I'd be less shy & fearful, more confident. I could be SO much further in my "career" & in life in general if I didn't have so many hangups & insecurities. I fall into "woe is me" patterns really easily, but I'm working on all that shit. Hopefully I can bury/develop some of it...

I wish I was more outgoing and be less of a slacker. I used to underestimate myself. But I stop doing that.

I'd like to stop giving in to fears.

I'd like to be able to face fears and anxieties head on instead of spending so much time trying to avoid them and avoid thinking about them by ignoring them and throwing myself into meaningless passtimes and hobbies.

I'd like to be able to give to others what they've given to me, and let them know or make them believe just how much I love them and what they mean to me.

I'd like to be a lot less co-dependent in my relationships, and not use people, because I do, even if it's not what I want or intend to do.

I'd like to be "an active agent of change in my own life."



I've been working on all of this, and making giant leaps forward. Wish I felt like it meant something. And it does, but the hardest work is still ahead of me. But at least I'm getting there INSIDE of me, to the point where I can apply it to my life when I get the chance.

Raze said:

at least you recognize it and your working on it along with other things . be it romantic or friend or whatever some people have a tendency to refuse to see it for what it is and at the same time internalize it as an obligation on the other person's part. I see it all the time with people in my life. Its not healthy.

I wish I could be more assertive and not worry about hurting other ppl's feelings over my own.
I would like to be a bitch every now and then and when I get mad I would like ppl to take me seriously.

I wish I could change how I'm alwayz late 4 everything.Guess I mean I procrastinate 2 much.

sexxydancer said:

now now...prince is always fashionably to events and stuff so dont even trip

Nothing. My faults are as much as part of who I am as my positive aspects.

I wish I was better at math(s). Simple sums trip me up, and by extension, i'm not very good with money.

"His one regret in life is that he is not someone else." - Woody Allen

I wish I had more willpower, I mean I have more than a lot of people but I need more.

I'm working on it...

Hi Stymie

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

now it's an adjective

Slave2daGroove said:

Hello S2daG.

sexxydancer said:

thats me too but I won't be late today

I have no idea. Maybe not wishing horrible things to happen to people who piss me off?

gemini13 said:

That would be a great start.

Christopher said:

Well,yeah,ur right about that.Guess it's not so bad after all.

Im fine in all my weirdness and complexities I do drive my own self crazy tho'

I've come a really long way over the past several years in dealing with my "issues". I'm loving myself a lot right now. But, thinking too much is taxing, so I guess I want to change that.

I need to stop being so shy & awkward with a loss for words when meeting people for the first time, it's not helping me get anywhere in life and I have to work on it.

To stop getting so annoyed and angry about things. I have no patience for anything anymore, it seems.

My main struggle in life is getting sidetracked. My life gets sidetracked so that I feel I don't use my potential or develop opportunities in areas I really should. I get caught up in jobs/relationships that lead me away from myself, sometimes for years! I often seem to end up in a life I don't want, doing things I don't want to do, and with people I don't want to be with. I cannot figure this out!

I am working hard at maintaining my center and direction so that I have a life that is best for me, not other people. I have to keep vigilant boundaries and very clear visions for my future, otherwise I get sidetracked. I actually need to learn to be more selfish.

nothing really...I'm damn near perfect...


overconfidence has been an issue in the past, though...

Two inches taller. That would make me 5 foot. But only so I could reach things easier without a footstool.

Stymie said:

you a bitch? never

I wish I wasn't so critical--both of others and myself.

I wish I was more musically inclined--I wish I could sing and play the piano well.

TaoDevi said:

there are plenty of Orgers that would disagree with you.

But thank you Gin.

To follow up on my previous post above...and get more to the root...

I need to learn to leave situations before they get unhealthy. I tend to stay in situations for too long, much longer than most people would.

I wish I was taller and bigger too.