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Cheating begets cheating but you can't cheat on me! A man wrote this letter wanting another man's perspective, but everyone please read this and give your opinions
WHATS UP MAN IM WRITING IN TODAY TO GET ANOTHER MALE PERSPECTIVE ON A SITUATION. I'VE BEEN MARRIED NOW FOR 11 YEARS AND I'VE CHEATED ON MY WIFE BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED, AND AFTER WE GOT MARRIED. WELL RECENTLY I'VE DECIDED TO STOP WITH ALL THE LIES AND CHEATING BECAUSE I'VE FATHERED 4 KIDS DURING MY MARRIAGE BY OTHER WOMEN, SO I DECIDED TO CONFESS MY SINS TO MY WIFE AND REPENT. WELL AFTER I DID SHE BROKE DOWN AND TOLD ME THAT SHE WANTED A DIVORCE, I DID THE USUAL BEGGING AND APOLOGIZING TO GET HER TO STAY, I EVEN PROMISED THAT WE CAN GO TO MARRIAGE COUNSELING TOGETHER. WELL I SLIPPED AGAIN BUT ONLY ONCE AND THAT WAS A WHILE AGO AND I HAVE BEEN FAITHFUL EVER SINCE, HOWEVER A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO MY WIFE OF 11 YEARS CAME TO ME AND TOLD ME THAT SHE'S PREGNANT, NOW THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN GREAT IF THE CHILD WAS MINE BUT I KNOW ITS NOT BECAUSE SHE REFUSED TO SLEEP WITH ME EVER SINCE I TOLD HER ABOUT THE CHEATING SO WHEN SHE CAME TO ME AND TOLD ME THAT SHE WAS PREGNANT BY ANOTHER MAN I CLICKED. I GOT SO ENRAGED THAT I THREW HER AND ALL OF HER CLOTHES OUT, I TOLD HER I WILL NOT TAKE CARE OF ANOTHER MANS CHILD AND SINCE SHE HAD THE NERVE TO NOT ONLY CHEAT ON ME BUT TO DO IT WITH NO PROTECTION THEN SHE NEEDS TO GO AND BE WITH HIM!!! NOW DON'T GET ME WRONG YES I DID DO THE EXACT SAME THING MORE THAN ONCE HOWEVER SHE DON'T EVEN KNOW ABOUT MY OUTSIDE KIDS THAT I FATHERED SO SHE CAN'T EVEN BRING THAT UP. BESIDES ITS DIFFERENT FOR A MAN TO CHEAT THAN A WOMAN, SHE WAS SUPPOSE TO BE MY WIFE AND BE MY WIFE AND BE FAITHFUL TO ME AND ME ONLY. I SUSPECTED HER OF CHEATING THOUGH BECAUSE WE WAS A COUPLE THAT HAD TO HAVE SEX AT LEAST 5 TIMES A WEEK AND AFTER I CONFESSED SHE DIDN'T WANT TO DO IT ANYMORE. ANYWAY MAN PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK I SHOULD DO BECAUSE AFTER I TOLD MY MOMMA WHAT HAPPENED SHE CURSED ME OUT AND TOLD ME THAT IM NO SON OF HERS, BUT I EXPECTED THAT REACTION FROM A WOMAN, SO MAN-TO-MAN WHAT DO YOU THINK? AM I WRONG? BESIDES BACK IN THE DAY MEN USE TO HAVE 10 AND 15 DIFFERENT WIFES AND I SAID I WAS SORRY! Whack!! | |
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idiot! You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
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What an idiot | |
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 "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"-Dr Seuss
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 I'm sorry, but WHERE the hell are you reading these?? www.FuckingASSHOLES.com?? I can't even comment, this dude is insane, stupid, ridiculous & needs to be pummeled w/ heavy things   I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA | |
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Does anything really need to be said here...? | |
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CalhounSq said: I'm sorry, but WHERE the hell are you reading these?? www.FuckingASSHOLES.com?? I can't even comment, this dude is insane, stupid, ridiculous & needs to be pummeled w/ heavy things  | |
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CalhounSq said: I'm sorry, but WHERE the hell are you reading these?? www.FuckingASSHOLES.com?? I can't even comment, this dude is insane, stupid, ridiculous & needs to be pummeled w/ heavy things 
Seriously! |
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CarrieMpls said: CalhounSq said: I'm sorry, but WHERE the hell are you reading these?? www.FuckingASSHOLES.com?? I can't even comment, this dude is insane, stupid, ridiculous & needs to be pummeled w/ heavy things
Seriously! What makes it even better is Calhoun's "I can't even comment" comment. She SO needs a daytime chat show.   | |
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I can't be bothered to read it. Would someone mind summing it up for me? There's Joy In Expatriation. | |
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JDInteractive said: I can't be bothered to read it. Would someone mind summing it up for me?
