] that's not remotely nice.

JustErin said:

yes , but surely not worth degrading yourself for i'd think

Stymie said:

Oh, thanks. I would never pick on anyone.

Stymie said:

You're right. That wasn't nice. I take it back...

violator said:

I didn't even know what you meant, so no sweat off my back.

CarrieMpls said:

See the gov in trouble 4 prostitution.....

DexMSR said:

Most times ONLY one party knows....and that is the female. For example: 80% of all pro ballers are divorced within 3 years of retirement. What do u think those relationships were based on?

Graycap23 said:

It wasn't love.

Graycap23 said:

So you don't think these dudes KNOW they're hooking up with gold diggers???? Whatevah, man. . . These athletes and actors , generally speaking, are shallow mofos that date chicks solely on appearance. So they reap what they sow. That's what happens when you meet your wife in the VIP room at the strip club or nightclub. Or even the girls on campus or cheerleaders that know a dude is going to be in the pros so they hitch their wagons to his caboose. These players KNOW what's up and if they don't Boo Hoo. . .

SCNDLS said:

Lol.....u might be right but after a while a lot of these cats start believing their own HYPE.

SCNDLS said:

Say.that.shit!!!!

Graycap23 said:

Maybe the head game throws them off from time to time, but those dudes know that these women didn't fall in love with them just like they aren't in love with these women. If their wallets take a hit, it's their own fault for not protecting themselves.

I hate to put it like this, but there are those men that seek out women who come into a relationship with a man like that and agree to certain things. Like an American man marrying a poor woman from another country that doesn't speak their language or know much about the country. Many of those woman are perfectly happy being a good wife and mother. They won't lawyer up as soon as the buy out is good. I'm not saying it's okay, but hey...

There's also the option of actually dealing with someone on your level or who has their own shit and I don't mean a great career as a Hollywood escort or Atlanta stripper. I know that would just hurt some of these men's egos too much though.

Dance said:

Lol.....I can't argue that. I just know that a lot of these cats believe that these relationships are real. I'm not talking in general terms, I'm talking about people that I KNOW.....2 bad 4 them.

My boss married his second wife, 25 years younger then him. He is now 65 and she is 40, they married 10 years ago, and she has since given birth twice. I have known my boss for 23 years, and I must say in all honesty, he is happier with wifey number two then he ever was with wifey number one, and the first wife and he were the same age. Too each his own, I guess.

Whats it called if one person takes care of the finances and they both like having sex with each other.
It seem the definition lies in not wanting to have sex with the person who has the money?

PaisleyPark5083 said:

That's because wifey two is a hustler.

She has her real man on the side keeping her happy.

She's playing the part of the perfect wife so when he's gone she'll collect, and so that she can continue to coast on his earnings.

She may decide not to wait that long. She might just leave him and collect on the two insurance policies she birthed as well as get any spousal support she can.

Dance said:

Wifey number two is a hustler, she is about and about with him everywhere and never leaves his side. Wifey number one was more into herself and her own pleasures in life. She is really living the life, except as CalhounSq said earlier, you have to have sex with an old man at the end of the day, no thanks!

PaisleyPark5083 said:

One day, you will be an old lady. Hopefully, someone will want to have sex with you.

Dance said:

Who cares if shes a hustler.
There's a lady who lives in my neighborhood shes like pushin 50 and hes pushin 70 and shes always out with other guys. They had sold one kick ass house moved and then she said they were getting a divorce, then they turned around and bought a different kick ass house in the neighborhood and she says supposedly they are getting a divorce. I dont believe her, I think it just eases her embarassment when we see her out with other guys. Her husband is a prominent head of a lawyer firm. She races around in a BMW M3 convertible. I think she just wants to be young again. You would think she was 30 until you look at her closely. While her husband drives a fuddy duddy but nice 4 door AMG.
It is what it is. I think people like to gossip and point fingers and make them selves feel better about what they don't have. Who cares as long as your honest to yourself about whats going on.

SCNDLS said:

Graycap23 said:

Well, in that case. . .

Stymie said:

I have been married to the same man for 24 years (it will be 25 this august) he is 4 years older then me, and I/We share the best sex life ever, even better then when we were swinging off the chandeliers in our crazy days.
My point was and is we are in the same age bracket, I would not want one 25 years older then myself.

SCNDLS said:

lol.....can't argue with that. Some aren't though.

SCNDLS said:

Can I get an AMEN?

These have to be some the dumbest muthaphuckas I've ever seen. WTF are they getting married for? You know you're going to lose HALF!, especially if kids are involved. Just date the hot chicks, that's all. At least Derek Jeter's doing it the right way.

uPtoWnNY said:

How? By being gay???