DexMSR said:

paintedlady said:

No, it means the cameraman has gotten too close to my feet.

DexMSR said:

What?!? Have you lost your mind? Tell me to get lost and I"M DA FUCK GONE! Quickc and inna hurry!

With spousal and/or child support soon to follow!

Adisa said:

If couples do not have kids they can tell them any way they want, but if there are kids involved they best be an adult with the way they deal with the situation because no matter what, they're tied to them forever. Acting like an immature fucktard only hurts their kids.

Fellas, why is it that when some of you go out looking for a woman to bone, you find her and sleep with her, she is the slut and you aren't?
from my experience, women are more apt to call another woman the slut in that situation......the only time I use that term to describe a woman is when she's openly fucking others while attached....yes, I did say openly...ofcourse it's no better if somebody is fucking around on the down low, but it's especially shitty when folks do it without even trying to diguise it...

Why do some of you want the prettiest woman but do nothing to keep yourselves up?
kinda works both ways, don't ya think?

Why are some of you two pump chumps?
'cause it feels good?
'cause it's been awhile?
I can honestly say that my only true two pump experience was my first time...that's not to say that I haven't had some embarassingly short sessions before...but two pumps?? thats bad...

Inquiring minds wanna know.

paintedlady said:

Look, I'll be the first to admit that I'm not or anything remotely close....but I will say that in the many years that I've been with my wife, one of the constant rubs with her was that I was good friends with a couple of my exes and other platonic "girlfriends"....she just couldn't fathom that we could be friends without strings....and I can tell you without a doubt that she accused me of doing shit way more than fact allowed....she sang that same song about not having a problem with it, but I can remember several times when I made it a point to introduce her to one of my friends if I ran into them and out popped the claws for absolutely no reason...

...hence my question.....

**...though having said all that, I'm glad to say that my wife and I settled all of that and we're still together, happily married nearly 17 years.....**
[Edited 2/21/08 14:09pm]

reneGade20 said:

i think that's your answer right there dear
i know you've worked hard as a couple and perhaps
there will come a time where she doesn't feel threatened.
in the mean time let her know every day she's the only one.

emm said:

you know I do.... but its a trip because sometimes she still gives me that sideways glance like I'm up to something because I'm doting more....

reneGade20 said:

It is never a good idea to keep exes as close friends, mixed feelings can result on their part. Just always a good rule when you are married. And I believe with your wife it might be more of a question of her trusting the other women you are friendly with and not so much questioning your fidelity.

and Emm is right.... a little appreciation goes a long way.

paintedlady said:

well the exes as friends thing is definitely a "girl" thing.... cuz as I've told her and said here on the org, if it was that good with the ex then she wouldn't have become one, right?

but trust me....I have been giving much appreciation and showering much love and affection....

reneGade20 said:

agreed and good for you... a man that knows how to handle his business

paintedlady said:

First thing that came to my mind, too. I've seen too many scenerios of just that thing.

paintedlady said:

I'm sure he meant in the heat of an argument....GET LOST!

Slow your damn roll!

Whap!!

Stymie said:

who are you and what did you do with my Ivy-kins?

first of all, what is wrong with being a 'slut'? you said it like it's a bad thing :ahem: i hear what you're saying mama, thing is if a dude thinks like this i wanna know up front so really it's cool... i can drop his ass and move on much quicker... next

Now the second one I'm feelin'. Only let's not only say it's about physical attraction but extend it to all areas of life. What tickles me in when a dude or chica has a detailed list of what they want in a mate but if they'd only stop and think about it if they ever did find someone with all those qualities... why the hell would they want them hahahaha cause it's normally someone with a less than desirable past, no financial security, a half ass job and/or shaky living situations that is making the list!!! So yeah, we all need to check ourselves on that one, men and women. Be realistic about what we're bringing to the table.

Two bump chumps have I told you today how much I love you!! LMAO!

lawd knows I've had one or two of those in my day you know the commercial for hard dick pills that say "if you have an erection that last's over four hours seek medical attention" fonk that... seek ME!



but in all seriousness... we might want to be careful what labels and groups we places people in simply because they appear plain jane or beautiful. beauty is in the eye of the beholder and honestly there are assholes in every kind of body imaginable sexy or not.

love love loveeeee!!

TaoDevi said:

Your whole response has me laughin' my ass off!!!

I'm not trying to label anyone. That's why I said early on "some". I'm an observer. I watch my friends and their situations and there is just some stuff I scratch my head about.

Stymie said:

i only read your initial post i never read the whole thread... that's why i suck at the forum thang.

if that made you laugh wait til i talk to you and tell you what happen to me today lmao... me, a sexy in uniform and hand sanitizer... that's all i'm saying for now

TaoDevi said:

I can't wait.

morningsong said:

yep yep

DexMSR said:

paintedlady said:

I agree

Especially about it being more of a question of her not trusting the other women.
Women know women and we can smell a user and a manipulator a mile away, men cannot. It is nothing against the man but some do not see how bad other women can be.

Stymie said:

I don't go out and find women to bone. I'm not into one-night stands. If I did have a one-off thing with a woman, I wouldn't consider her a slut afterwards.

I try to keep myself up, I use skin care products, take care of my hair and personal hygiene etc etc.

I'm not a 'two pump chump'

There ya go

JustErin said:[quote]

pardonme4livin said:

Because - believe it or not - guys do like to know they can open up to someone who clearly cares about them, regardless of looks. Sure, if they're hot it helps, but when it comes to commitment, subconsciously men, just like women, look for stability, maturity and reliability for their potential offspring.

The two-pump chump thing was terrifying for me, and then I go and find out I take ages to come and want to be a two-pump chump.

benyamin said:

benyamin said:

OHHH shit.. I forgot about that one.

shanti0608 said:

Well if you girls are mature that means we can still fart and laugh with good reason.

benyamin said:

I see your logic. Works for me

shanti0608 said:

JustErin said:

It doesn't matter if the women or 'hot' or 'plain janes' or whatever. Men's pussy greed will always make them lust after any women that are different from the one they're married to.
Look at some of the guys with so-called hot wives;
The women got their men's attention by wearing sexy things, "fuck me" pumps, boobs spilling out of their clothes. They get married and he then berates her every day for dressing and behaving the exact same way that attracted him to her in the first place. And a lot of them end up cheating on these women with frumpy dumpy school marms.

Men will never be satisfied with whoever they're with.

alwayslate said:

This is far too stereotypical. I, and many of my friends, find girls who are way to upfront and open quite disgusting and irritating. It's not hot.

You know on the flip side of the coin I could just sit here and say guy stereotypes like "girls who claim to be lesbians are just pussies that can't get cock." or that girls are equally shallow in their constant "search for Mr. Right" - that's just an excuse to fuck a load of guys then crawl back to an ex and marry him.

Fortunately, I don't believe any of that.