evenstar said:

some of the folks on here are the most closedminded people I have ever some across in my life.

eikonoklastes said:

too bad thats not true huh?

GREAT thread!!

Bi-guys . This has no reasonable/scientific basis whatsoever but I think bi-guys are soooo f'ing sexay.

onenitealone said:

Imago said:

You're killing me today.

Obviously there are exceptions but I think it's the whole 'I don't give a shit. This is what I'm into' aesthetic (if that's the right term) that I admire so much. It just seems to suggest a complete open-mindedness that I find so bloody droolworthy.

Most guys -most people in general, really -are so uptight about their sexuality. It's refreshing to find someone who doesn't panic when they get too close to whatever it is they think they're not supposed to like.

Imago said:

fhqwhgads said:

Just saw this

meow85 said:

Wow - thanks.

I'm just being honest, really - it has helped that most bisexual guys I've met have had a certain flair, I guess. But, seriously, how can anyone *not* respect a man or woman who feels that way? Apart from being part of their very nature (in which case, it's indisputable), to me it just says what an open-minded, free thinker that person must be. And, to me, that's just downright .

pardonme4livin said:

i just don't understand this...how can you think women can be bi, but not men?

In the last 20 years or so, lots of men came out as bisexual cause they weren't comfortable with the gay idea yet. I'm not saying there aren't truly bisexual people, just that no woman wants to commit to a man who later on down the road says "I've been fooling myself and you, I'm actually gay". There's a reason for the skepticism.

But I think it's all up to the people involved. I would think if a man is out as bisexual and openly dates both men and women and is otherwise trustworthy, there wouldn't be a need to doubt their intentions.

CarrieMpls said:

see???

I'm not crazy then! Women really do distrust bi-sexual men. Not because they're bi-sexual, but because their's always a prevailing thought that they are just gay and not fully coming to terms with it!

That's a switch, not a bisexual.

Imago said:

Again, as I've stated before in the thread, its not some much an issue of trust. Lets face it, the epidemic of AIDS is real when African American Women Health are concerned.I've worked in communities and seen the devastation first hand. It is essential that partners be honest with each other, no need to sugar coat the truth and be greedy with switch hitting, communicate, and get tested regularly, have safe sex and use condoms if not in a committed relationship.

But alot of girls and guys here in the states think bi-sexual = gay when it comes to guys.

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Imago said:

A bisexual man is GAY. Plain and simple.....

Graycap23 said:

as in "Dude that is sooooo gay" or like anti-God, buttsex = sin, gay?

Imago said:

However it is defined.

but a bisexual woman is still bisexual, right?

evenstar said:

Women can do what ever they like.....

Graycap23 said:

but men can't?

evenstar said:

Can't speak 2 that.....can't relate.

Graycap23 said:

then why the need to decide that men who identify with being bisexual are GAY, as you put it?