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Printablestatuesqque said: myfavorite said: sometimes loving someone froma distance is best.....she may not be as observant of your plans for her. She may think they 're a little freaked out, like once i had a man that wanted me to leae my boyfriend and come live in a homeless shelter with him. COme to find out, he was the reason me and him broke u in the first place, cause he was so stupidly jealous.....
there was a time when I believed in this philosophy, till I saw that it's empty and unfulfilling when it's one side and that depth or level of love is not returned. IMO I find depth everywhere, Prince offers depth, does that mean he's my soulmate????? sure, mine and every other deep thinker. But Prince is not in my face screamin at me when My boyfirend and I find the time to love each other. The control freak of a man is, but shouldn't be. THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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myfavorite said: statuesqque said: there was a time when I believed in this philosophy, till I saw that it's empty and unfulfilling when it's one side and that depth or level of love is not returned. IMO I find depth everywhere, Prince offers depth, does that mean he's my soulmate????? sure, mine and every other deep thinker. But Prince is not in my face screamin at me when My boyfirend and I find the time to love each other. The control freak of a man is, but shouldn't be. I'm not completely sure I understand the last part of your comment but I would think the depth of love and connection you have with the best friend or your boyfriend is nowhere even close and completely different to what you would have with any other deep thinker. And no, I don't think that every person who is actually apart or in my life is supposed to be my soulmate. And what I spoke to is when the best friend only sees you as the friend and doesn't know, return or love you in the same way...it's one sided. | |
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ufoclub said: I really believe that you should get intimate with your best friend if their was always a sort of sexual flirtation going on between you. That can make for the strongest relationship. I was hanging out platonically with my girlfriend for a year before she became single and we went for it.
Who wants to live or be married to someone that is not also one of your best friends that you hang out with and laugh with? Not me! I agree with you 100%, It is a privilege to marry your best friend or that your spouse eventually becomes your best friend. I wish I had  | |
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Not a best friend, but a close friend that I've been sleeping with since day one...and I am sure now that I am not in love with him, just in lust.
Still sucks, though cuz it will never lead to anything other than it is now. | |
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