Have you ever been in a relationship with someone, even if it's new and you're aren't completely satisfied because you are comparing them to someone else? How did effect or is effecting your relationship? Does that even make sense?!

yeah.. I ALWAYS compare them to you..

REDFEATHERS said:

I know you're kidding but funny you should say that!

JDInteractive said:

Oh?

REDFEATHERS said:

PANDURITO said:

And she'd be half right.

I think it's only natural to make some comparisons, sure. But my comparisons are much less, "He is better/worse than so and so because of whatever" and more of learning what I want and don't want out of a relationship and partner.

CarrieMpls said:

I agree. I think in someways it's good to be picky but to what extent should one cut their losses so to speak? Afterall, nobody's perfect. Well apart from me.

I usually only do that if I'm unhappy in the relationship.

JDInteractive said:

Well, I think you'll find it's a hard road to find any girlfriend that could even remotely measure up to me. I don't envy your future hunt for her.

CarrieMpls said:

Takes one to know one Missy. There's a constant bogey up your left nostrel.

JDInteractive said:

See what I mean? Where else in the world are you going to find that?

Since all my exes suck, no I always look for the good in them and hope this one is better than the last

CarrieMpls said:

Minneapolis. They all have them there.

JDInteractive said:

Curses! Foiled again.

ya know this is something I've never done, they've all stood on there on merits, character and pesonalities with me. and actually all off them where completely different from each other than the typical male quirks.

There is no comparison.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Isn't that exactly what you are looking for????

PANDURITO said:

and MF!!!

No, not really.

I'm usually so into the person and caught up in the excitement of it being new that I don't think about past dudes at all.

Only there private anatomy and I try desperately not to blurt out how they stack up!

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Cinnie said:

I keed, I keed!

No, now that I think of it, I seem to get involved with someone who is different, especially on a physical level. I'm sure there are similarities but I don't think about them or compare them. That's interesting how that works out. Each person is distinct, never a prototype. Kinda weird, really.