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Little Volitan's running around??? So as you may (or may/probably not) remember I posted on here about me hooking up with my ex at new years, blah, blah. Well today she called me and said she missed her period  I'm sorta losing my shit right now and am just hoping it's some kind of weird incident and she's not pregs...prayers/thoughts needed orgers   Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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If you didn't have it covered it's a real possiblity. Hope it works out for you though.  I'm firmly planted in denial |
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Yeah yeah, this is gonna sound retarded and I deserved to be slapped but...she was on the pill.   Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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Volitan said: Yeah yeah, this is gonna sound retarded and I deserved to be slapped but...she was on the pill.
How to say this w/ out sounding just mean...but a baby is the least of your worries. I hope the two of you haven't brought a child into your situation as it stands, and I hope you do not end up catching something you didn't bargain for. Again...this is being said not knowing you or your ex at all. I'm firmly planted in denial |
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Nothinbutjoy said: Volitan said: Yeah yeah, this is gonna sound retarded and I deserved to be slapped but...she was on the pill.
How to say this w/ out sounding just mean...but a baby is the least of your worries. explain? I won't be offended I just wanna know what you meant by that..... Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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Volitan said: Nothinbutjoy said:
How to say this w/ out sounding just mean...but a baby is the least of your worries. explain? I won't be offended I just wanna know what you meant by that..... Unprotected sex can lead to much more than an unplanned pregnancy. Not knowing you or your ex...the risk of STD's is very real. I'm firmly planted in denial |
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Nothinbutjoy said: Volitan said: explain? I won't be offended I just wanna know what you meant by that..... Unprotected sex can lead to much more than an unplanned pregnancy. Not knowing you or your ex...the risk of STD's is very real. Oh. I thought you were implying I was dumb or something. Nah, we're both cool, as far as the STD stuff goes... Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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Volitan said: Nothinbutjoy said: Unprotected sex can lead to much more than an unplanned pregnancy. Not knowing you or your ex...the risk of STD's is very real. Oh. I thought you were implying I was dumb or something. Nah, we're both cool, as far as the STD stuff goes...  Well, it wasn't too bright to get yourself in this situation in the first place, but we all do things that weren't too bright in hindsight.
[Edited 1/27/08 21:40pm] I'm firmly planted in denial |
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Nothinbutjoy said: Volitan said: Oh. I thought you were implying I was dumb or something. Nah, we're both cool, as far as the STD stuff goes... Well, it wasn't too bright to get yourself in this situation in the first place, but we all do things that weren't too bright in hindsight.
[Edited 1/27/08 21:40pm] I totally agree right now. This day in my life could be potentially life changing. It's really freaking me out. Um, what besides pregnancy can cause a missed period?? Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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sure shes not saying it to get you back or something?
i mean i dont know her or anything but just sayin ? | |
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I'm a Puerto Rican who grew up in a Puerto Rican neighborhood.
So, I wouldn't be too surprised if, on multiple occasions, I've been in your predicament for several years now, without even knowing it. | |
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Volitan said: Nothinbutjoy said: Well, it wasn't too bright to get yourself in this situation in the first place, but we all do things that weren't too bright in hindsight.
[Edited 1/27/08 21:40pm] I totally agree right now. This day in my life could be potentially life changing. It's really freaking me out. Um, what besides pregnancy can cause a missed period?? looks like several things can cause a missed period http://pregnancy.about.co...period.htm Rhythm floods my heart♥The melody it feeds my soul | |
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Christopher said: sure shes not saying it to get you back or something?
i mean i dont know her or anything but just sayin ? Well, it could be possible I suppose. The relationship ending was just a mutual thing. We broke up for about a week, and then got back together, and then broke up because we weren't really in love anymore. But your idea is a possibility.... [Edited 1/27/08 22:06pm] Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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Why do men not realise that someone being on the pill is NOT foolproof?? MY youngest sister is proof of that. My mother was on the pill and taking it at the same time EVERY DAY. Smarten up boys.
