heybaby said:

buy 1 get one free

PREDOMINANT said:

damn korean maths teacher ruined my life

PREDOMINANT said:

i'm quite amused by you and jami's take on plumbs. it has forced me to wonder if i like it spelled like that or like that of the stony fruit-btw. heavy heavy fruit they are

jami0mckay said:

You back on Plumbs again?

heybaby said:

Healthy if you're single, unhealthy if you're attached.

Do I flirt with others when I have a boyfriend? Hellz to the fuck NO. I only want to be with the one I'm with.

VoicesCarry said:

I am the same way. I used to only flirt with ppl that I thought I would never be attracted to as far as a relationship goes. Then it was just fun without expectations. It was always with ppl that knew it was harmless flirting.

sextonseven said:

Especially if she's flirting with her fork.

shanti0608 said:

You can always tell the ones who are having relationship troubles. They will seriously try and flirt with you, and then when you tell them to back off because it's making you uncomfortable, they'll say "OH, I WAS ONLY KIDDING." Um, no you weren't. Not when you try and put your hand on my ass, you weren't.
[Edited 1/22/08 8:23am]

VoicesCarry said:

Very true
I guess we all have a need to feel special at times and I guess when ppl are in a lonely, empty relationship they search/crave some attention.

I guess it depends on your definition of flirting. All of my flirting is rather innocent.
I really don't flirt well.
Generally if I'm talking to you and I think you're cute I think I'm flirting, but you probably would never guess that.

shanti0608 said:

Yes. That's what leads to cheating, when people simply refuse to end the relationship when they should, when it's already dead and gone.

VoicesCarry said:

Correct.
Like Carrie was saying, I think there are many levels of flirting. Though I have learned that even a little harmless flirt can lead to more if you are not careful.


I have learned my lesson.

Genesia said:

Stymie said:

"Make love to the fork!" is very flirtatious talk, you know.

ZombieKitten said:

I don't believe it!

CarrieMpls said:

Me, too. I like someone now and I can't even look them in the eye let alone talk to them.

CarrieMpls said:

Is that why you never flirt with me?

Stymie said:

That is so the opposite with me. I may feel a bit awkward or even the tiniest bit shy (if I am really hot for him) but if I am into someone and I get even a little hint that they are interested back...I, like Rhonda, go in for the kill...even when my lovely insecurities come crawling up (which is pretty much always).

ArielB said:

There's nothing wrong with flirting, in my opinion. My ex was very angry whenever he saw me flirting, so I kind of believed his opinion was very valuable and that I was the strange one. He turned out to be the biggest cheater of all time though. I prefer a flirty boyfriend over those who never do it publically though.

The human mind isn't made for being focused on one person all your life-time, I think. Flirting is a good way to let some other feelings out. I don't see how this is scary. There are so many beautiful women in this world, if my boyfried doesn't notice this, he's probably just too scared to notice. Or not convinced enough of his own strength and loyalty.

online flirting is easy...and fun...and harmless...

real life is tricky 'cause some don't know where the flirting ends and the real shit begins...

what do I know though??

roodboi said:

Hello you hot piece of ass.

roodboi said:

Oh, we're talking online too?

Well, in that case I am a bit more casual about flirting...but still, it's usually only with someone I find attractive (org-wise, of course).

JustErin said:

Stymie said:

Flirting with girls is all new to me...even online.

JustErin said:

me too...






j/k dammit!!

JustErin said:

I don't buy it either


and I think Marielouise has a point, but still its not something i'd be comfortable with...

Stymie said:

IVY