Really. And not in all caps, please. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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Genesia said: JDInteractive said: I can't be bothered to read it. Would someone mind summing it up for me?
Really. And not in all caps, please. I'm sorry? There's Joy In Expatriation. | |
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A lack basic education sure is a scary thing. | |
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EverSouliciouSucks said: AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA That's the same reaction I had.
It cracks my shit up when a man cheats and get all sneaky and suspicious on his wife. | |
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JDInteractive said: I can't be bothered to read it. Would someone mind summing it up for me? Asshole cheats on wife. Wife cheats back, get knocked up by other guy. Husband kicks wife out, thinking she's a whore for cheating on him. | |
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 I can't believe I took 2 minutes out of my life to read that crap 
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Stymie said: JDInteractive said: I can't be bothered to read it. Would someone mind summing it up for me? Asshole cheats on wife. Wife cheats back, get knocked up by other guy. Husband kicks wife out, thinking she's a whore for cheating on him.Wife leaves and takes the caps lock key with her. | |
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Efan said: Stymie said: Asshole cheats on wife. Wife cheats back, get knocked up by other guy. Husband kicks wife out, thinking she's a whore for cheating on him.
Wife leaves and takes the caps lock key with her. | |
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Efan said: Stymie said: Asshole cheats on wife. Wife cheats back, get knocked up by other guy. Husband kicks wife out, thinking she's a whore for cheating on him.
Wife leaves and takes the caps lock key with her. | |
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 ....that can't be a real letter.
No man...uh most men...Ok some men aren't that stupid...well maybe the letter is real 
. [Edited 2/28/08 12:02pm] "Always blessings, never losses......"
Ya te dije....no manches guey!!!!!  I'm a guy!!!!
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Efan said: Stymie said: Asshole cheats on wife. Wife cheats back, get knocked up by other guy. Husband kicks wife out, thinking she's a whore for cheating on him.
Wife leaves and takes the caps lock key with her.  We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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ehuffnsd said: idiot!
Selfish Idiot...why did he think she would not or that it could not happen to him? A DOUBLE STANDARD SHOULD NEVER EXIST!! [Edited 2/28/08 11:54am] The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: ehuffnsd said: idiot!
Selfish Idiot...why did he think she would not or that it could not happen to him? A DOUBLE STANDARD SHOULD NEVER EXIST!! [Edited 2/28/08 11:54am] who knows You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
authentic power is service- Pope Francis | |
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Is this even true? It sounds like it came from the "Ask Dr. Love Monkey" column. | |
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Alright, man-to-man, here is the real deal.
Dude, you messed up, and you ARE messed up. So is your wife. You have not been honest with your wife. You think there is a different standard for men and women. You are totally wrong. You have many problems to confront. You say you won't support another man's son. Are you supporting the four you had with the other women? Emotionally, financially, both, neither? Your wife is no bargain. She should have communicated with you. She should not have sought comfort with another man while married to you. You need a good marriage counselor and a good pastor. | |
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RodeoSchro said: Alright, man-to-man, here is the real deal.
Dude, you messed up, and you ARE messed up. So is your wife. You have not been honest with your wife. You think there is a different standard for men and women. You are totally wrong. You have many problems to confront. You say you won't support another man's son. Are you supporting the four you had with the other women? Emotionally, financially, both, neither? Your wife is no bargain. She should have communicated with you. She should not have sought comfort with another man while married to you. You need a good marriage counselor and a good pastor. Seriously, if this letter is real (doubtful) I would recommend he at least get a grade 8 education for starters. | |
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