Hey and Happy New Year to everybody...looks like I am already in for another rough year this go around too..if you will remember last Jan. I lost my grandfather and my year just went to crap from there, the issues with hubby's ex wife, the issues with our teenage girls, and now...well now hubby and I have seperated. Satan found an opening in our home and snuck his tail right on in and took over. I won't get into alot of personal detail on here, just know that for right now me and hubby aren't living together, but we are still very much in love, we did not seperate because of infidelity or anything of that nature, it was on a more personal level, for each of us. It is really really hard to be away from him for me. I miss him alot. I could use some prayers along the lines of his health needing to be better and things of that nature. We hope to be ack together sometime, not sure just when. We know that we each have things that we need to work on seperately and then things we need to work on as a couple so that our marriage will be stronger than ever. Thanks for letting me ramble, it helps, especially when there isn't anyone else to talk to...

im sorry that you are going through such difficulties.

chin up, head high, and keep your eyes on the horizon, hisfan4ever - there is calmer waters and smoother sailing ahead. or, as a wise and dear person recently said to me, it will all be OK..no matter what.

be well, friend.

That sux, i wish you and the family strength,peace,clarity and determination.

im sorry hun

Best wishes ...

I'm sorry you're going through this. I am in the divorce process now. I know this time for you is painful. I hope that things get better and that you are able to work out the best decision for you and your family.

I am sorry to hear about your separation. God bless.

Honey, if the both of you are committed to changing the wrongs and fixing them right, you can get through this. I sure hope that you both can find a way to heal and to get back to where you belong

Take care hun, it'll work out just fine if you're both committed to working it out.

I know it can be hard, sometimes going through a rough patch may as well make you stronger for the future.

my heart aches to read this but I hope it works out for all of you. Be well

Suzyn, you know I love you girl! I am always just a text, email, or phone call away. You don't have to deal with this alone! I will pray that everything works out, and you all can be a family again.

I wish you a speedy resolution to all your problems.

my goodness you've been through it lately

i will of course keep good thoughts for his health
and for the conviction of each of you to get through this.

OMG I am so sorry to hear that

I hope things will work themselves out things have a funny way of turning around, when you think you have hit the worst..

You are in my thoughts, sweetie

I'm sorry to hear about this, that's gotta be rough!

hey you guys thanks for the encouraging words, things are slowing but surely getting better,I miss my husband dearly, and unfortunately "addiction" is a demon in itself that we are facing, just remember to pray for all of us as we ( kids included) each need our own prayers and guidence through it all. I have faith that God will see us through and help us right our wrongs. Life is difficult at best, and we each must make the most of what we have, however sometimes that's easier said than done. But I am thankful for all of you who share your encouraging words, they really help...

hisfan4ever said:

chin up, beautiful

I am so sorry you are going through this. Hopefully BOTH OF YOU can work on what issues are dividing you and can become one whole again. Best wishes to your entire family!!!