I was talking with this guy who is really becoming a good friend.

He is in a relationship but is very flirtatious with me. VERY.

Its easy for me to flirt back because he's a cool dude, cool vibe, etc. BUT my brain always says, "He has a girlfriend. DON'T flirt with him."

So I mention this to him. I told him that the flirtations are getting out of hand.

He's response was "Flirting is healthy".



What the hell does that mean?

In a relationship, I don't flirt with anyone but with the person I'm dating.

do you flirt with others when you're in a relationship? Is this normal?

flirting is normal

it keeps you on edge, but you have to set your boundaries beforehand and stay within them. If you can't do that, it's pathetic ... You, being on the other side of it, may need to remind him of his boundaries ... if you wanna

meaning of 'flirting is healthy' is:
Im horny now that I flirted with you.
Now I can go back and fuck the same person that Ive been fucking for the past 5 years AGAIN.

If I'm in a relationship, I don't have time to flirt with others, because I'm with my girl, or because my mind is occupied with thinking of my girl. Plus, it's disrespectful to your partner, to flirt with others, even if they're not around to witness it.

is flirting ?
is flirting ?
is flirting ?

If I'd talk like that IRL it's wrong ... If I do it on an anonymous forum it's k ?

nah, flirting is cool if you know the boundaries...

I have. why? I don't know its just me. It really doesn't mean anything to me . But lately I've cut it out because I don't think i'd be to appreciative of the act if the shoe was on the other foot. In fact I know I wouldn't

horatio said:

OUCH!

heybaby said:

yeah....which is sorta what why I'm like.....hmmmmm....yeah...flirting is healthy if youre single!!!

weird.

horatio said:

Rhondab said:

i hope it's normal

I'm a notorious flirt but I expect nothing to come of it. I think this world's beautiful people, whether it's physically or mentally, need to be told how hot they are.

Stymie said:

yes you are

heybaby said:

Don't hate.

Stymie said:

yeah...but I'm not talking about just a "Hey you're cute!"

Just a on-going flirtation with one person.



I guess I'm sooooo focused on who I'm dating that I don't flirt with folks.


Its interesting to hear though.

I'll only seriously flirt with someone if I want to have sex with them.

Rhondab said:

I've seen Ivy flirt in person. It goes a little further than "Hey you're cute!" She doesn't mess around.

if it's just sports like 2 feel u can still seduce it's ok... as long as it won't go 2 far.

JustErin said:

actually it's the opposite for me. I get shy. weird

heybaby said:

I'm sorta like Erin. I'm like a damn predator. If I'm flirtin'.....its done.



I'm learning to stop going in for the kill though....

sextonseven said:

heybaby said:

So when you flirt you feel more comfortable because you're not really interested?

JustErin said:

yup.

heybaby said:

If i really like them I have to get comfortable in order to warm up.

heybaby said:

i do the same thing

Flirting leads to trouble if ur not careful.

DanceWme said:

I agree, which is why I try to refrain from it when I'm dating someone.

jess555ja said:

agreed.

heybaby said:

But oh lord its fun as hell lol



I only do it cuz I know I will let nothing come from it.

sextonseven said:

I have no idea of which you speak.

By the way, have I told you lately how much I wanna jump your bones?

Stymie said:

My bones are yours to jump.