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Thread started 02/19/08 9:03am

butterfli25

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My birth mother found me

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I am kinda in shock this morning. We had a long conversation last night. She answered all of the questions I had. I feel connected to someone, and I have a history at last.

she's been keeping tabs on me my whole life, she told me things about my childhood that lead me to believe that she had been talking to someone. she mentioned a social worker.

she called the state of california and said you have to help me find my child.

she paid someone to find me.

I have 2 brothers.

wow.
butterfly
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Reply #1 posted 02/19/08 9:04am

EverSouliciouS
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wow eek hug
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Reply #2 posted 02/19/08 9:04am

Mach

rose wonderful

my friend shay connected with her birth mother 3 yrs ago and WOW is right

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Reply #3 posted 02/19/08 9:05am

shanti0608

Awesome news.
Best wishes rose
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Reply #4 posted 02/19/08 9:08am

mdiver

Wonderful news, go slow, learn,connect. hug rose Best wishes to you both.
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Reply #5 posted 02/19/08 9:08am

INSATIABLE

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Incredible. heart
Oh shit, my hat done fell off
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Reply #6 posted 02/19/08 9:14am

butterfli25

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yeah she says "so you like prince huh?" when the woman she hired got my name she did an internet search and found buttefli25 on prince.org


lol
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Reply #7 posted 02/19/08 9:22am

CarrieLee

Wow. You have got to have a million emotions inside you right now. I hope that you can have a relationship with her and your brothers. Family is important, I'm glad she found you. Wishing you the best! rose
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Reply #8 posted 02/19/08 9:24am

butterfli25

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yeah its all kinda undefineable right now.

mind blowing that's for sure.
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Reply #9 posted 02/19/08 9:38am

benyamin

biggrin AWESOME. biggrin
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Reply #10 posted 02/19/08 9:45am

Serious

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Wow eek rose!
With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A....
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Reply #11 posted 02/19/08 9:48am

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that is a neat story . hope it continues to just work out well !

I on the other hand am still convinced my parents are not my real parents ... confused neutral
Colonel Angus may be smelly. colonel angus may be a little rough . but deep down ... Colonel angus is very sweet.
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Reply #12 posted 02/19/08 9:50am

JustErin

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How exciting.
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Reply #13 posted 02/19/08 9:52am

ArielB

butterfli25 said:

yeah she says "so you like prince huh?" when the woman she hired got my name she did an internet search and found buttefli25 on prince.org


lol

So she's reading this now? smile


hug This is shocking news, and I'm sure it'll answer a lot of your questions.
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Reply #14 posted 02/19/08 10:04am

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ArielB said:

butterfli25 said:

yeah she says "so you like prince huh?" when the woman she hired got my name she did an internet search and found buttefli25 on prince.org


lol

So she's reading this now? smile


hug This is shocking news, and I'm sure it'll answer a lot of your questions.

may be

she's online we've been emailing back and forth this morning.
she still in the hallelujah stage
I am just confused
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its all good though, cool
I told her I am a people person anyway so we can talk and maybe visit if I could ever get enough time to go to cali lol
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Reply #15 posted 02/19/08 10:07am

heybaby

this is wonderful hug
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Reply #16 posted 02/19/08 10:09am

Janfriend

I hope this works out the way you want it to. These things can be tricky
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Reply #17 posted 02/19/08 10:12am

Graycap23

proceed .....s l o w l y.
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Reply #18 posted 02/19/08 10:13am

morningsong

I'm happy for you. rose
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Reply #19 posted 02/19/08 11:52am

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I'm happy for you hug
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Reply #20 posted 02/19/08 1:21pm

Sweeny79

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Yowsa, that's cool.
In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular.
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Reply #21 posted 02/19/08 1:23pm

One4All4Ever

I'm so happy for you rose
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Reply #22 posted 02/19/08 1:24pm

susannah

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omg Wow, thats incredible, I hope you are able to build a beautiful relationship with her. All the best hug
Rock n roll baby
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Reply #23 posted 02/19/08 1:25pm

RodeoSchro

butterfli25 said:

eek
I am kinda in shock this morning. We had a long conversation last night. She answered all of the questions I had. I feel connected to someone, and I have a history at last.

she's been keeping tabs on me my whole life, she told me things about my childhood that lead me to believe that she had been talking to someone. she mentioned a social worker.

she called the state of california and said you have to help me find my child.

she paid someone to find me.

I have 2 brothers.

wow.


WOW! I hope this is a joyful experience for you!

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Reply #24 posted 02/19/08 1:31pm

myfavorite

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That's really great news.....I'm happy for you.....
THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]

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Reply #25 posted 02/19/08 1:34pm

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ArielB said:

butterfli25 said:

yeah she says "so you like prince huh?" when the woman she hired got my name she did an internet search and found buttefli25 on prince.org


lol

So she's reading this now? smile


hug This is shocking news, and I'm sure it'll answer a lot of your questions.

I hope so because, as she will soon find out, she birthed one of the most amazing women this planet will ever know! mushy And you have family in Cali???!!!! Please tell me they live closeby to me so your cousin Supa can visit! lol

I hope that everything works out for the positive with this. nod Your birthmother can only be proud of the person that she had a hand in bringing into this world. She will be truly blessed to be able to know you smile

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Reply #26 posted 02/19/08 1:51pm

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butterfli25 said:

eek
I am kinda in shock this morning. We had a long conversation last night. She answered all of the questions I had. I feel connected to someone, and I have a history at last.

she's been keeping tabs on me my whole life, she told me things about my childhood that lead me to believe that she had been talking to someone. she mentioned a social worker.

she called the state of california and said you have to help me find my child.

she paid someone to find me.

I have 2 brothers.

wow.


woot! hug That's awesome, butterfli. Are you going to meet your two brothers one day?
RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you.
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Reply #27 posted 02/19/08 2:57pm

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Janfriend said:

I hope this works out the way you want it to. These things can be tricky

yes I know.
thanks for the concern hug
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Reply #28 posted 02/19/08 3:01pm

butterfli25

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Graycap23 said:

proceed .....s l o w l y.


it is moving quite fast, but i know a few things
1. she is not my mama, that one is at my house
2. she is not trying to be mama, she knows she missed that
3. since I already have 1 crackhead brother, i am leary about finding more falloff so I will slow down.
4. i am pretty pragmatic and wasn't really looking for her so this is cool, I wasn't desparate, this just fell in my lap.
5. it is nice though to know that she's been looking for me for quite some time.

so I will slow the process, right now she is just asking questions. I sent her a couple of those survey things you know the ones where you answer questions about yourself? just to let her know that I am silly.
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Reply #29 posted 02/19/08 5:14pm

ZombieKitten

butterfli25 said:

Graycap23 said:

proceed .....s l o w l y.


it is moving quite fast, but i know a few things
1. she is not my mama, that one is at my house
2. she is not trying to be mama, she knows she missed that
3. since I already have 1 crackhead brother, i am leary about finding more falloff so I will slow down.
4. i am pretty pragmatic and wasn't really looking for her so this is cool, I wasn't desparate, this just fell in my lap.
5. it is nice though to know that she's been looking for me for quite some time.

so I will slow the process, right now she is just asking questions. I sent her a couple of those survey things you know the ones where you answer questions about yourself? just to let her know that I am silly.


you sound like such a sensible and grounded person, so I can tell this will go well for you, since you have no unrealistic expectations.
hug hug all the best for you
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