Imago said:

That's why I said usually.

Of course there are exceptions.

And there was definitely a phase that went around when we were younger, but I think that phase continues with most people college-aged and a bit further. It's a time of experimentation.

JerseyKRS said:

Can I score at least a kiss on the cheek when we meet? An innocent kiss?

CarrieMpls said:

Yup I agree. College is when it all goes down. Unfortunately I was in the military for much of my college years, so much of those 'strange twighlight' years were done in green Fatigues and Air Force blues.

Frat boys are nasty though. I swear, feed one of them enough beer and he'll fuck a dog.

KidaDynamite said:

Because even in 2008, it's an extremely hostile world for any man that dare consider having sex with another man. It's easier to keep those urges undercover, or to share them only with like-minded individuals.

Imago said:

That is a visual I just don't need....

Imago said:

paintedlady said:

I might have been exaggerating.

PDogz said:

I love your signature!


Are you hot?

I couldn't date a bisexual man. Haven't you seen that Sex and the City episode?

I was having this conversation with a professor at Brown the other day. I just can't see a man being bi...I'm one of the women that think if a guy claims to be bi he's just not ready to come out of the closet fully.

And I also think that bi women are just greedy sluts and want it all


Go ahead flame away, I'm just being honest!

CarrieLee said:

I don't think folks should flame this. This is seriously what I think 90% of women think. The 10% who don't think that way are fag hagging.

I think.

CarrieLee said:

Nah, I'm not gonna flame you. I just know I'm not greedy.

PDogz said:

Well then how does a bi-sexual man find lovers of the same sex without giving himself away? "Poker night" with the buddies? How do you find the buddies in the first place?

paintedlady said:

Start with Craig's list.

Imago said:

Ah I see ....

In my opinion....MY OPINION!!!!!....there is no such thing as a bi-sexual man...

Either you suck dick....or you do not suck dick....

MY OPINION!!!!



So Dan... I guess that should answer and lingering questions about your sexuality....

pardonme4livin said:

So is there a such thing as a bi woman?

pardonme4livin said:

Are you propositioning me?

pardonme4livin said:

Ummmm..... what if you just get off on being please by anyone... I mean you use your hand at times right? You wouldn't only be attracted to hands ..... would you?

I have said this three times in the last week about different issues but it applies here.

Labels suck. People should just be allowed to be themselves instead of being afraid of being put into a box or category.

I am amazed at the viewpoints on this so far.

I mean, talk about closed minds. It's incredible to me that this is unfathomable for so many.

It makes me wonder what else these people can't believe.

Stymie said:

yes....

INSATIABLE said:

what?

I'm serious! Frat boys will end up fucking dogs if given enough beer!

INSATIABLE said:

Imago said:

No.... fool.....

Stymie said:

That was an exaggeration and I'm being sarcastic.

BUT

My female friends who claim to be bisexual ARE sluts! They will be the first to admit it! So I just came to the conclusion that they just REEAAAALLLY like sex and want to get it on with everyone

Please don't take offense to that. I was being my crass self.

pardonme4livin said:

Maybe we should continue this via phone?

CarrieLee said:

I don't take offense.

Imago said:

I think you're right....both right, actually. EXCEEEEPT in the cases of chicks like me: the refusal to become involved with a bi-guy is more about my ego and not wanting to deal with double the competition for another's affections. It's completely juvenile on my part, but while I believe it's entirely possible for a person to authentically connect with both sexes, I don't want the added (yet embraced and expected) issue of them being able to go after Judy AND John if I'm trying to make it with them.

Additionally, for me I don't think that bi-sexual men are automatically qualified as 'just gay', rather than seeing them as 'this is a human being who needs certain physical attributes (and others) that I will NEVER be able to supply him with 100%', so why set myself up for the ineveitable failure that will eventually arrive when he needs to go out there and discover his destiny within psycho-psysiological connection of another man, his other mirror...? I think some people can work with that, but I'm not one of them. I need the focus to be all about ME, which is enough in itself with all the cute girlies out there: don't need to have the cute guys lining up around the corner too for the object of my affection. I suppose I look at the issue in a very unevolved, animal kingdom-cougarish- self-presevation kind of way

paintedlady said:

Not sure how to answer you.... I will address the attraction to hands thing though.... that's just silly.....hands are attached to someone right? For me...it's the ladies only.....

Ottensen said:

Wow, y'all really do think we are hoes.