heybaby said:

I wasn't gonna bring that up.

ArielB said:

A highly specialized method of killing!

Serious said:

I'd fuck him if I were a girl.....

I think I had a pattern of either unavailable or men I had to lift up to make THEM feel better. During a patch of singledom and playing the field, I gave into a dude that would not leave me alone for years. ANd now four years later, we are very strong. I guess he worked hard enough, he isn't letting this mess go!

I say sometimes what we are attracted to are very bad for us

Stymie said:

I know

Every person I've dated is different. Way different than any other person. I guess I can't make up my mind about what I want. But mostly the relationships end on nearly the same note; Me wanting more than they want to give.
I've been with 6 men and 1 woman and of that bunch only twice have I been the one who didn't want things to get serious.

On the two occasions where my boyfriend wanted to take the relationship to a level I was not ready for; one time I was only in it because the sex was terrific and the other was because I thought I was too good for him.

hm.... oh boy.
I thought things would be different with a woman, but not so. She only wants me for sex. hm, I guess I deserve that in a "karma-ish" kinda way. At least she doesn't think she's too good for me.

Most of the guys I have been interested have been from the same mold. It wasn't until recently that I've busted that mold. All it was getting me was moldy men. I actually haven't been attracted to anyone in a long time. I'm beginning to wonder if something is wrong with me.

Early on I was attracted to different types but now all the men I find attractive are of the same type.

MoniGram said:

that sounds pretty similar to me...they were/are both jerks.

I'm attracted to all types really. And all types, especially really good looking guys are attracted to me, for some strange reason, because I'm actually not very attractive. How fortunate for me.

i am attracted to a girl with fire, someone who can take a bull by its horns,

looks are not as important

eraclito said:

when I think about it all were different whether in looks or age but all these things stay consistent:

neat
quiet
funny
sensual
intense

lying edit
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Byron said:

clown

The guys I have dated have been very different in personality and looks. Always younger though.

Well, I've only ever been with one woman and never really dated at all, but I imagine I go for vibrant, strong, troubled, potentially violent types.

Fauxie said:

sweet said:

But you're not like that... are you?

Fauxie said:

I've only had 4 boyfriends. They were all totally different to each other except they all had the same colour hair.

Generally I fall for sluts.

sweet said:

looks wise, very different.
Personality wise, very similar.

eikonoklastes said:

Hello you..

eraclito said:

mdiver said:

He said GIRL!!!!!

shanti0608 said:

I reckon i can work on him

Attraction.... ? I am attracted to different types...but interested in ALWAYS the same look.... just seems to work out that way...I noticed it in my late 20's....

I also noticed that my "look" is not on anyone's list.... Once they get to know me is when the attraction happens...never on first-sight... that's sad to me for some reason....

REDFEATHERS said:

Hi Nicole.... excuse me if this has already been brought up....but with your absense here lately and me kinda reading between the lines of your posts.... it sounds like you've settled down... You're "involved" with a steady aren't you?

pardonme4livin said:

Me too, I'm totally the same. I used to call it "get-to-know-you cute". No one's gonna notice me simply walking down the street, but somehow once I've been around awhile it becomes possible to find me attractive.
I'm an aquired taste.