Genesia said: NDRU said: I had a girlfriend for a year and used no birth control at all. Now, I don't recommend that (I was very very stupid!) but she claimed she new exactly when was safe. It's possible she did. Once you know what you're looking for, all you need is a thermometer, your fingers and a chart to keep track of things. She had five years of marriage & no birth control, so I think she did, but it didn't necessarily ease my mind as I had totally unsafe sex with her My Legacy
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CarrieMpls said: raveun2thejoyfantastic said: I wonder what it was like b4 condoms, how did any1
They didn't. They got pregnant and they aborted or they had the child, often dying in childbirth. I read somewhere that most couples in the olden days used the Rhythm Method which is basically avoiding sex when a woman is ovulating. This has been around for centuries. http://en.wikipedia.org/w...thm_method Calendar-based methods are various methods of natural birth control that involve counting days of a woman's menstrual cycle in order to achieve or avoid pregnancy. Common names for some of these methods are calendar method, Standard Days Method, rhythm method, and Knaus-Ogino method (named after Hermann Knaus and Kyusaku Ogino). While the failure rates of these methods are high compared to most other methods of birth control, correct use prevents a significant number of pregnancies. [Edited 3/6/08 14:50pm] | |
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DexMSR said:
42 years old....NO KIDS. BITCHES!! And GOOOOOD timing!! [Edited 3/5/08 15:45pm] | |
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JustErin said: Giovanni777 said: Thoughts?
They choke me... even my Magnums. But I still use them. ~G But I always found comments like this odd. These things can stretch to fit over your head...how can it be too small for a dick? You'd have to grow a dick to understand. Oh, condoms are even worse for uncut men. | |
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KidaDynamite said: paintedlady said: So how do you know if you are allergic to latex? Did your cooch swell up when you used a condom, or what?! No, fool! Oh, and condoms are a must. I've lost too many friends to AIDS to even have a debate about IF a dude is using one or not. It's an easy choice for me. | |
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SCNDLS said: DexMSR said:
42 years old....NO KIDS. BITCHES!! And GOOOOOD timing!! [Edited 3/5/08 15:45pm] Oooooh, Dex! surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
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SCNDLS said: KidaDynamite said: So how do you know if you are allergic to latex? Did your cooch swell up when you used a condom, or what?! No, fool! Oh, and condoms are a must. I've lost too many friends to AIDS to even have a debate about IF a dude is using one or not. It's an easy choice for me. Fucking hell God, SCNDLS, the science. "Acidophilus??" Wasn't that Yes's fifth album? I would rather masturbate in those circumstances than ever have sex | |
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LittleSmedley said: SCNDLS said: No, fool! Oh, and condoms are a must. I've lost too many friends to AIDS to even have a debate about IF a dude is using one or not. It's an easy choice for me. Fucking hell God, SCNDLS, the science. "Acidophilus??" Wasn't that Yes's fifth album? I would rather masturbate in those circumstances than ever have sex Just looking out for my fellow latex-challenged sisters. You do whatcha gotta do to keep things poppin'. | |
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I mean, with an understanding partner. Just make each other come x | |
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LittleSmedley said: I mean, with an understanding partner. Just make each other come x
It's bigger than that though isn't it??? I was with my last boyfriend for 3 years and I tried the pill for a few months and hated it. So condoms were our only option for birth control and STD prevention. Having a latex allergy under those circumstances was not fun. Yet another example of the BS women gotta put up with just to get some dickie. . . shit ain't fair at all. | |
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Giovanni777 said: Thoughts?
