Cinnie said:

I must tell u, her driving that car at the speed for a good 5 minutes was NOT cool. I thought about punching her lights out and grabbing the wheel.
[Edited 1/25/08 12:36pm]

xplnyrslf said:

I thought it was too. Glad that's cleared up.

Sweeny79 said:

at least you know what you like...

some people have no clue

amorbella said:

Now I must say that they don't have to do it, just look like they can.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

DexMSR said:

Duh

DexMSR said:

Oops! Yeah you did say that.

If you have been so hot like that, then it takes a very strong female. But dude...you're in ATl, women outnumber the men like crazy and women are extra. Not to mention the unscrupulous (cant spell but you get it) women that don't care if the man is married, engaged, in a relationship, whatever. Finding a man that is not double dipping on the DL, about shit, and single is hard to come by here.

And I swear to you...If I am not mistaken, a lot of very high maintained, extra extra fine women usually act insane n jealous. Not to say that I'm not stunning, cause I am, but ALL of my extra extra fine girlfriends had ISSUES! Issues with men, insecurities...whatever.

OK...I'm done.

Besides, it's sex, not that serious...like you said. But beware, if she's trippin, that's not what she thinks

Heck no. I don't even date folks I can't TOLERATE, let alone date follks that I find ambivilent ....besides, my personality swings a little too much to the Alpha side to be the shrinking violet in a corner when my man steps out of line. Granted, in relationships I am definitely hyperfeminine & girly-girl to the point of being an outdated female stereotype, even an archtype; I actually DIG the prince in shining armour B.S. with the man believing he is my fucking James Bond...

...HOWEVER...

You are NOT going to be physically or emotionally menacing or threatening to me in ANY way . I've watch too many girlfriends and relatives go through that, honestly believing they were powerless or even deserving of the psycho treatment they got, then psycho dude receiving a sense of power and validation from it, and I cannot abide that. In my relationships I have always been VERY clear,( in the sweetest voice possible ), that a man should not step to me acting crazy because I am NOT going to give them that power over me. It's just not reccommended. Regadless of height, weight, or resources I am going to go toe-to-toe with them and they day the want to use fear to get to me they better be ready to bring it on full throttle, because unbeknownst to him that MF is in for a trick-and-a-TREAT



(Y'all have me typing this with my left hand on my hip with this " " look on my face )

KatSkrizzle said:

Nah...she knows her place and definitely knows the deal!

Thanks brotha

DexMSR said:

Dex...remember...I'm not a dude! ha ha! I think we had this discussion over myspace...

Dated someone and didn't become terrified until after the weird behavior began.

It's like they say, "an abuser doesn't get their lovers by walking up and slapping them on the face".

Got outta that situation as soon as the opportunity presented itself, and never looked back

I noticed that psycho lovers tend to be VERY attentive people, almost in a smothering kind of way, I run away from people like that.

men that are psycho aren't as good lovers, as men that are secure. I don't think the same rules apply with men as they do women.

Psycho women are dangerous, and Dex, do you really want a chick that keeps questioning your integrity, by checking your cell phone and following you around?

paintedlady said:

Who said that was happening?

Whap

DexMSR said:

So you think it won't happen... esp. if you put it on her? She's probably got her girl network tailing your every move now.

Ya know crazy bitches travel in packs...

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[Edited 1/27/08 6:59am]

Hell no, they're usually afraid of me.

gemini13 said:

I can see that....

paintedlady said:

I do have a tendency to choose people I can control. I have to be in charge, basically because I don't believe in the supposed superiority of man.

gemini13 said:

You must have a really large clit

(jk)

paintedlady said:

Not really, I'm just slightly sadistic.

gemini13 said:

I was seeing this girl who didn't so much scare me but kinda got on my nerves as she was a bit weird. One night I was in bed watching TV quite comfortably when she came round to our house pissed. She'd been out somewhere and was feeling a bit horny I guess. Anyway, she more or less fell asleep on my bed much to my relief/annoyance.

She also kept her dog in a cage in her room overnight which I thought was a bit odd to some extent. I was conscious of it bein there. I found this out after going round to her house after just being involved in a bit of a scrap. She didn't really ask me if I was alright just got really upset that I didn't want to go out with her in the long scheme of things.

Aside said:

People usually stick with what they can depend on.

DexMSR said:

if she's anything like queen latifah or the ugly bitch eddie murphy played in norbit, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE

alphastreet said:

I don't know where the Queen Latifah comparison comes in, but I was just telling Supa that my dumb ass got ahold of that silly movie "Norbit" this weekend ...What on earth was Eddie and Charlie thin-king ...I do agree with you that should a man EVAH EVAH come across the likes of a "Rasputia Lattimore", he needs to run like the wind! Hell, I bet enough orgers would be evenmwilling to band to gether to get a man a plane ticket outta town and entrance into a identity protection program to get away from RASPUTIA

paintedlady said:

DexMSR said:

A-FUCKING-MEN!!!! Preach on, brotha, preach on!!!

paintedlady said:

Is there something you wish to share with the group??

DexMSR said:

Just saying....

morningsong said:

in some ways, and until they realize they can't depend on it.

Unfortunately yes. The guy i'm dating right now kind of scares me. He showed up at my job tonight unannounced which was weird because I never told him where I worked but he knew what time I got off and everything. Also, he always text message's and calls me around 10 times a day and leaves me voice message's most of which are nasty and rude, sometimes he even leaves me messages threatening physical violence. When I confront him about all this always says he's just "joking" or that he was in a bad mood .

Recently he told me that he's thinking about getting my name tatooed "down there" and is pissed b/c I told him I wouldn't get his name tatooed on my body, so that kind of freaked me out to say the least lol and not to mention the fact we've only been out like five times, so I was taken aback when he said that. I have never met anyone like him in my life which at first I thought was a good thing, but now I just find some of his behavior to be worrysome and tonight was really the last straw. It was like some stalker-ish type s*it lol. I just don't trust him.
[Edited 1/28/08 23:54pm]

Cinnamon234 said:

All kinds of "red flags" are up on what you have just posted, get rid of him and do it QUICK! The longer you wait the harder it's going to be, and it is best to just be frank and honest with him, he really needs to not get any mixed signals from you or he will never leave you alone.

BTW do it where you feel safest, and it helps if you are always with a friend, or have lots of pepper spray handy. No joke.