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I caught my son when he was 13. He was in the living room (bold!), watching porn.
I walked in, turned off the TV, told him that I didn't want him to see & value women like that, while he scrambled to pull hims pants up over his erection. I then followed him as he got up to leave and was like, "and further more, if you're gonna do that, at least be discreet and don't wipe your greasy hands on my walls!" When he was 11 he came to me for the sex talk, and I told him that masturbation was OK because (like Stymie said), I rather he learn his own body first, then to try to learn how to reach orgasm with a girl were pregnancy and std's can happen. Every now and again I have to remind him not to use any of my good towels, and he now washes his own bed sheets and stuff. My son is 17 now. Masturbation is only a big deal if you make it one. 
PS. I have a 5yr. old daughter... and I will treat her the same way  [Edited 1/24/08 23:38pm] | |
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paintedlady said: I caught my son when he was 13. He was in the living room (bold!), watching porn.
I walked in, turned off the TV, told him that I didn't want him to see & value women like that, while he scrambled to pull hims pants up over his erection. I then followed him as he got up to leave and was like, "and further more, if you're gonna do that, at least be discreet and don't wipe your greasy hands on my walls!" When he was 11 he came to me for the sex talk, and I told him that masturbation was OK because (like Stymie said), I rather he learn his own body first, then to try to learn how to reach orgasm with a girl were pregnancy and std's can happen. Every now and again I have to remind him not to use any of my good towels, and he now washes his own bed sheets and stuff. My son is 17 now. Masturbation is only a big deal if you make it one.
PS. I have a 5yr. old daughter... and I will treat her the same way
[Edited 1/24/08 23:38pm] Harsh. You may have scarred him for life by yelling at him like that..... Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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Volitan said: paintedlady said: I caught my son when he was 13. He was in the living room (bold!), watching porn.
I walked in, turned off the TV, told him that I didn't want him to see & value women like that, while he scrambled to pull hims pants up over his erection. I then followed him as he got up to leave and was like, "and further more, if you're gonna do that, at least be discreet and don't wipe your greasy hands on my walls!" When he was 11 he came to me for the sex talk, and I told him that masturbation was OK because (like Stymie said), I rather he learn his own body first, then to try to learn how to reach orgasm with a girl were pregnancy and std's can happen. Every now and again I have to remind him not to use any of my good towels, and he now washes his own bed sheets and stuff. My son is 17 now. Masturbation is only a big deal if you make it one.
PS. I have a 5yr. old daughter... and I will treat her the same way
[Edited 1/24/08 23:38pm] Harsh. You may have scarred him for life by yelling at him like that..... I'll say. I got scarred just reading about it. I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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I didn't yell at him that badly....
I was mad at him for watching porn though, and he knew it. He's used to my loud mouth anyways,  | |
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It's normal and 12 is not too young.
Either pretend you didn't see anything or just say "have fun, but don't wear it out, your gonna need it some day" Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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birds do it,
bees do it Even educated fleas do it Let's do it, let's masturbate...  | |
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PANDURITO said: birds do it,
bees do it Even educated fleas do it Let's do it, let's masturbate... I will love you forever and you will never be forgotten - L.A.F.  | |
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My mum started putting boxes of tissues next to my bed so i would stop using my socks.
some words of wisdom from Billy Connolly Fuck the funk - it's time to ditch the worn-out Vegas horns fills, pick up the geee-tar and finally ROCK THE MUTHA-FUCKER!! He hinted at this on Chaos, now it's time to step up and fully DELIVER!!
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I would think 12 is young too but I guess it's in the genes of a man.
It's like with monkeys, what's hanging down there, hmmm, feels nice..... When my son was 3 I had showered him but had let him watch some telly nude. When I came into the room he was playing with his thingy very skilfully and what was normally little was errr, kinda big suddenly. And I remember the way he looked at me, with a cheeky smile, as if he wanted to say, so what! I never have him around with no underwear 'cause that's what made him play with it in the first place. | |
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CJanssen said: I would think 12 is young too but I guess it's in the genes of a man.
It's like with monkeys, what's hanging down there, hmmm, feels nice..... When my son was 3 I had showered him but had let him watch some telly nude. When I came into the room he was playing with his thingy very skilfully and what was normally little was errr, kinda big suddenly. And I remember the way he looked at me, with a cheeky smile, as if he wanted to say, so what! I never have him around with no underwear 'cause that's what made him play with it in the first place. at that age, the more you treat it like a negative thing, the more he'll be ashamed of it in the long run imho. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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Stymie said: GangstaFam said: Healthy advice. And 11-13 is a perfectly normal age to start.  Who said you weren't? We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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I was caught by my dad once.....I was 30-something.... MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: I was caught by my dad once.....I was 30-something....
 
Oh, I forgot.....you said you have no shame in your game so.....  Miguel surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
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DontTazeMeBro said: The next time you catch him masturbating, don't turn around and leave the room... I would recommend gently getting his attention and telling him that what he's doing is perfectly normal and that it's a healthy part of life. Go out of your way to make sure that he knows he's not doing anything wrong - you don't want him to feel ashamed. Then, simply exit the room and make sure you close the door so that he can finish.
ummm... I think that's sound advice. Only I wouldn't stay and chat just then. I'd leave him to his privacy and talk about it later. |
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My Dad caught me playing with my willy in the car, when I was waiting for my parents to come back from the boulangerie whilst on holiday in France. He looked appalled but I was only young and he didn't say anything after. There's Joy In Expatriation. | |
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CarrieMpls said: DontTazeMeBro said: The next time you catch him masturbating, don't turn around and leave the room... I would recommend gently getting his attention and telling him that what he's doing is perfectly normal and that it's a healthy part of life. Go out of your way to make sure that he knows he's not doing anything wrong - you don't want him to feel ashamed. Then, simply exit the room and make sure you close the door so that he can finish.
ummm... I think that's sound advice. Only I wouldn't stay and chat just then. I'd leave him to his privacy and talk about it later.Right? Bad enough that mom or dad walked in. Now, they wanna talk about it?! 
