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Printablefhqwhgads said: heybaby said: So so far from what I'ver read: most women won't date a bisexual man because he may turnout to be gay and some gay men won't date a bisexual man because he may turn out to be gay? and there is no such thing as a bisexual man altogether?
ya'll some confused mofos 
I don't believe in labels. people choose who they choose. If people stop having so many hangups about being afraid of looking into themselves at the risk of possibly finding that their idea of attraction may some how cross that 'alternative boundary' then the better off we will be. 
I married a woman. I have been and am still occasionally attracted to men. I'm also occasionally attracted to women. I say occasionally as it's pertinent, since when I was younger being attracted to people, dating, flirting etc. just wasn't a big part of my world and so it's not something I ever really thought about much, or my sexuality. When I met my now wife I had feelings I'd really never had before and the rest is history. I was really drawn to her and notably really wanted to have sex with her (  ), which is something I've never felt about a man, despite being drawn to some men before also. So, would that make me kinda bi? Would I say maybe I'm 70% hetero? 60%? 80%? I don't feel it's necessary to put a label on myself or some percentage as all I know is I met someone I love, who I married, and who I'm committed to. I'm very happy and what need would I have for a label?
. [Edited 2/27/08 17:38pm] And this is what I think people have a inner problem with. to admit that or even entertain the thought would some how be a self reflection on their part-thus making a full on black n white opinion with no grey area. I think its sad for a person to deprive themselves of 'self discovery' no matter what the issue is. | |
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fhqwhgads said: heybaby said: So so far from what I'ver read: most women won't date a bisexual man because he may turnout to be gay and some gay men won't date a bisexual man because he may turn out to be gay? and there is no such thing as a bisexual man altogether?
ya'll some confused mofos
I don't believe in labels. people choose who they choose. If people stop having so many hangups about being afraid of looking into themselves at the risk of possibly finding that their idea of attraction may some how cross that 'alternative boundary' then the better off we will be.
I married a woman. I have been and am still occasionally attracted to men. I'm also occasionally attracted to women. I say occasionally as it's pertinent, since when I was younger being attracted to people, dating, flirting etc. just wasn't a big part of my world and so it's not something I ever really thought about much, or my sexuality. When I met my now wife I had feelings I'd really never had before and the rest is history. I was really drawn to her and notably really wanted to have sex with her ( ), which is something I've never felt about a man, despite being drawn to some men before also. So, would that make me kinda bi? Would I say maybe I'm 70% hetero? 60%? 80%? I don't feel it's necessary to put a label on myself or some percentage as all I know is I met someone I love, who I married, and who I'm committed to. I'm very happy and what need would I have for a label?
. [Edited 2/27/08 17:38pm] If we had met 7 years ago, and you were above the age of 18, I'd probably would have fucked the shit out of you after a few hours of casual talk. | |
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heybaby said: fhqwhgads said:
I married a woman. I have been and am still occasionally attracted to men. I'm also occasionally attracted to women. I say occasionally as it's pertinent, since when I was younger being attracted to people, dating, flirting etc. just wasn't a big part of my world and so it's not something I ever really thought about much, or my sexuality. When I met my now wife I had feelings I'd really never had before and the rest is history. I was really drawn to her and notably really wanted to have sex with her ( ), which is something I've never felt about a man, despite being drawn to some men before also. So, would that make me kinda bi? Would I say maybe I'm 70% hetero? 60%? 80%? I don't feel it's necessary to put a label on myself or some percentage as all I know is I met someone I love, who I married, and who I'm committed to. I'm very happy and what need would I have for a label?
. [Edited 2/27/08 17:38pm] And this is what I think people have a inner problem with. to admit that or even entertain the thought would some how be a self reflection on their part-thus making a full on black n white opinion with no grey area. I think its sad for a person to deprive themselves of 'self discovery' no matter what the issue is. Exactly. What's to be scared of? If you just be yourself and let yourself feel whatever you feel then it's all good. How can you go wrong if you just be honest with yourself? We owe ourselves and need that if we want to be happy. For my part I thought about what it'd be like with a woman or a man when I was in my late teens. There's no harm in really mulling over the ins and out of your feelings. Quite the opposite, I think. | |
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That was kinda hot Dan  | |
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Imago said: fhqwhgads said:
I married a woman. I have been and am still occasionally attracted to men. I'm also occasionally attracted to women. I say occasionally as it's pertinent, since when I was younger being attracted to people, dating, flirting etc. just wasn't a big part of my world and so it's not something I ever really thought about much, or my sexuality. When I met my now wife I had feelings I'd really never had before and the rest is history. I was really drawn to her and notably really wanted to have sex with her ( ), which is something I've never felt about a man, despite being drawn to some men before also. So, would that make me kinda bi? Would I say maybe I'm 70% hetero? 60%? 80%? I don't feel it's necessary to put a label on myself or some percentage as all I know is I met someone I love, who I married, and who I'm committed to. I'm very happy and what need would I have for a label?
