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Printablexplnyrslf said: Graycap23 said: Me? I would give myself about 5 minutes 2 compose myself, then I'd walk into the room, thank the guy and ask him 2 leave immediately. Then I'd give my girl (ex-girl) about 5 minutes 2 get as much of her stuff as she could.
After that, all hell breaks loose. It seems as though this is a theoretical question, and didn't happen to you. Relationships are complex. Sometimes a philanderer, is appalled, to think his SO would behave the same way. It's hard to judge, not knowing circumstances. Look at Hilliary Clinton. SHE didn't catch him. The public did. They've been married for a long time, and, sometimes, the relationship between partners is the best thing going. The other liasons have to be ignored, or forgiven. She's a smart woman.   | |
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Stymie said: xplnyrslf said: It seems as though this is a theoretical question, and didn't happen to you. Relationships are complex. Sometimes a philanderer, is appalled, to think his SO would behave the same way. It's hard to judge, not knowing circumstances. Look at Hilliary Clinton. SHE didn't catch him. The public did. They've been married for a long time, and, sometimes, the relationship between partners is the best thing going. The other liasons have to be ignored, or forgiven. She's a smart woman. She wouldn't be where she is now, if she divorced him..... Her ambition, not just for herself, but him, mind you, superceded thinking a BJ mattered. (When my hubby is in the mood for an early AM BJ, I'm wishing I could pay someone.....Just kidding! I didn't really mean that!! Honey, if you're reading this,,,,,) | |
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xplnyrslf said: Stymie said: No, she's a dummy.
She wouldn't be where she is now, if she divorced him..... Her ambition, not just for herself, but him, mind you, superceded thinking a BJ mattered. (When my hubby is in the mood for an early AM BJ, I'm wishing I could pay someone.....Just kidding! I didn't really mean that!! Honey, if you're reading this,,,,,) If your husband got a BJ from someone else, would it matter? [Edited 1/23/08 20:49pm] | |
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Stymie said: xplnyrslf said: She wouldn't be where she is now, if she divorced him..... Her ambition, not just for herself, but him, mind you, superceded thinking a BJ mattered. (When my hubby is in the mood for an early AM BJ, I'm wishing I could pay someone.....Just kidding! I didn't really mean that!! Honey, if you're reading this,,,,,) If your husband got a BJ from someone else, would it matter? Hilliary, from my perspective, is a stronger person for enduring her husband's behavior. She's in charge now. He OWES her.
From Hillary's bio: "In 1969, Hillary entered Yale Law School, where she served on the Board of Editors of Yale Law Review and Social Action, interned with children's advocate Marian Wright Edelman, and met Bill Clinton. The President often recalls how they met in the library when she strode up to him and said, "If you're going to keep staring at me, I might as well introduce myself." The two were soon inseparable--partners in moot court, political campaigns, and matters of the heart." They've been married for over 30 years. Sometimes, the partnership supercedes indiscretions.  [Edited 1/23/08 21:15pm] | |
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xplnyrslf said: Stymie said: I actually think she'd be further if she had divorced him. It would have made her look stronger to me. She is geeting by on name recognition. I have zero respect for her. Now only did he cheat, the whole world knows he did.
If your husband got a BJ from someone else, would it matter? At certain times of the day, I'd PAY somebody. I'm not as spontaneous as my younger days. That was before marriage. Like swallowing. Hilliary, from my perspective, is a stronger person for enduring her husband's behavior. She's in charge now. He OWES her. | |
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xplnyrslf said: Stymie said: I actually think she'd be further if she had divorced him. It would have made her look stronger to me. She is geeting by on name recognition. I have zero respect for her. Now only did he cheat, the whole world knows he did.
If your husband got a BJ from someone else, would it matter? Hilliary, from my perspective, is a stronger person for enduring her husband's behavior. She's in charge now. He OWES her.
[Edited 1/23/08 21:05pm] owes her what? she wasnt on her job | |
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mirrorbestfriend said: xplnyrslf said: Hilliary, from my perspective, is a stronger person for enduring her husband's behavior. She's in charge now. He OWES her.
[Edited 1/23/08 21:05pm] owes her what? she wasnt on her job xpln..... | |
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xplnyrslf said: mirrorbestfriend said: owes her what? she wasnt on her job xpln..... monica fullfilled a need | |
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mirrorbestfriend said: xplnyrslf said: xpln..... monica fullfilled a need I agree. Maybe after 30 years of marriage,they have an arrangement. The public knowing, put a wrench in it. Think of all the celebrities who have been married, and the partner is closet gay. No one knows, or understands, how other's relationships can evolve, over time. | |
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mirrorbestfriend said: xplnyrslf said: xpln..... monica fullfilled a need 
okkkkk. | |
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Stymie said: xplnyrslf said: She wouldn't be where she is now, if she divorced him..... Her ambition, not just for herself, but him, mind you, superceded thinking a BJ mattered. (When my hubby is in the mood for an early AM BJ, I'm wishing I could pay someone.....Just kidding! I didn't really mean that!! Honey, if you're reading this,,,,,) If your husband got a BJ from someone else, would it matter? [Edited 1/23/08 20:49pm] Lol.....$ and power brings many things. That is one of them. | |
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would that be before or after i cheated..... THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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Graycap23 said: What would be your immediate reaction? Would it matter if she was cheating with a another woman or a man?
i'd be hurt .. i'd have to tell myself to let go.. and walk away .. | |
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I haven't exactly been an altar boy in my relationships, so I really would be in no position to say jack-shit...sad, but true.....  He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above... 
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Probably go and find someone for myself. Happy is he who finds out the causes for things.Virgil (70-19 BC). Virgil was such a lying bastard! | |
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GermanHottie1981 said: If it pleases the court
U should have the defendant place her hands behind her back So U can tie her up tight and get into the act The act of showing her how good it used 2 be U will want it 2 be so good she falls back in love with u | |
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