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Reply #120 posted 03/06/08 10:36pm

NDRU

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Genesia said:

NDRU said:



I had a girlfriend for a year and used no birth control at all.

Now, I don't recommend that (I was very very stupid!) but she claimed she new exactly when was safe.


It's possible she did. Once you know what you're looking for, all you need is a thermometer, your fingers and a chart to keep track of things. shrug


She had five years of marriage & no birth control, so I think she did, but it didn't necessarily ease my mind as I had totally unsafe sex with her lol God I'm an idiot!
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Reply #121 posted 03/06/08 10:48pm

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CarrieMpls said:

raveun2thejoyfantastic said:

I wonder what it was like b4 condoms, how did any1 boff w/out getting pregnant all the time? lol


They didn't. They got pregnant and they aborted or they had the child, often dying in childbirth.


I read somewhere that most couples in the olden days used the Rhythm Method which is basically avoiding sex when a woman is ovulating. This has been around for centuries.

http://en.wikipedia.org/w...thm_method

Calendar-based methods are various methods of natural birth control that involve counting days of a woman's menstrual cycle in order to achieve or avoid pregnancy. Common names for some of these methods are calendar method, Standard Days Method, rhythm method, and Knaus-Ogino method (named after Hermann Knaus and Kyusaku Ogino). While the failure rates of these methods are high compared to most other methods of birth control, correct use prevents a significant number of pregnancies.
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Reply #122 posted 03/06/08 10:53pm

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DexMSR said:



42 years old....NO KIDS.

BITCHES!!

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And GOOOOOD timing!!
[Edited 3/5/08 15:45pm]


rolleyes lol Yeah, but it's a lot of brothas walking around thinking they NEED a Magnum when a Lifestyle will do them just fine. nod (Present company excluded, I'm sure wink boxed)
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Reply #123 posted 03/06/08 10:56pm

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JustErin said:

Giovanni777 said:

Thoughts?

They choke me... even my Magnums. But I still use them.

~G


lol

But I always found comments like this odd. These things can stretch to fit over your head...how can it be too small for a dick?


You'd have to grow a dick to understand.

Oh, condoms are even worse for uncut men.
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Reply #124 posted 03/06/08 10:59pm

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KidaDynamite said:

paintedlady said:


hug OMG polyurethane sux big time! I am allergic also, and I hate it.


So how do you know if you are allergic to latex? Did your cooch swell up when you used a condom, or what?! confuse lol


No, fool! lol I'm allergic too and latex usually leads to yeast or bacterial infections. That's why it's very important to keep your vaginal pH in check after you have sex or your period. I take acidophilus regularly and I've drastically reduced latex-related issues. Also, that new rePhresh gel is the bomb. thumbs up!

Oh, and condoms are a must. I've lost too many friends to AIDS to even have a debate about IF a dude is using one or not. It's an easy choice for me. nod
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Reply #125 posted 03/06/08 11:11pm

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SCNDLS said:

DexMSR said:



42 years old....NO KIDS.

BITCHES!!

evilking

And GOOOOOD timing!!
[Edited 3/5/08 15:45pm]


rolleyes lol Yeah, but it's a lot of brothas walking around thinking they NEED a Magnum when a Lifestyle will do them just fine. nod (Present company excluded, I'm sure wink boxed)


Oooooh, Dex! hah!
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Reply #126 posted 03/06/08 11:12pm

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SCNDLS said:

KidaDynamite said:



So how do you know if you are allergic to latex? Did your cooch swell up when you used a condom, or what?! confuse lol


No, fool! lol I'm allergic too and latex usually leads to yeast or bacterial infections. That's why it's very important to keep your vaginal pH in check after you have sex or your period. I take acidophilus regularly and I've drastically reduced latex-related issues. Also, that new rePhresh gel is the bomb. thumbs up!

Oh, and condoms are a must. I've lost too many friends to AIDS to even have a debate about IF a dude is using one or not. It's an easy choice for me. nod


Fucking hell
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God, SCNDLS, the science. "Acidophilus??" Wasn't that Yes's fifth album? I would rather masturbate in those circumstances than ever have sex sigh
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Reply #127 posted 03/06/08 11:15pm

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LittleSmedley said:

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No, fool! lol I'm allergic too and latex usually leads to yeast or bacterial infections. That's why it's very important to keep your vaginal pH in check after you have sex or your period. I take acidophilus regularly and I've drastically reduced latex-related issues. Also, that new rePhresh gel is the bomb. thumbs up!

