Find some friends who don't play games.

Seriously, this is just childish behavior. I'd say to that person, "You got a problem with me? I'm not going to beg you to tell me what I did - so you better spill it now or squash it. And if our friendship doesn't mean enough to you to be on the up-and-up about things, then maybe we need to re-evaluate our relationship as a whole."

Y'all got some shitty friends.
No wonder y'all are on here.

Illustrator said:

apparently you have 'em to

Genesia said:

Stymie said:

Life's too short to deal with bullshit.

I had a friend who did this to me. Supposedly I said something that pissed him off that was taken completely out of context but wouldn't confront me or let me tell him what was actually said. It hurt, we were very close but if he wasn't going to listen and get my side of the story then there was nothing I could do. I think his girlfriend had a big impact on this as well, even though I had been friends with her since we were 9 and I hooked them up!!! They just recently got married, it made me sad that I wasn't there....for a minute...and then I remembered I did nothing wrong and got over it.

Some people are douche bags. You just gotta let it go.

CarrieLee said:

this is the problem with he said she said. all he had to do was tell you. people really need to talk...geez.

heybaby said:

He refused to talk to me, which is what I didn't understand. I had been best friends with him since we were 16, his parents and my parents were friends. It hurt a lot to have him shut me out like that. He should have known better that I would never say something ill of him. Sucks but he lost a good friend, I thought I did too but apparently he's a shit bag.

Once upon a time, someone who was a very close friend of mine accused me of outing her. No matter how much I assured her that I hadn't...and despite the fact that the person she thought I outed her to said he didn't heard it from me...she just wouldn't believe me.

I told her that if being "right" (at least in her own mind) meant more to her than our friendship, we weren't really friends.

I haven't seen her for at least 15 years. It still makes me sad.

heybaby said:

Are you kidding me?
You guys are the only friends I got.

Illustrator said:

Genesia said:

Well you did everything in your power to try and salvage the relationship. But if they're still with their stance, then what can you do about it?

And that's actually how I felt about another person in that clique. I did sort of "like" her. But then she just started to act strange around me. I had to pull her to the side one time and ask her why she was trippin'. She just ignored me and went with the rest of the crew.

heybaby said:

Also sometimes GF's can be evil MF's

sometimes people need to clean out their friends this person probably thinks you guys aren't close any more, and has turned a new page.

OR someone told them you said he or she was an idiot

superspaceboy said:

Exactly. But in this case I knew her longer than I knew him. I would have never expected her to feed into that crap. The night I hooked them up he begged me to stay with him that night and I refused (I never hooked up with him EVER) and I told him no and to take her home. Now their married And she has a sweet life thanks to me, but I'll never hear that. Eh fuck em'.

LleeLlee said:

horatio said:

I can't stand those damn hipsters.

Not to go all Dr. Phill on ya, but I've found that the older I get, the smaller my circle of friends becomes. Thats not neccesarily a bad thing, either. The people in my life that I truley consider to be friends are the people that Id trust w/ anything, and vice versa. They are the people that, outside of my family, I know I can count on. Thats not to say that I became instant enemies w/the old crew. Quite the opposite. We've just grown in diff. directions, and there was never a formal "I feel its time to move on" speech either. Most guys dont roll like that. We still see each other from time to time and and its generally a good vibe, we just dont really keep in touch. Its really all good.
Maybe you guys just outgrew each other. hey, if they dont pay your bills, and as long as they arent slandering your name, who cares?

Not trying to be callous. I guess its just the only child/Taoist/non-attachment side coming out.

unkemptpueblo said:

I think that's a pretty fair statement.