They choke me... even my Magnums. But I still use them. ~G Magnums choking? .. wow .. | |
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SCNDLS said: KidaDynamite said: So how do you know if you are allergic to latex? Did your cooch swell up when you used a condom, or what?! No, fool! Oh, and condoms are a must. I've lost too many friends to AIDS to even have a debate about IF a dude is using one or not. It's an easy choice for me. surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
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SCNDLS said: LittleSmedley said: I mean, with an understanding partner. Just make each other come x
It's bigger than that though isn't it??? I was with my last boyfriend for 3 years and I tried the pill for a few months and hated it. So condoms were our only option for birth control and STD prevention. Having a latex allergy under those circumstances was not fun. Yet another example of the BS women gotta put up with just to get some dickie. . . shit ain't fair at all. I'm no expert in sex | |
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LittleSmedley said: SCNDLS said: It's bigger than that though isn't it??? I was with my last boyfriend for 3 years and I tried the pill for a few months and hated it. So condoms were our only option for birth control and STD prevention. Having a latex allergy under those circumstances was not fun. Yet another example of the BS women gotta put up with just to get some dickie. . . shit ain't fair at all. I'm no expert in sex Whatever, man See, ya'll men have it so damn easy ya'll just wash your willies (hopefully) and you're good to go. Women gotta do so much extra shit from the annual checkups to the weed wacking to the internal maintenance it's a lot of damn work. But well worth it and I'm EXTRA diligent with mine | |
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SCNDLS said: KidaDynamite said: So how do you know if you are allergic to latex? Did your cooch swell up when you used a condom, or what?! No, fool! Oh, and condoms are a must. I've lost too many friends to AIDS to even have a debate about IF a dude is using one or not. It's an easy choice for me. On second thought, Kida, you may be right. I suppose a swollen cooch is entirely possible since a lot of people allergic to latex can go into anaphylactic shock and die. In that case, I'd say stay away from latex condoms, the sex prolly ain't THAT good. | |
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KidaDynamite said: paintedlady said: So how do you know if you are allergic to latex? Did your cooch swell up when you used a condom, or what?! I had symptoms that seemed like VD. I was freaking out! I had been uncomfortable in the past, but I thought it was just from friction. THAT time it was bad. I went to the gyno, who sent me to a dermatologist. Latex gloves make my hands break out, too. "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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JustErin said: blackguitaristz said: If the rubber is thin "enough", and the woman knows actually how to give head and her version of head isn't just licking, then it's alright. Is it as good as if u had noting on? Of course not. But the only time I'm receiving head and there is a condom involved is when she's putting it on me with her mouth. That's just part of the foreplay that's followed very shortly with me getting ready to enter her. Condoms, including the flavoured ones, taste like shit! And once again, someone not using condoms for oral but insists on it for sex. Tsk, tsk. Unless you're my woman and we're living together or we are really really close to the point that I'm not sleeping with anyone else, then yeah, I'm pulling out the unicorn. SynthiaRose said "I'm in love with blackguitaristz. Especially when he talks about Hendrix."
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chocolate1 said: KidaDynamite said: So how do you know if you are allergic to latex? Did your cooch swell up when you used a condom, or what?! I had symptoms that seemed like VD. I was freaking out! I had been uncomfortable in the past, but I thought it was just from friction. THAT time it was bad. I went to the gyno, who sent me to a dermatologist. Latex gloves make my hands break out, too. Oh Damn. surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
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KidaDynamite said: chocolate1 said: I had symptoms that seemed like VD. I was freaking out! I had been uncomfortable in the past, but I thought it was just from friction. THAT time it was bad. I went to the gyno, who sent me to a dermatologist. Latex gloves make my hands break out, too. Oh Damn. Tell me about it! "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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chocolate1 said: KidaDynamite said: Oh Damn. Tell me about it! But even the polyurethane ones bother me too. But its just discomfort not anything like the latex. But see anything, anything is better than those damn awful "female condoms" those are the absolute worst! | |
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Giovanni777 said: Thoughts?