Oh, and condoms are a must. I've lost too many friends to AIDS to even have a debate about IF a dude is using one or not. It's an easy choice for me. nod


Fucking hell
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God, SCNDLS, the science. "Acidophilus??" Wasn't that Yes's fifth album? I would rather masturbate in those circumstances than ever have sex sigh


Just looking out for my fellow latex-challenged sisters. You do whatcha gotta do to keep things poppin'. lol
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Reply #128 posted 03/06/08 11:16pm

LittleSmedley

I mean, with an understanding partner. Just make each other come x
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Reply #129 posted 03/06/08 11:21pm

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LittleSmedley said:

I mean, with an understanding partner. Just make each other come x


It's bigger than that though isn't it??? I was with my last boyfriend for 3 years and I tried the pill for a few months and hated it. So condoms were our only option for birth control and STD prevention. Having a latex allergy under those circumstances was not fun. Yet another example of the BS women gotta put up with just to get some dickie. . . shit ain't fair at all. disbelief lol
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Reply #130 posted 03/06/08 11:27pm

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Thoughts?

They choke me... even my Magnums. But I still use them.

~G


Magnums choking? .. wow .. zipped lol
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Reply #131 posted 03/06/08 11:27pm

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SCNDLS said:

KidaDynamite said:



So how do you know if you are allergic to latex? Did your cooch swell up when you used a condom, or what?! confuse lol


No, fool! lol I'm allergic too and latex usually leads to yeast or bacterial infections. That's why it's very important to keep your vaginal pH in check after you have sex or your period. I take acidophilus regularly and I've drastically reduced latex-related issues. Also, that new rePhresh gel is the bomb. thumbs up!

Oh, and condoms are a must. I've lost too many friends to AIDS to even have a debate about IF a dude is using one or not. It's an easy choice for me. nod


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Reply #132 posted 03/06/08 11:29pm

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SCNDLS said:

LittleSmedley said:

I mean, with an understanding partner. Just make each other come x


It's bigger than that though isn't it??? I was with my last boyfriend for 3 years and I tried the pill for a few months and hated it. So condoms were our only option for birth control and STD prevention. Having a latex allergy under those circumstances was not fun. Yet another example of the BS women gotta put up with just to get some dickie. . . shit ain't fair at all. disbelief lol


I'm no expert in sex geek but if I was with someone in your circumstances, I would (...orgnote)
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Reply #133 posted 03/06/08 11:38pm

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LittleSmedley said:

SCNDLS said:



It's bigger than that though isn't it??? I was with my last boyfriend for 3 years and I tried the pill for a few months and hated it. So condoms were our only option for birth control and STD prevention. Having a latex allergy under those circumstances was not fun. Yet another example of the BS women gotta put up with just to get some dickie. . . shit ain't fair at all. disbelief lol


I'm no expert in sex geek but if I was with someone in your circumstances, I would (...orgnote)


Whatever, man lol It's not that big a deal but that's why it's important for women to be intimately in tune with their girly parts so they know when something is amiss. In my case, it doesn't affect sex at all. You just gotta take post-coital prevention actions to make sure Priscilla stays in check. rose wink lol

See, ya'll men have it so damn easy ya'll just wash your willies (hopefully) and you're good to go. Women gotta do so much extra shit from the annual checkups to the weed wacking to the internal maintenance it's a lot of damn work. But well worth it and I'm EXTRA diligent with mine wink nod lol
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Reply #134 posted 03/06/08 11:45pm

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SCNDLS said:

KidaDynamite said:



So how do you know if you are allergic to latex? Did your cooch swell up when you used a condom, or what?! confuse lol


No, fool! lol I'm allergic too and latex usually leads to yeast or bacterial infections. That's why it's very important to keep your vaginal pH in check after you have sex or your period. I take acidophilus regularly and I've drastically reduced latex-related issues. Also, that new rePhresh gel is the bomb. thumbs up!