Another point, I know of at least two women that told their partners they were on the pill, when infact they were NOT 
As far as a missed period goes....did she miss it alltogether, or is it just a few days to a week late? If that is the case, then take a deep breath and calm down. There are many resons for a missed period and I know plenty of women that have missed a period and panicked, only to have it show up almost a month later. She needs to get a pregnancy test 
There are test that can tell u within a week or two whether u are pregnant or not..... And I hope things work out for the best... By the way...silly boy  [Edited 1/27/08 23:52pm] PRINCE IS WATCHING U  " When an Artist Creates, whatever they create belongs to society"
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chillichocaholic said: Why do men not realise that someone being on the pill is NOT foolproof?? MY youngest sister is proof of that. My mother was on the pill and taking it at the same time EVERY DAY. Smarten up boys.
Another point, I know of at least two women that told their partners they were on the pill, when infact they were NOT
As far as a missed period goes....did she miss it alltogether, or is it just a few days to a week late? If that is the case, then take a deep breath and calm down. There are many resons for a missed period and I know plenty of women that have missed a period and panicked, only to have it show up almost a month later. She needs to get a pregnancy test
There are test that can tell u within a week or two whether u are pregnant or not..... And I hope things work out for the best... By the way...silly boy
[Edited 1/27/08 23:52pm] Hey, it's not all our fault. It takes two to tango. She could've easily stopped the whole production and said "You should wear a rubber". But she didn't say anything either. She said she was supposed to get it today, and she didn't so I guess this is the first missed day. Thanks to your post, I'm optimistic now.  Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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Volitan said: chillichocaholic said: Why do men not realise that someone being on the pill is NOT foolproof?? MY youngest sister is proof of that. My mother was on the pill and taking it at the same time EVERY DAY. Smarten up boys.
Another point, I know of at least two women that told their partners they were on the pill, when infact they were NOT
As far as a missed period goes....did she miss it alltogether, or is it just a few days to a week late? If that is the case, then take a deep breath and calm down. There are many resons for a missed period and I know plenty of women that have missed a period and panicked, only to have it show up almost a month later. She needs to get a pregnancy test
There are test that can tell u within a week or two whether u are pregnant or not..... And I hope things work out for the best... By the way...silly boy
[Edited 1/27/08 23:52pm] Hey, it's not all our fault. It takes two to tango. She could've easily stopped the whole production and said "You should wear a rubber". But she didn't say anything either. She said she was supposed to get it today, and she didn't so I guess this is the first missed day. Thanks to your post, I'm optimistic now. Ohh belive me...I dont disagree with u there. She is just as much to blame
Be glad she told u, but if this is just the first missed day u both need to calm down. I've witnessed this b4 and it could all work out just fine 
If it dosent then u will have to deal with that as well. PRINCE IS WATCHING U " When an Artist Creates, whatever they create belongs to society"
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chillichocaholic said: Volitan said: Hey, it's not all our fault. It takes two to tango. She could've easily stopped the whole production and said "You should wear a rubber". But she didn't say anything either. She said she was supposed to get it today, and she didn't so I guess this is the first missed day. Thanks to your post, I'm optimistic now. Ohh belive me...I dont disagree with u there. She is just as much to blame
Be glad she told u, but if this is just the first missed day u both need to calm down. I've witnessed this b4 and it could all work out just fine
If it dosent then u will have to deal with that as well. That's very reassuring, thanks. Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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shoulda did like chappelle's show said and "wrap it up"!  For all time I am with you, you are with me. | |
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purplepolitician said: shoulda did like chappelle's show said and "wrap it up"!
 Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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I tell u something though. Joy made an extreemly important point. Whether u know anyone or not..STDs are out there...and some are darn sneaky, such as chlamydia ( did I spell that right?) Chlamydia is one of those things that u dont know u have until u are specifically tested for it.
Remember...if its not on....its NOT on  PRINCE IS WATCHING U " When an Artist Creates, whatever they create belongs to society"
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chillichocaholic said: I tell u something though. Joy made an extreemly important point. Whether u know anyone or not..STDs are out there...and some are darn sneaky, such as chlamydia ( did I spell that right?) Chlamydia is one of those things that u dont know u have until u are specifically tested for it.