Hi, Sonny...oops, sorry. Hey! Whatcha doin' there? No! Don't put it away! It's noooorrrrrmal! We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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Genesia said: CarrieMpls said: ummm... I think that's sound advice. Only I wouldn't stay and chat just then. I'd leave him to his privacy and talk about it later.Right? Bad enough that mom or dad walked in. Now, they wanna talk about it?!
Hi, Sonny...oops, sorry. Hey! Whatcha doin' there? No! Don't put it away! It's noooorrrrrmal!  surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
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My oldest is 9, so my wife and I are bracing ourselves.
...and if he's anything like his father, there'll be alot of that going on!  By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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sammij said: CJanssen said: I would think 12 is young too but I guess it's in the genes of a man.
It's like with monkeys, what's hanging down there, hmmm, feels nice..... When my son was 3 I had showered him but had let him watch some telly nude. When I came into the room he was playing with his thingy very skilfully and what was normally little was errr, kinda big suddenly. And I remember the way he looked at me, with a cheeky smile, as if he wanted to say, so what! I never have him around with no underwear 'cause that's what made him play with it in the first place. at that age, the more you treat it like a negative thing, the more he'll be ashamed of it in the long run imho. Hmm, I just said something like: WTF ARE YOU DOING? I'M SO GONNA KICK YOUR BUTT OUT, YOU DIRTY LITTLE B.STARD! No, of course not, I think I just put him a pair of pants on. If he's allowed to touch it everytime, he will end up doing it in front of strangers and THAT is something I really want to evoid. Besides, at his age, it will become a habit which isn't good either. My husband's brother has an 11 year old son and when we were together last year (he was 10) the kid was watching tv with his hand in his pants and jerking his stuff. I'm sorry, that's because no-one ever took an effort to tell this kid it's not appropriate. I even got offended and said something to the mom who just rolled her eyes and then she said to her husband "you say something?" and he walked away. I said to him, well, then it must be all in the family, he just gave me a nasty grin. | |
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Genesia said: CarrieMpls said: ummm... I think that's sound advice. Only I wouldn't stay and chat just then. I'd leave him to his privacy and talk about it later.Right? Bad enough that mom or dad walked in. Now, they wanna talk about it?!
Hi, Sonny...oops, sorry. Hey! Whatcha doin' there? No! Don't put it away! It's noooorrrrrmal!
And people saying that I traumatized my son!
LAWD.... | |
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KidaDynamite said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: I was caught by my dad once.....I was 30-something....
Oh, I forgot.....you said you have no shame in your game so..... Miguel I was shocked silly but said nothing. He opened the door, saw what was going on, (I had a Kristen Bjorn video on), closed the door and left. I of course stopped, closed my eyes really hard, 'cause you know that makes you invisible, and waited. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: KidaDynamite said:
Oh, I forgot.....you said you have no shame in your game so..... Miguel I was shocked silly but said nothing. He opened the door, saw what was going on, (I had a Kristen Bjorn video on), closed the door and left. I of course stopped, closed my eyes really hard, 'cause you know that makes you invisible, and waited.  | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: KidaDynamite said:
Oh, I forgot.....you said you have no shame in your game so..... Miguel I was shocked silly but said nothing. He opened the door, saw what was going on, (I had a Kristen Bjorn video on), closed the door and left. I of course stopped, closed my eyes really hard, 'cause you know that makes you invisible, and waited. Aww, boo boo!!!  surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: He opened the door, saw what was going on, (I had a Kristen Bjorn video on), closed the door and left. I of course stopped, closed my eyes really hard, 'cause you know that makes you invisible, and waited. 
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paintedlady said: Masturbation is only a big deal if you make it one.
Which your very scary story illustrated. | |
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Cinnie said: paintedlady said: Masturbation is only a big deal if you make it one.
Which your very scary story illustrated. He was in commonspace, and he laughed, and I was mad that he was watching porn! I made the fuss about the movie.and the grease that he had everywhere (grease stains all on the couch )... not him jerking off.
Maybe I should have made that more clear.
BTW what would you say to your boy if you caught him like that? | |
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Cinnie said: paintedlady said: Masturbation is only a big deal if you make it one.
Which your very scary story illustrated. I don't think that story was all that scary. There is no reason to be msturbating and watching porn in your mother's living room. That's disrespectful. What was she supposed to do? Pat him on the head and give him a cookie? I think the story would have been very different if that kid had done it in his own room. | |
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JasmineFire said: Cinnie said: Which your very scary story illustrated. I don't think that story was all that scary. There is no reason to be msturbating and watching porn in your mother's living room. That's disrespectful. What was she supposed to do? Pat him on the head and give him a cookie? I think the story would have been very different if that kid had done it in his own room. EXACTLY! Who let's their kids jerk off in the living room?  | |
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paintedlady said: JasmineFire said: I don't think that story was all that scary. There is no reason to be msturbating and watching porn in your mother's living room. That's disrespectful. What was she supposed to do? Pat him on the head and give him a cookie? I think the story would have been very different if that kid had done it in his own room. EXACTLY! Who let's their kids jerk off in the living room? I don't even want to know... | |
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