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its been too long, im confused ok, i've hit a wall of confusion...
if you dont have sex for so long you have literally FORGOTTEN what it felt like does the value of sex go to someplace different than it was prior to being without?? so, its been well over a year without but, somehow i have set myself to some strange new thoughts, and i REALLY dont know how this shit happened. i cannot bring myself to have casual sex... its been offered, and i keep turning it down. but, the crazy part is, i really want to have sex RIGHT NOW even still, i cant do it so, does going without fuck up the ability to do it??? should i wait for who knows what??? or just jump in and do it anyway??? oh, and do men really care if a woman has gone so long without??? do they even appreciate that??? One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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i should also mention that a few weeks ago there was a guy that was trying to get some 'happy time' with me... he got too close - i felt like he was invading my personal space...
i kid you not, i broke out in HIVES One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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Unles your own anxiety is overriding everything. Then you gotta play with the settings. Experiment. Or just do nothing. I mean, we love old spinsters. | |
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I would wait until it truly feels right. After my engagement broke up, I actually went without for 3 years.
I, too, had chances, but I didn't feel right about the situations. When I finally did again, I didn't think it mattered to him that it had been so long, until he jokingly commented that it felt like he was with a "virgin". Whatever... But trust me, U don't "forget" anything once U start again... "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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nakedpianoplayer said: oh, and do men really care if a woman has gone so long without??? do they even appreciate that??? Does men care if a woman has gone a long time without sex? I don't. If it's not a physical thing that kept her from doing so, then I would just chalk it up to her simply not wanting to. Which is cool. I do kinda dig women who can go without having sex. It says to me that they have self respect and that they put value in themselves. Yeah, I very much appreciate that. If it comes a point in time when they desire to sleep with me, then for me, it's much cooler because I know they really dig me, on that level. Instead of just sleeping with someone who I suspect maybe easy to get with. That's a turn off. SynthiaRose said "I'm in love with blackguitaristz. Especially when he talks about Hendrix."
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celibacy can lead to real psychological issues. But you already had those
Are you at least getting off other ways or have you been a whole year without an O?! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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nakedpianoplayer said: i should also mention that a few weeks ago there was a guy that was trying to get some 'happy time' with me... he got too close - i felt like he was invading my personal space...
i kid you not, i broke out in HIVES i hate that crawly-skin feeling i say definitely wait. | |
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Spookymuffin said: Don't jump in. Clearly your body/hormones are telling you to look for a long-term partner right now.
i really think thats it... i will not be having sex unless its someone i am with this could be a long wait One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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blackguitaristz said: nakedpianoplayer said: oh, and do men really care if a woman has gone so long without??? do they even appreciate that??? Does men care if a woman has gone a long time without sex? I don't. If it's not a physical thing that kept her from doing so, then I would just chalk it up to her simply not wanting to. Which is cool. I do kinda dig women who can go without having sex. It says to me that they have self respect and that they put value in themselves. Yeah, I very much appreciate that. If it comes a point in time when they desire to sleep with me, then for me, it's much cooler because I know they really dig me, on that level. Instead of just sleeping with someone who I suspect maybe easy to get with. That's a turn off. thats a nice way to look at it thanks One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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nakedpianoplayer said: Spookymuffin said: Don't jump in. Clearly your body/hormones are telling you to look for a long-term partner right now.
i really think thats it... i will not be having sex unless its someone i am with this could be a long wait "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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HamsterHuey said: It is different with every man.
Unles your own anxiety is overriding everything. Then you gotta play with the settings. Experiment. Or just do nothing. I mean, we love old spinsters. i read this several times... im not sure wether to hug you or slap you with a fish One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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chocolate1 said: I would wait until it truly feels right. After my engagement broke up, I actually went without for 3 years.
I, too, had chances, but I didn't feel right about the situations. When I finally did again, I didn't think it mattered to him that it had been so long, until he jokingly commented that it felt like he was with a "virgin". Whatever... But trust me, U don't "forget" anything once U start again... THREE YEARS!!! i am never gonna make it that long dont "forget" One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: celibacy can lead to real psychological issues. But you already had those
Are you at least getting off other ways or have you been a whole year without an O?! psychological issues are you kidding about not having the O for a year???? come on man, you know me better than that One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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evenstar said: nakedpianoplayer said: i should also mention that a few weeks ago there was a guy that was trying to get some 'happy time' with me... he got too close - i felt like he was invading my personal space...
i kid you not, i broke out in HIVES i hate that crawly-skin feeling i say definitely wait. it was CRAZY!!! i couldnt believe that just because i felt like he was too close to me i actuallly had a physical reaction and if thats what i get every time i try to have sex, i will not be having sex ever again One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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nakedpianoplayer said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: celibacy can lead to real psychological issues. But you already had those
Are you at least getting off other ways or have you been a whole year without an O?! psychological issues are you kidding about not having the O for a year???? come on man, you know me better than that I was gonna say! I was about to ship you some toys 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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nakedpianoplayer said: i should also mention that a few weeks ago there was a guy that was trying to get some 'happy time' with me... he got too close - i felt like he was invading my personal space...
i kid you not, i broke out in HIVES does happy time mean oral sex? To Sir, with Love | |
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