They choke me... even my Magnums. But I still use them. ~G | |
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paintedlady said: chocolate1 said: Tell me about it! But even the polyurethane ones bother me too. But its just discomfort not anything like the latex. But see anything, anything is better than those damn awful "female condoms" those are the absolute worst! Lambskin is more pleasant, but they are not as disease-safe. "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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chocolate1 said: paintedlady said: But even the polyurethane ones bother me too. But its just discomfort not anything like the latex. But see anything, anything is better than those damn awful "female condoms" those are the absolute worst! Lambskin is more pleasant, but they are not as disease-safe. Yeah, I like those, but since I only use condoms for disease prevention, I do not bother anymore... I had a tubal ligation years ago, so sex with a trusted partner is great for me. Finding a new partner is proving to be a challenge [Edited 3/6/08 20:22pm] | |
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To be honest I think I've only ever used them about 10 times in my life, the first few times I ever had sex, and I don't think I ever really got the hang of putting them on. We decided to be together pretty early on, had tests done, and still get them now from time to time, so it's been a good 6 years since I used one. I never actually minded them that much once they were on but I was clueless about putting one on, I must admit.
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Stymie said: So, are you condom lovers using them for oral sex as well?
No. I know it's odd, but I'm more comfortable having regular vaginal sex with someone than oral. Not that I think it's "dirty" or anything, but to me oral is more personal somehow. For me I don't go down, nor do I expect someone to go down unless I'm really fond of them and know them really well. No, I can't explain it. I know it doesn't make sense. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: Stymie said: So, are you condom lovers using them for oral sex as well?
No. I know it's odd, but I'm more comfortable having regular vaginal sex with someone than oral. Not that I think it's "dirty" or anything, but to me oral is more personal somehow. For me I don't go down, nor do I expect someone to go down unless I'm really fond of them and know them really well. No, I can't explain it. I know it doesn't make sense. It makes perfect sense! I agree! I've stated my position above (scroll up). "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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SCNDLS said: CarrieMpls said: They didn't. They got pregnant and they aborted or they had the child, often dying in childbirth. I read somewhere that most couples in the olden days used the Rhythm Method which is basically avoiding sex when a woman is ovulating. This has been around for centuries. http://en.wikipedia.org/w...thm_method Calendar-based methods are various methods of natural birth control that involve counting days of a woman's menstrual cycle in order to achieve or avoid pregnancy. Common names for some of these methods are calendar method, Standard Days Method, rhythm method, and Knaus-Ogino method (named after Hermann Knaus and Kyusaku Ogino). While the failure rates of these methods are high compared to most other methods of birth control, correct use prevents a significant number of pregnancies. [Edited 3/6/08 14:50pm] The calendar method is not very reliable, at all. What I am talking about is a method that, in addition to calendar, charts daily basal temperature, cervical fluid and cervical position. It's very reliable - but you have to be committed to it. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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raveun2thejoyfantastic said: I wonder what it was like b4 condoms, how did any1
I'm bored, so I did some "Googling": http://www.craigsweb.com/condom2.htm Condoms have been around for a long time! "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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Genesia said: SCNDLS said: I read somewhere that most couples in the olden days used the Rhythm Method which is basically avoiding sex when a woman is ovulating. This has been around for centuries. http://en.wikipedia.org/w...thm_method Calendar-based methods are various methods of natural birth control that involve counting days of a woman's menstrual cycle in order to achieve or avoid pregnancy. Common names for some of these methods are calendar method, Standard Days Method, rhythm method, and Knaus-Ogino method (named after Hermann Knaus and Kyusaku Ogino). While the failure rates of these methods are high compared to most other methods of birth control, correct use prevents a significant number of pregnancies. [Edited 3/6/08 14:50pm] The calendar method is not very reliable, at all. What I am talking about is a method that, in addition to calendar, charts daily basal temperature, cervical fluid and cervical position. It's very reliable - but you have to be committed to it. Yeah, I know it's not reliable but the Rhythm Method was widely used in the olden days which was the post I was responding to. | |
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chocolate1 said: paintedlady said: But even the polyurethane ones bother me too. But its just discomfort not anything like the latex. But see anything, anything is better than those damn awful "female condoms" those are the absolute worst! Lambskin is more pleasant, but they are not as disease-safe. plus there's something kinds disgusting about that idea My Legacy
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