Ace said:

Too bad your girlfriend stands in our way of sharing those common interests.

...So like me and an ex went outside wearing just top hats and went and had a hot shag in the top meadow in a storm.

When I was but a boy, I saw a news report on what was then a new phenomenon: the fetish party.

Toronto was very early on the scene and I still recall them interviewing a very pretty, gothy-looking girl, who described in a flirty, television-appropriate way, what went on inside. The whole thing put a schwing in my schween.

When I was old enough, I ventured into this subculture (which was still very taboo and underground at the time - this was before Madonna's Sex).

Anyhoo...it led me into a sex life filled with perversion and depravity and lots and lots of fun. Pretty much anything involving fetishwear, bondage, spanking, anal and/or rough sex, nasty talk, etc. - with me in the dominant role (or "Dominant" as the lifers write it ) - was my favorite.

I feel like I've kinda done it all. And although my preferences in porn still include rough doggie-style, anal, spanking, filthy talk, leather, etc., I don't need to experience it anymore. Too much drama attached to this sex stuff.

JustErin said:

I haven't had a girlfriend in a long time. They wanna, like, go out and junk.

Ace said:

i wanna get into your head and find out what happened to freaky deaky ace

Ace said:

I think I love you.

Ace said:

Oh man.

Except the fetish wear.

Ace said:

Oh damn I need a cigarette.....if you say it's okay if I have one.

Usually I don't discuss my fantasies with my partners.
I just go for it. Spontaneity is sexy, me thinks.
So far I've never been thrown out of bed.


And I'm not vanilla.


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I don't really have any. Just having sex with her is good enough as is, but it'd be cool to do it outdoors or in public.

rushing07 said:

Good, cause I'm a dirty ho!

emm said:

I'm still freaky (although my personal belief is that everyone harbors sexual fantasies that most of them are afraid to admit to); I just don't believe anymore that there's any such thing as no-strings-attached sex and my freedom is way more important to me than sticking my wang in somebody else.

Stymie said:

Well, you know I think about as highly of you as you can of someone you've only communicated with via typing, but I think a 1990 exchange between an audience member and an in-therapy Bruce Springsteen would be particularly apropos here:

Ace said:[quote]

Stymie said:

Imago said:

Drrrrty?

I don't have a wild fantasy
And no, I wouldn't be able to handle any fantasy. There are boundaries that I'm not willing to cross. But otherwise, yes, it would be my pleasure to fulfill her fantasies.

rushing07 said:

In all seriousness, I don't like to disuss shit like that either. It feels to much like a script you have to keep along with once it's been "discussed".


Plus how do you tell somebody over dinner or foreplay, "Do you like to beat the shit out of some one, and suck icecubes out of their swamp ass?"

Shit can scare folks.






rushing07, I love you!!

rushing07 said:

Ooh - "Dirrty"-era Christina. Even though she's an oversinging, dumb skank, I woulda put something between those chaps hard and fast, back in the day.

Ace said:

Me too.

Ace said:

Dude, she's fucking hot in that video

I love the part when She and her backup singers are on the floor doing a pelvic thrust, and each time their little kilts fly up, you can see her bright red panties.

That shit gets me hard.

Imago said:

Oh, I had plenty of first-date convos about the raunchiest of things over dinner. Alcohol probably greased the wheel, but it's not necessary with the right approach.

Ace said:

see? there is a story there. as long as you are happy
whenever i think of spanking skirts i will always think of you

Imago said:

Ya know, somethin' 'bout her look in that vid always turned me off a little. I prefer this (although the braids have got to go):

Ace said:

It's the spray-on tan that I think you don't like, if I know your taste by now


I think she looks nice and unclean in that video




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emm said:

Oh, I'm way happier than I ever was back then. As another person who dabbled in BDSM sang:

Happiness lies in your own hands
It took me much too long to understand
Just how it could be

Imago said:

While I don't dig the tan, I think it's more of a hair/wardrobe/choreography issue.

Actually, I like this ('cept for the gnarly hair):



But I seem to recall a plaid skirt? Never got into the whole schoolgirl fetish thing.

Ace said:

That better be a stand in and not her cuz, going by this pic, I am pretty sure her stand in was a dude.

I wouldn't tell him, don't want him to get fixated on any other guys I might be thinking about and likewise, don't particularly want to hear any names of other women, unless it's Clare of course

If your partner asked for your wildest fantasy...could you tell it to them?

I did that once & hurt someone's feelings Depends on the kinda guy he is, if I felt he could handle it. Cause it really ain't that wild, yet I probably couldn't find anyone trustworthy enough to do it with...



Could you handle your partner's fantasy? No matter what it was?

I have no idea, depends on how fucking freaky he is. I'm not up for just anything now



What is your wildest fantasy?

Again, it's not so wild, but 2 guys w/ 99.9% of the focus on me. THAT'S why I hurt dude's feelings, b/c when I told him he goes, "NO! What's your fantasy about ME??!!" I was like, "Oh damn!" Don't ask the question if you can't handle the answer, mf!