Oh, and condoms are a must. I've lost too many friends to AIDS to even have a debate about IF a dude is using one or not. It's an easy choice for me. nod


On second thought, Kida, you may be right. I suppose a swollen cooch is entirely possible since a lot of people allergic to latex can go into anaphylactic shock and die. In that case, I'd say stay away from latex condoms, the sex prolly ain't THAT good. razz lol
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Reply #135 posted 03/06/08 11:56pm

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KidaDynamite said:

paintedlady said:


hug OMG polyurethane sux big time! I am allergic also, and I hate it.


So how do you know if you are allergic to latex? Did your cooch swell up when you used a condom, or what?! confuse lol


I had symptoms that seemed like VD. I was freaking out! omfg
I had been uncomfortable in the past, but I thought it was just from friction. THAT time it was bad. I went to the gyno, who sent me to a dermatologist. disbelief

Latex gloves make my hands break out, too. hrmph

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Your lies, they cut me.
Now your words don't mean a thing.
I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..."

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Reply #136 posted 03/07/08 12:30am

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JustErin said:

blackguitaristz said:


If the rubber is thin "enough", and the woman knows actually how to give head and her version of head isn't just licking, then it's alright. Is it as good as if u had noting on? Of course not. But the only time I'm receiving head and there is a condom involved is when she's putting it on me with her mouth. That's just part of the foreplay that's followed very shortly with me getting ready to enter her.


Condoms, including the flavoured ones, taste like shit!

And once again, someone not using condoms for oral but insists on it for sex. Tsk, tsk.

Unless you're my woman and we're living together or we are really really close to the point that I'm not sleeping with anyone else, then yeah, I'm pulling out the unicorn.
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Reply #137 posted 03/07/08 12:45am

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chocolate1 said:

KidaDynamite said:



So how do you know if you are allergic to latex? Did your cooch swell up when you used a condom, or what?! confuse lol


I had symptoms that seemed like VD. I was freaking out! omfg
I had been uncomfortable in the past, but I thought it was just from friction. THAT time it was bad. I went to the gyno, who sent me to a dermatologist. disbelief

Latex gloves make my hands break out, too. hrmph


eek
Oh Damn. lol
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Reply #138 posted 03/07/08 12:51am

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KidaDynamite said:

chocolate1 said:



I had symptoms that seemed like VD. I was freaking out! omfg
I had been uncomfortable in the past, but I thought it was just from friction. THAT time it was bad. I went to the gyno, who sent me to a dermatologist. disbelief

Latex gloves make my hands break out, too. hrmph


eek
Oh Damn. lol


Tell me about it!
lol

"Love Hurts.
Your lies, they cut me.
Now your words don't mean a thing.
I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..."

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Reply #139 posted 03/07/08 4:14am

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chocolate1 said:

KidaDynamite said:



eek
Oh Damn. lol


Tell me about it!
lol

nod me too.... and I get bad swelling with the latex condoms, not comfortable at all. Makes you want to take an epi-pen to yourself for real! OUCH! mad sad

But even the polyurethane ones bother me too. But its just discomfort not anything like the latex.

But see anything, anything is better than those damn awful "female condoms" those are the absolute worst!
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Reply #140 posted 03/07/08 4:15am

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Giovanni777 said:

Thoughts?

They choke me... even my Magnums. But I still use them.

~G

hmmm Its always the skinny guys.....
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Reply #141 posted 03/07/08 4:17am

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paintedlady said:

chocolate1 said:



Tell me about it!
lol

nod me too.... and I get bad swelling with the latex condoms, not comfortable at all. Makes you want to take an epi-pen to yourself for real! OUCH! mad sad

But even the polyurethane ones bother me too. But its just discomfort not anything like the latex.

But see anything, anything is better than those damn awful "female condoms" those are the absolute worst!


Lambskin is more pleasant, but they are not as disease-safe.

"Love Hurts.
Your lies, they cut me.
Now your words don't mean a thing.
I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..."

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Reply #142 posted 03/07/08 4:21am

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chocolate1 said:

paintedlady said:


nod me too.... and I get bad swelling with the latex condoms, not comfortable at all. Makes you want to take an epi-pen to yourself for real! OUCH! mad sad

But even the polyurethane ones bother me too. But its just discomfort not anything like the latex.

But see anything, anything is better than those damn awful "female condoms" those are the absolute worst!


Lambskin is more pleasant, but they are not as disease-safe.

