There are a lot of beautiful people here.
As a matter of fact there are beautiful people here, there, and everywhere.
Most Orgers know that I see beauty easily, but I have to
really focus hard to see the bad.

So WHY, WHY, WHY... are orgers that I don't even know
writing me notes telling me terrible things about other people?
HUH?
I don't want to know people's faults. How can that help me?
Of what benefit is it to the one revealing bad things about others?

They say "I know some bad things about so-n-so."
I say..."I choose not to believe it...I only know good
about that person."
They get upset and spill more gossip...claiming they have
"sources".
I say..."I don't care. Even if what you say is true, why
are you telling me? Are you trying to get me to hate because
you hate?"
They call me names then...and imply that I live a lie and
that I have to be lying...because no one loves like I say
I do.
Then they say..."I choose not to talk to you anymore!
Go spread that goody/goody two shoes somewhere else."
I am apalled...as I did not start the conversation in the first place!!!

Some insight, please!

:O

where is therapy when u need her

all gossip please forward to my box NOW

Because some people are fucking lame, Sensual. There's no other way to put it.

Sensual Melody,youve a heart of gold.Just rise above it and be yourself

Much love Pochacco

BattierBeMyDaddy said:

Hey Battier ..!!

SensualMelody said:

I have noticed this on the org too-it's kinda fucked up!!
I read the thread in the general discussion board(I think its now been frozen) about Natasha-and that was one of the nastiest things I have read.Its funny how people think they know you after reading a few of your posts.They don't.
Altho, in saying that-if anyone knows any good rumours about me...give me a shout!!

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DORA said:

Except Dora. She's not fucking lame.

When're you going to come around and have sex with my Spanish teacher so you can tell me what he looks like naked?

You have some nerve.

And, upon actually reading your post, Sensual, rather than just the subject, I can say...

Some people are nauseatingly positive.


Positivity
[This message was edited Sat Oct 19 17:18:00 PDT 2002 by BattierBeMyDaddy]

BattierBeMyDaddy said:

Melody said:

LadyCabDriver said:

Melody said:

thebumpsquad said:

Melody

IsayWhatever said:

LOL!

IsayWhatever said:

i have to third, this because no one ever tells me Gossip...on here about anyone...

it must be ur persoanlity mz.sensualmelody - as most of us are what u would call non-chalant/or just not at all involved with the drama here...

live ur life hurl, can't no one else...U decide who ur friends are...

I can't imagine anyone gossiping 'bout anyone on this site... who really knows anyone here?

I've not received any... but I doubt I'd believe any of it if it were sent 2 me.

Anyway, don't u worry 'bout a thing... (2 quote Stevie) Sensual, u stay as u r and don't worry bout what the fools r bringin' 2 ya!

Much love,

I would have bet my entire Prince collection that this was a thread by OCEANA. Oh, and my nuts.

Just shrug it off, Sensual... SensualMelody

Oh, I'm sorry to mislead...the badmouthing was not about
orgers...it was about Prince and his family...people seem
to think I know them personally...I do not.

They want to give me "inside information" about his life and loves... all negative...why, I don't know.

Am I the only one receiving such "girl, let me tell you" stuff?

Thanks a bunch CalhounSq...I will.


Thanks for you thoughts Scarlett, June7, and
Beautiful Freespirit....

June7 how do you get that emoticon?
[This message was edited Sat Oct 19 20:56:15 PDT 2002 by SensualMelody]

uglybrowneyes said:

Melody

Pochacco said:

tommyalma posted a thread on emoticons and put up a link 2 get 2 them... they're not quite emoticons per se (as in, available here at the org), u gotta "link" it.

Anyway...here's the link:

http://www.mysmilies.com/

Enjoy!

4 example: I like this one...

SensualMelody said:

Ignore it SensualMelody, If people have such views of Prince (which they are entitiled to) why confine them to orgnotes? Show yourselves I say! Let us us all view your oh so profound insights!

well...the most obvious reasons would be that they themselves are lacking...
..so interested in his life cos they got none of their own?

..also the old 'makes me look better to someone else down' thing...
...i don't really see how anybody benefits in the long run tho...

..i have a pretty good feeling that they will leave you alone after this thread tho...prolly one 'good' cussin' and then they won't speak to you anymore..

BattierBeMyDaddy said:

don't get the wrong idea about melody...she's not unrealistic...she just chooses not to put people on blast,get stuff stirred, gossip or whatever, and i think that's respectable...

...i could learn a few thangs from her...we all could...

DORA said:

Wow, Dora, I am touched

I suppose it depends on exactly what you have been told. Seems like it's hard to keep out some comments Sensual that may be damaging you?

With regards to positivity. Maybe sometimes people don't like to see people getting on well in their lives. I believe that this is for several reasons. The ones that I know of are envy and reasons linked to people putting themselves on pedestals, raising themselves to their highest levels. When a person does this, this instantly leaves a person vulnerable.

The most useful thing that I have read recently is to share your positivity with trusted others. Otherwise, you are in danger of people attempting to bring you down.

The thing that some people that attempt to bring down do not realise, is that if someone is enjoying positivity, it may not always have been that way. That person doing the enjoying may have worked really hard to enjoy their position in life today. No one has the right to try to knock someone off their rightful place. It's a shame that such individuals don't realise that there's enough of that good feeling for everyone. Including them!!!

Thanks everybody...Like I said at the beginning, there are
some beautiful people here.
Thanks Lleena, I agree.
Thanks Rio, U are too sweet. I LOVE your new avatar!!!
Thanks Therapy, you are right...It took years for me

to develop the ability to "see" the good in people.
I was listening to a talk one day and the speaker held up
a sheet of paper with an ink spot on it. He asked us what
we saw. The comments were basically that there was ink
spot. After allowing us time to think, he asked..."None
of you see this bright white sheet of paper? All you see is
this little ink spot?...The point was well taken. Anybody
can focus on the inkspots...

Then there is this scriptural thought: You notice that
your brother has a straw in his eye...you say, "let me
please extract the straw from your eye." But the passage
says that you have a rafter in your own eye...it
suggests..."first remove the rafter from your own eye, then
you can see clearly how to extract the straw from your brother's eye."
This use of hyperbole by Jesus also helped me to get
perspective...I need to work on my own faults.

Ooops well we got that all wrong...

no one here knows Prince like that, if they did they would have no need or business being here.
furthermore to not only gossip about Prince but his family (are we speaking of blood relations or witnesses.com?)
thats just plain Rude and completely unfounded.

prince is a celebrity of some consequence so "his" life (no matter what many will say) is actually open to this type of diatribe, but his family, thats a no-no.

and the only thing useful i have ever heard in the rumour mill is the man is a gemini - and he lives up to that...