She will have no problem getting a date...

Well said.

Slave2daGroove said:

She may. I have gone out of my way to let a guy know what I want sexually and he said he felt intimidated.

Stymie said:

Same, I always let them know while we are still in the getting to know you stage - which is long before we enter the let's fuck stage.

Most have been ok with it. I think only one (who also happens to be my fav guy) finds it intimadating. Actually, I know he does, he's flat out told me.

JustErin said:

I let him know early, too. I am a huge foreplay person and if I don't get that, all bets are off. I had a guy get pissed at me because he wanted to go straight at it. Fuck you dude.

I don't understand what she's trying to say....

roodboi said:

silly girl, she's assuming we men LISTEN to her.

Damn. I feel like answering that add.....

JustErin said:

Me and your fav guy apparently have that in common.

I know women want to be fucked, I want to be fucked but can I at least find out what your last name is and make some attempt to get to know you before I'm sticking my tongue in the holiest of holy? After we get to know each other a little, tell me how you want it and I'll give it to you.

Slave2daGroove said:

Well, yes. As I said it's all discussed in the getting to know you stage - not the first item of topic.

But some men don't like to hear about it at all...my guess is that they realize that they probably actually do need to live up to some expectations or she might not stick around for long.

Well if you dont know, now you know.

This is well stated and all, but one of the first mistakes of my youth was assuming that what worked for one woman was going to work for the next. Personally, I prefer not to discuss in too great detail what she likes before it happens because I enjoy the surprise and spontaneity during the act.

That, and some folks just go on and on about it...

so just to summarize

• Taking charge is not bad
  
  
• your hand keeps grazing my ass. That's nice, but it's time to move forward
  
  
• the clit. It's different for every woman, so ask what she likes
  
  
• The majority like to be pounded. The majority like to have their hair pulled.
  
  
• please make some noise
  
  
• Seeing and/or feeling you come is rewarding for us, so there's no need to deprive us of it

That poor girl needs to get her an Italian man.

Just saying.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

JustErin said:

If u gotta talk a lot about it in conversations, then it's not happening. I think when the attraction is really there, from both parties, then there is an unspoken thing. Which is magical and I don't like to fuck that up. U can blow it by going on and on about what ya'll like and don't like. I like to find some things out when we're on our way to the promised land.

blackguitaristz said:

Intuition -Being on the same wavelength soul body mind as your partner makes a difference.

Nice!!!

ButterscotchPimp said:

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blackguitaristz said:

Essentially on the real tip, most of the shit covered in Craiglist should be an FYI for a onenight stand. If you known your partner longer than one night then, a lot of the shit covered in the damn list is old hat. And you would've already covered a lot from jumpstreet. Basically, once you've known each long enough, you and your partner can to get down to making the lovin and letting the fluid of emotions flow in river of life. Ya dig.
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blackguitaristz said:

Who said you go "on and on" about it?

Ya, I don't believe in the whole 'unspoken thing' thing. Not my style at all.

JustErin said:

Like I said earlier, most women are too timid to even tell their lover anything about how they want to be sexed up and expect their lover to know everything. On the flip side, however, while it's certainly okay for the woman to tell her potential lover what turns her on, giving away too much information before the act may intimidate a lot of guys or give them reason to think she is a slut and not to pursue her advances further.

However, if the attraction between the two people is there and can be maintained, then just about anything can make either partner have explosive lovemaking. The best part is that the man can blow gently on his woman's ear and make her cum so hard that she shakes uncontrollably. But you really have to be in that cosmic place to do that.

amorbella said:

Really? you mean it?

PEJ said:

yup,

I think she has said everything I have always wanted to say

amorbella said:

Closed mouths don't get fed!

And let the congregation say, AMEN!