Remember...if its not on....its NOT on Well, I didn't have anything because she was my first, and she wasn't a virgin, BUT she said she always used a condom with the guy she was with before me. I don't think she would lie, because we were in love and trust was never an issue, but I suppose there's always that small chance she was lying 
We're good friend's it's not like she would lie to me, regardless of if we were dating or not. She's a good human being and would tell me the truth. Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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it may not be sexually transmittable but you sure got that disease ... | |
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One4All4Ever said: it may not be sexually transmittable but you sure got that disease ...
Huh?? Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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Volitan said: One4All4Ever said: it may not be sexually transmittable but you sure got that disease ...
Huh?? It's called stupid  | |
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One4All4Ever said: Volitan said: Huh?? It's called stupid
sorry Volitan  surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
I ain't felt this way in years... | |
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KidaDynamite said: One4All4Ever said: It's called stupid
sorry Volitan he had that one coming ... | |
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One4All4Ever said: KidaDynamite said:
sorry Volitan he had that one coming ... Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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Volitan said: chillichocaholic said: I tell u something though. Joy made an extreemly important point. Whether u know anyone or not..STDs are out there...and some are darn sneaky, such as chlamydia ( did I spell that right?) Chlamydia is one of those things that u dont know u have until u are specifically tested for it.
Remember...if its not on....its NOT on Well, I didn't have anything because she was my first, and she wasn't a virgin, BUT she said she always used a condom with the guy she was with before me. I don't think she would lie, because we were in love and trust was never an issue, but I suppose there's always that small chance she was lying
We're good friend's it's not like she would lie to me, regardless of if we were dating or not. She's a good human being and would tell me the truth. Regaurdless....ALWAYS use a condom
When I was in my early 20's I dated a guy that I knew didnt have any diseases because I had seen his test results. I definantly did not have any because prior to this guy I had ALWAYS used a condom. I considered myself a pretty smart girl I'd never bought any bull I had been told in the past...then for some odd reason I decided to believe this one when he said he was sterile (yes I had known him for a while)
Silly me I now have a 14 year old son ( who is awsome btw)
SO, u are possibly safe with her when it comes to disease and she probably is telling the truth.....but now u have baby panic PRINCE IS WATCHING U " When an Artist Creates, whatever they create belongs to society"
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chillichocaholic said: Volitan said: Well, I didn't have anything because she was my first, and she wasn't a virgin, BUT she said she always used a condom with the guy she was with before me. I don't think she would lie, because we were in love and trust was never an issue, but I suppose there's always that small chance she was lying
We're good friend's it's not like she would lie to me, regardless of if we were dating or not. She's a good human being and would tell me the truth. Regaurdless....ALWAYS use a condom
When I was in my early 20's I dated a guy that I knew didnt have any diseases because I had seen his test results. I definantly did not have any because prior to this guy I had ALWAYS used a condom. I considered myself a pretty smart girl I'd never bought any bull I had been told in the past...then for some odd reason I decided to believe this one when he said he was sterile (yes I had known him for a while)
Silly me I now have a 14 year old son ( who is awsome btw)
SO, u are possibly safe with her when it comes to disease and she probably is telling the truth.....but now u have baby panic Funny enough that's what my father told my mother and voila that's how y'all have me! surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
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chillichocaholic said: Volitan said: Well, I didn't have anything because she was my first, and she wasn't a virgin, BUT she said she always used a condom with the guy she was with before me. I don't think she would lie, because we were in love and trust was never an issue, but I suppose there's always that small chance she was lying
We're good friend's it's not like she would lie to me, regardless of if we were dating or not. She's a good human being and would tell me the truth. Regaurdless....ALWAYS use a condom
When I was in my early 20's I dated a guy that I knew didnt have any diseases because I had seen his test results. I definantly did not have any because prior to this guy I had ALWAYS used a condom. I considered myself a pretty smart girl I'd never bought any bull I had been told in the past...then for some odd reason I decided to believe this one when he said he was sterile (yes I had known him for a while)
Silly me I now have a 14 year old son ( who is awsome btw)
SO, u are possibly safe with her when it comes to disease and she probably is telling the truth.....but now u have baby panic Yep. 
It's funny, my friends went through a pregnancy scare a while ago (they use NO birth control of any kind...pull-out method  ), and I'd always laugh at them and they were like "Just wait, it'll happen to you one day"....they were right.Maybe we can go to the movies and cry together | |
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