I got a nice year end bonus at work and decided to spend it on a vaaction.

I planned to book a trip to Grand Lidos Negril Jamaica, non-stop flights to and from, first class on the way back, for 6 days. I thought I would surprise my BF because his b-day is around that time I wanna go.

I called him and told him to get his passport and he actullay said,"well I'm not sure if I wanna go during that time, blah, blah, blah. i have to call you back."

I am so fuming right now.

GO ANYWAY


with out him if needed, take a girlfriend or a sister and make it a girls trip, don't let him spoil your fun.

Make him watch this

He wont want u going to the island alone.

Well if he doesn't want to go then, he doesn't want to go. Go with someone else if necessary.

DanceWme said:

u crazy! lol

1sexymf said:

I'll go!!!!!

DanceWme said:

I saw Eddie Murphy Raw the other day.

butterfli25 said:

It's a couples only resort.

DanceWme said:

I can't see it, all I see is a red x - I'll have to look when I get home. I'ms ure my workplace has it blocked.

Sowhat said:

Got your passport ready?

i wanna come too. your boyfriend is a fool

lol

1sexymf said:

What???

I've never heard of that. What's that about? What is the advantage to only couples allowed? Are these weird swinger rules or something?

eraclito said:

As good as you look sweetie, it would be on.

CarrieMpls said:

Lol. no. Some resorts in jamaica are like that. It's not a swingers thing - that's not for me.

theodore said:

Thanks cutie.

1sexymf said:

Well, how mean and exclusionary of them.

lol i just means there won't be kids around and as a single person you really don't want to go somewhere where you have zero chance of meeting up with someone


sexy i bet if you just have the conversation with him when he gets home how this was a surprise and a treat for you both to be able to get away... and that it's booked so deal with it... that he will not be quite so insensitive anymore. some people just don't do well with surprise or things they don't feel they have control over.

1sexymf said:

cool, so when are we going, i need to buy some new trunks.

lol

1sexymf said:

You're welcome

emm said:

come on now emm, if she does that, what chance will i have of going..

emm said:

yeah he is sort of a control freak. Still, if someone did that 4 me - i would be all over them.

I hate when men are like that. He should have at least shown excitement that you would think of that for him & worked his scheduling shit out later.

eraclito said:

I need you to model them for me, lol

CalhounSq said:

Yeah he's all worried about work and other dumb shit. Believe me it's not a problem for him to get away.

1sexymf said:

that wouldn't be a problem, wouldn't be a problem at all.

people are usually telling me to put my clothes back on around here, so its a change..

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1sexymf said:

I'd say he'd be ungrateful if you booked everything as a gift and he wasn't appreciative. Or if you told him you want to go on vacation...your treat and he didn't appreciate that. It sounds to me like the timing is off a bit for him.

Congrats on your bonus. I don't get one

1sexymf said:

He may think differently. Let the idea stew for a few days.

1sexymf said:

Surprises are all well and good (and believe me, I'd be happy if my chick wanted to take me on a trip!) but you do kinda have to consider his schedule too. I don't see what's so wrong with that.

You still got that ticket? lol