This morning, I get a text! Have a good morning buddy! heehee!

MoniGram said:

BUDDY????



@ Andy

JDInteractive said:

Start talking!

MoniGram said:

No offense but you're doing this to yourself. If you don't like the way things are between you (and really, how could you?) you need to stop responding to him.

I thought you said that he was being forced to be involved with another women...? If so, why would be be talking about other women in general?

Not trying to be mean, but if he is talking about other women to you he is not interested in you in the way you are obviously still interested in him.

I would believe him when he says that he just wants to be friends now and either hang out with him as a friend only and be happy, or not kid yourself and realize that you deserve better and just let him go totally.

JustErin said:

No offense taken Erin. I know I can always count on you for being straight up! And I am trying to move into that friend zone with him, but he crossed over the line. And to be honest I have no idea what is going on with him. But I am trying to be friends.

So thanks for your straight up, no sugar coating message.

No offense but you're doing this to yourself. If you don't like the way things are between you (and really, how could you?) you need to stop responding to him.

I thought you said that he was being forced to be involved with another women...? If so, why would be be talking about other women in general?

Not trying to be mean, but if he is talking about other women to you he is not interested in you in the way you are obviously still interested in him.

I would believe him when he says that he just wants to be friends now and either hang out with him as a friend only and be happy, or not kid yourself and realize that you deserve better and just let him go totally.

MoniGram said:

Going from your posts, you're just not ready for the friend zone at this point. It's not fair to yourself.

Believe me, I've been in your shoes and it's not fun at all. You still care about the guy and wanna see him so you'll just go along for the ride (any ride he decides he wants to give) in the hopes that he will eventually come around.

In my opinion, it's a bad, bad scene. You're not being given the chance to move on...and that, to me, shows me just how selfish he is being.

Don't allow someone else to have so much control over you. Let him go, move on and find someone who can give you everything you need in a relationship.

MoniGram said:

Going from your posts, you're just not ready for the friend zone at this point. It's not fair to yourself.

Believe me, I've been in your shoes and it's not fun at all. You still care about the guy and wanna see him so you'll just go along for the ride (any ride he decides he wants to give) in the hopes that he will eventually come around.

In my opinion, it's a bad, bad scene. You're not being given the chance to move on...and that, to me, shows me just how selfish he is being.

Don't allow someone else to have so much control over you. Let him go, move on and find someone who can give you everything you need in a relationship.

I was stupid, went to the movies with ex, and he kissed me, we got all close and cozy, everything was going great, movie was good, and then we get to the car and he had to check who called, talked about other chicas etc! I feel STUPID!!!!!

JustErin said:

I couldn't agree more and I've been there too. He may not even realize how awful he's being to you, but who cares? You've got to take care of yourself first right now.

My daughter mentioned that it may be good to give yourself the same advice you would give to your daughter if your daughter was in this situation

My daughter mentioned that it may be good to give yourself the same advice you would give to your daughter if your daughter was in this situation

CarrieMpls said:

I have been trying, this week was the first time I had seen him since Nov 27! Stupid Stupid me!

Mach said:

there you have it,now thats deep. true tho' but like i said drop his ass like a hot sack of shit

IAintTheOne said:

Jess is 16 and I am amazed daily with what I learn from her

i was hoping by "ex" you meant anybody in the world other than you know who.
either way the only stupid thing would be to continue having any contact.
ask that he no longer text, email or call you. period.



so that you can get on with the rest of your beautiful life!
you are fabulous and the sooner you realize how you deserve to be
treated the sooner you can be open to the good stuff.

sexy woman, amazing smile (and i bet an amazing laugh to go with it...)
soon to be rockin' memaw or whatever you call it and great friend!
your life is much to precious to mess with stuff that doesn't fit such a great person!

prb said:

I tried I really did! Not sitting super close to him, keeping my arms crossed. Being a 'FRIEND' at the movies. Then he was like, you smell good, your skin is soft, you going to sit all the way over there. Then he lifted the arm rest, put his hand on my thigh, and got all cozy. I looked over at him, and he kissed me. Not a peck, or a smooch, a long kiss, the kind that says, I miss you, I love you. Then later on he kissed me again. I was all cozy, leaning on his shoulders, cover my eyes, pulling on his shirt, it felt like it was before he broke up. Then he did that, talking about other chicas, and checking his phone. He even brought up some chica while we were sitting there waiting for the movie to start. Then I got a text from this other guy I met, and Andy wanted to see the text, so I showed him, and he was like, 'That bastard is trying to get on my gf' GIRLFRIEND?????

I am going CRAZY!!!!!
[Edited 1/18/08 23:46pm]

MoniGram said:

Going from your posts, you're just not ready for the friend zone at this point. It's not fair to yourself.

Believe me, I've been in your shoes and it's not fun at all. You still care about the guy and wanna see him so you'll just go along for the ride (any ride he decides he wants to give) in the hopes that he will eventually come around.

In my opinion, it's a bad, bad scene. You're not being given the chance to move on...and that, to me, shows me just how selfish he is being.

Don't allow someone else to have so much control over you. Let him go, move on and find someone who can give you everything you need in a relationship.