. [Edited 2/27/08 17:38pm] If we had met 7 years ago, and you were above the age of 18, I'd probably would have fucked the shit out of you after a few hours of casual talk. omg, I just came. out. | |
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fhqwhgads said: heybaby said: And this is what I think people have a inner problem with. to admit that or even entertain the thought would some how be a self reflection on their part-thus making a full on black n white opinion with no grey area. I think its sad for a person to deprive themselves of 'self discovery' no matter what the issue is. Exactly. What's to be scared of? If you just be yourself and let yourself feel whatever you feel then it's all good. How can you go wrong if you just be honest with yourself? We owe ourselves and need that if we want to be happy. For my part I thought about what it'd be like with a woman or a man when I was in my late teens. There's no harm in really mulling over the ins and out of your feelings. Quite the opposite, I think. It's easy to say in Bangkok where you could fuck a duck and it would be ok, with their anything-goes attitude in Thailand. I believe Thais have a relatively playful attitude towards sex compared to more repressed European and puritan American attitudes. But here in the states--It's harder for alot of folks who are not in big cities, etc. etc. Growing up, it I remember young men couldn't even admit to masturbating | |
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Stymie said: I think bi men are fucking hot.
me too girlI'm feelin kind of n-a-s-t-y
I might just take you home with me | |
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Stymie said: I think bi men are fucking hot.
me too girlI'm feelin kind of n-a-s-t-y
I might just take you home with me | |
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Imago said: fhqwhgads said: Exactly. What's to be scared of? If you just be yourself and let yourself feel whatever you feel then it's all good. How can you go wrong if you just be honest with yourself? We owe ourselves and need that if we want to be happy. For my part I thought about what it'd be like with a woman or a man when I was in my late teens. There's no harm in really mulling over the ins and out of your feelings. Quite the opposite, I think. It's easy to say in Bangkok where you could fuck a duck and it would be ok, with their anything-goes attitude in Thailand. I believe Thais have a relatively playful attitude towards sex compared to more repressed European and puritan American attitudes. But here in the states--It's harder for alot of folks who are not in big cities, etc. etc. Growing up, it I remember young men couldn't even admit to masturbating Yeah, in some of the media there's often an effort to be totally straight-laced and conservative (ladyboys on gameshows aside), but in society in general it's pretty open-minded. You may recall my story about Mon's brother laughing over beers with his mates about times they've been with ladyboys, sometimes knowing, sometimes not sure, and there's no stigma there. Plus, being Thai they're all a little bit gay anyway. (jk - kinda)
Mon and I joke with each other that we're basically a gay man and a lesbian who got married. | |
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heybaby said: That was kinda hot Dan
You likey likey  | |
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Imago said: heybaby said: That was kinda hot Dan
You likey likey bow chicka bow bow... 
I hereby find that this thread is a success | |
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BabyGirl said: Stymie said: I think bi men are fucking hot.
me too girlIf it has a dick, you like it. | |
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I am bi for two men only.
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benyamin said: I am bi for two men only.
You have obligations as a member of Doom.  | |
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fhqwhgads said: benyamin said: I am bi for two men only.
You have obligations as a member of Doom. To what exaclty? | |
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benyamin said: fhqwhgads said: You have obligations as a member of Doom. To what exaclty? 
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eikonoklastes said: BabyGirl said: me too girlIf it has a dick, you like it. too bad thats not true huh? I'm feelin kind of n-a-s-t-y
I might just take you home with me | |
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fhqwhgads said: benyamin said: To what exaclty? Fine.  he's trashed- we can do whatever we want with him. | |
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fhqwhgads said: benyamin said: To what exaclty?
. [Edited 2/27/08 19:13pm] sex with you 3? GOOD. | |
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 He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above... 
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benyamin said: fhqwhgads said:
. [Edited 2/27/08 19:13pm] sex with you 3? GOOD. i say after paris we hit thailand. | |
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BabyGirl said: eikonoklastes said: If it has a dick, you like it. too bad thats not true huh? Okay, ho. :p | |
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evenstar said: benyamin said: sex with you 3? GOOD. i say after paris we hit thailand. | |
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fhqwhgads said: Imago said: You likey likey bow chicka bow bow...
I hereby find that this thread is a success  surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
I ain't felt this way in years... | |
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reneGade20 said: 
Hey muscle man, I wanna hear what you have to say! surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
I ain't felt this way in years... | |
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KidaDynamite said: reneGade20 said:
Hey muscle man, I wanna hear what you have to say! Suffice to say that in my pre-married days.....single, in the military (the first time in the mid-late 80's) pre-married days.....I was a bit of a Columbus...I explored my boundaries... 
He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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fhqwhgads said: evenstar said: i say after paris we hit thailand. you'll have to sleep for a week after we leave but it'll be worth it, promise. | |
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reneGade20 said: KidaDynamite said:
Hey muscle man, I wanna hear what you have to say! Suffice to say that in my pre-married days.....single, in the military (the first time in the mid-late 80's) pre-married days.....I was a bit of a Columbus...I explored my boundaries...
Nice!!!  surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
I ain't felt this way in years... | |
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evenstar said: fhqwhgads said: you'll have to sleep for a week after we leave but it'll be worth it, promise. 
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