and dialing
and propositioning
and kissing
and fucking
and sucking
and getting kissed
and fucked
and sucked
and loving it
and waking up
and feeling bad
and lonely
and drinking
again.




I thought maybe I need a man to rescue me so I met a guy and he is very nice and I think that we have some important things in common but everytime I talk to him I wonder what he'll think if I tell him about her.....AND I am thinking that if he were to tell me that he'd ever fallen for a man how completely turned OFF that would make me!!!!.....dammit dammit dammit.

Can any women on the Great Org identify with this???
Maybe I'll move to Alaska. That'll cool me off.

alwayslate said:

I wanna be supportive and sympathetic, but put repeat at the end of that list and it sounds like an awesome weekend to me. Probably why you're seeking the advice of women.

If it's not your bag, I hope you work it out. Alaska doesn't seem like the right move, what else would you do other than drink and fuck?

Don't tell him about her. If you're not feeling him emotionally, just use him for the sex.

It's something to do until something better comes along, right?

JustErin said:

AGREED...

In my experience, putting thousands of miles between you and your problems doesn't really help anything. Not in any real way, unless you have something to focus on in that other place. Because, after all, in this day and age, the problems are only a phonecall or an email away.

JustErin said:

It's not serious at all. we mainly just talk on the phone at this point. i like him but i wouldn't dare tell him unless it was getting serious. I'm not going to sleep with him. I definitely do not need the added drama.
and i really really do not trust men. at all. so it's just not a good idea.

alwayslate said:

If he knew you were not going to sleep with him, would he still talk to you?

alwayslate said:

Oh, I thought you slept with HIM as a distraction from the girl, but I guess the initial post is about the girl & not this guy So if you're not gonna fuck him, why even consider telling him anything about that?

Seems like you're trying to get your mind off the girl but in talking to the guy, all you can think about is discussing the girl b/c that's what's really on your mind

alwayslate said:

Why do I always hear Me'Shell playing in the background of your threads...?

jbchavez said:

This is pretty much the reason why I'm not going to. Not that he has done or said anything to indicate that. It's just how I feel about men in general. He's a nice man though.

alwayslate said:

Ahhhh hell no Elle.... I can't let you drink alone...

first thing, break out of that cycle!
and there's no need to tell him about her right away

You can do that later if things become serious

pardonme4livin said:

That was me all weekend... glug glug glug ... boo hoo glug. Having a kid keeps me from throwing too much of a pity party but boy oh, boy.
I watched a bootleg of Spamalot and cried when Tim Curry kissed the Lady of the Lake because I was drunk. And I love Tim Curry. Why I can't I meet a Tim Curry and falling love and he can rescue me from all this?

alwayslate said:

alwayslate said:

Ummmm... I don't get the whole Tim Curry thing...but to each his/her own...

drinking again on Wedenesday night. This time Bacardi God... I mean Gold. Bacardi Gold. Thank the Lord she called in sick today.
Yesterday I made a special and I mean SPECIAL effort to look extra hot just to get her damned attention.
I stayed up til around 1130pm on a MONDAY night doing my hair.
corduroy skirt (I had it for 8 years but it's hot, okay?), boots, tight turtle neck (and I HATE tight clothes). Then this Gawldang woman shows up Tuesday looking like ... like if you could picture the word appetite.
navy blue blouse, her breasts are just, just mouthwatering.
black skirt, black pumps. Did I mention her breasts?
So today she was out of the office thank you JESUS!!! And Friday is approaching and I swear I am gonna call her and she will use me again. And I will love it and hate myself.

alwayslate said:

...Here I sit outside your door
talk to me...

alwayslate said:

maybe you need to get a new job.

I love you, alwayslate.

JasmineFire said:

...as a writer.

violator said:

lol
i'm not a fan of hers but I see your point.

alwayslate said:

I don't say it to poke fun. You are one of the more interesting individuals on this site.

And I am a fan.

alwayslate said:

& yes, do consider a writing gig. for real