Yeah, I like those, but since I only use condoms for disease prevention, I do not bother anymore... I had a tubal ligation years ago, so sex with a trusted partner is great for me. Finding a new partner is proving to be a challenge sigh
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Reply #143 posted 03/07/08 4:42am

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To be honest I think I've only ever used them about 10 times in my life, the first few times I ever had sex, and I don't think I ever really got the hang of putting them on. We decided to be together pretty early on, had tests done, and still get them now from time to time, so it's been a good 6 years since I used one. I never actually minded them that much once they were on but I was clueless about putting one on, I must admit.

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Reply #144 posted 03/07/08 7:03am

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Stymie said:

So, are you condom lovers using them for oral sex as well?

No.

I know it's odd, but I'm more comfortable having regular vaginal sex with someone than oral. Not that I think it's "dirty" or anything, but to me oral is more personal somehow. For me I don't go down, nor do I expect someone to go down unless I'm really fond of them and know them really well.

No, I can't explain it. I know it doesn't make sense. lol
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Reply #145 posted 03/07/08 1:41pm

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meow85 said:

Stymie said:

So, are you condom lovers using them for oral sex as well?

No.

I know it's odd, but I'm more comfortable having regular vaginal sex with someone than oral. Not that I think it's "dirty" or anything, but to me oral is more personal somehow. For me I don't go down, nor do I expect someone to go down unless I'm really fond of them and know them really well.

No, I can't explain it. I know it doesn't make sense. lol



It makes perfect sense! I agree! I've stated my position above (scroll up). giggle

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Reply #146 posted 03/07/08 3:00pm

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SCNDLS said:

CarrieMpls said:



They didn't. They got pregnant and they aborted or they had the child, often dying in childbirth.


I read somewhere that most couples in the olden days used the Rhythm Method which is basically avoiding sex when a woman is ovulating. This has been around for centuries.

http://en.wikipedia.org/w...thm_method

Calendar-based methods are various methods of natural birth control that involve counting days of a woman's menstrual cycle in order to achieve or avoid pregnancy. Common names for some of these methods are calendar method, Standard Days Method, rhythm method, and Knaus-Ogino method (named after Hermann Knaus and Kyusaku Ogino). While the failure rates of these methods are high compared to most other methods of birth control, correct use prevents a significant number of pregnancies.
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The calendar method is not very reliable, at all.

What I am talking about is a method that, in addition to calendar, charts daily basal temperature, cervical fluid and cervical position. It's very reliable - but you have to be committed to it.
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Reply #147 posted 03/07/08 3:16pm

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raveun2thejoyfantastic said:

I wonder what it was like b4 condoms, how did any1 boff w/out getting pregnant all the time? lol



I'm bored, so I did some "Googling": http://www.craigsweb.com/condom2.htm

Condoms have been around for a long time! giggle

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Reply #148 posted 03/07/08 3:23pm

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Genesia said:

SCNDLS said:



I read somewhere that most couples in the olden days used the Rhythm Method which is basically avoiding sex when a woman is ovulating. This has been around for centuries.

http://en.wikipedia.org/w...thm_method

Calendar-based methods are various methods of natural birth control that involve counting days of a woman's menstrual cycle in order to achieve or avoid pregnancy. Common names for some of these methods are calendar method, Standard Days Method, rhythm method, and Knaus-Ogino method (named after Hermann Knaus and Kyusaku Ogino). While the failure rates of these methods are high compared to most other methods of birth control, correct use prevents a significant number of pregnancies.
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The calendar method is not very reliable, at all.

What I am talking about is a method that, in addition to calendar, charts daily basal temperature, cervical fluid and cervical position. It's very reliable - but you have to be committed to it.


Yeah, I know it's not reliable but the Rhythm Method was widely used in the olden days which was the post I was responding to.
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Reply #149 posted 03/07/08 5:52pm

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chocolate1 said:

paintedlady said:


nod me too.... and I get bad swelling with the latex condoms, not comfortable at all. Makes you want to take an epi-pen to yourself for real! OUCH! mad sad

But even the polyurethane ones bother me too. But its just discomfort not anything like the latex.

But see anything, anything is better than those damn awful "female condoms" those are the absolute worst!


Lambskin is more pleasant, but they are not as disease-safe.


plus there's something kinds disgusting about that idea
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