What would be your immediate reaction? Would it matter if she was cheating with a another woman or a man?

depends on who the other person was, join in?

depends on whats been going on in your relationship.

Some people know its coming, some people are blind to it.....

Let's say u had NO idea.....

Graycap23 said:

definitely join in then

Cheating is cheating no matter what gender its with....


Be calm, ask her why and go from there.....can you ever trust her again? do you even want to? Is it worth keeping the relationship?

horatio said:

I dont agree

that would make things worse

Graycap23 said:

was it an ongoing thing or a one time thing?

if it was one time, i'd ask her what was up and how did it happen.

if it was ongoing, i'd realize that i must have been emotionally absent or oblivious to her wants and/or needs to not notice the signs. when cheating continues, there are always signs.

horatio said:

She already knows. Yo, I watch CSI too.

Fauxie said:

i'd be choppin bitches up

DanceWme said:

Now that's what I'm talking about!

I mean, I've never gone into specifics with her, but yeah, I've said the words 'chop' and 'fake Adidas hold-all' and 'Chao Phrya River' so you know it's understood.

Fauxie said:

yeah right

no matter how mad a person gets, violence is not the answer....

I know it feels like it is, but there are always signs of cheating....
you have to know something is wrong

DanceWme said:

I've seen your posts about cutting folks. You're like the Dexter of the org so I KNOW you know what I'm talking 'bout!

Hey, I might be tempted to cheat on my wife with you, but I sure as hell wouldn't ever cheat on you, no sir.

amorbella said:

Nah, when a person be in cubes you know that learned 'em.

Fauxie said:

yeah cuz I gets down. They dont call me "lil machete" for no reason.

recognize

DanceWme said:

Definitely. Recognise yo ass walking towards me with a knife in hand and run the fuck away!

Fauxie said:

If it pleases the court
U should have the defendant place her hands behind her back
So U can tie her up tight and get into the act
The act of showing her how good it used 2 be
U will want it 2 be so good she falls back in love with u

Fauxie said:

Graycap23 said:

UHM? stay with her?

it ain't rocket science: leave. same goes for finding my man was cheating.

First thing I would do is call "Cheaters". Nothing solves the issues of a cheater like showing up with a bunch of cameras and Joey Greco.



When I got there and busted his ass I would just tell him I am out of there and I would tell his new squeeze that she can have him...I don't want him no more...

Stymie said:

As for me, i am unsure as to my reaction, i have been cheated on and it sucks ass. My reaction then i felt was right and i still do. However long run what happened turned out not to be what i wished for but the best thing overall.

I can't say that the one i love would never do that because no one can ever say that,situations change,but i feel sure that she is strong enough to work on stuff before it got there and is determined not to hurt me in that way.

For me it is not the fucking that wounds the most rather the feeling that their heart belongs to another and that i am no longer the person to them that i was. That for me is more wounding than bumping uglies.

NOTE TO VAL: THAT IS NOT A FREE PASS

Stymie said:

shanti0608 said:

shanti0608 said:

Remind me never to screw anyone else

mdiver said:

yes well cheating is not just about screwing....


Just saying...

shanti0608 said:

Good point, i am confiscating your phone