I swear to god!!!!!


Somebody help me please!!!?? WHy everything in the whole fuckin world has to be wrong!?

Honestly, I am a good damn person, good 2 every1. Never did nothin bad to nobody. Yet everything keeps falling in my life, people talkin bout me, people callin me a black little nappy headed kid in the 40's, my dad making me take a huge loss on my taxes, someone fucked up my credit and I didnt even know it happened!!!

WHY IS THIS SHIT HAPPENING!!!!!????

Seriously what I want to do is to pack everything and leave and nobody can find me anymore. Fuck everybody, fuck my life, fuck everything!

Isaiah, take a deep breath.

Now... what happened today to set you off?

You have to stop and take on one problem at a time, Isaiah. You can fix your credit by simply challenging what's on your credit report. Before someone tries anything else, contact the credit bureaus and add a fraud alert. That way, you will always ben contacted if someone tries to do something with your SS number.

People talking aobut you? It's words and as long as no one is putting hands on you, it's all good.

How is your dad "making" you take a loss?

I've been where you are and I am still going through stuff but please believe me that you'll be alright.

TOOOO Much profanity, people open this at work. But honestly, eliminate one problem at time!!

Stymie said:

My dad claimed my little brother and sister on his taxes...AFTER I DID. My mom TOLD me to claim them. He did it without her permission. So there4 NOW THAT my bro and sis ARE staying with him my dad is claiming the right, and saying I have to take the loss!

Oh yeah, and my mom lost her place because my brother wanted to stop living with her, so she used my name without me knowing to keep her lights on..well GUESS WHAT!? I GOT A BILL for $900. EVEN IF I WANTED to move out of my roomates and get my own place I owe people alot of money! And I didnt even live there!! My mother is god knows where now and Im worried.

My head hurts really bad. I dont have the funds to owe the IRS and The energy people like this. im crying now...why is everything in my life going chaotic?

woowoo
everything's going to be fine, it's all going to pass and you'll come ontop of it all my dear

Hang in there.

damn

sammij said:

im good now..just had 3 glasses of SWEET BITCH!!!

paisleypark4 said:

I know its easy for all of us to say....but calm down...take a big deep breath...and devise a plan. Trust me when I say that quite a few of us have been where u are. After my mother passed away I got left with a $3000 funeral bill because no one else except one brother ( who paid his $400 share) would help me pay...and I have two other siblings.
U will get through this I promise. Go and talk to the departments and see if they can help u come up with a solution. In the meantime start hounding ure family. U're mum will pop up somewhere. Maybe she's feeling guilty. Oh and here

paisleypark4 said:

have a toke on me, my friend

one thing and one day at a time.

as was already said you just have to take on one thing at a time. don't let it consume you.

Take a step back and approach one thing at a time like it's been said here already,don't let it consume you. This is the first of many more "what the fuck times in life". So, just take a deep breath...the things you can do something about then do it. The things you can't let it go and keep rollin.

This is for you!

Hang in there! don't know what to say other than take it one problem at a time as others in the thread have said.

Most importantly, you can't give up on yourself.

Then the most pressing is your credit. You can get a free annual report from all 3 of the big reporting agencies:

https://www.annualcreditr.../index.jsp

Have a few more drinks tonight, and get after it tomorrow. Go down your reports and start writing letters of dispute.

Mars23 said:

Now that's what Im talking about!! Good Plan Mars

yeah, dont give up on numero uno.
But Im sick of hearing about parents fucking up their kids credit by putting bills in their name.
Ive had that done to me too. Seems many people have.

Thank you everybody. I stopped drinkin and im just going to deal with the mess that been thrown on me one at a time.

hey i joined lifetime fitness today..i will start working out this week

Hi - you poor thing =

If they are talking about at least you can think they are leaving someone alone who can't handle it. I am a believer that if you give out negative energy you get negativity back. Try and be positive in all you do and give yourself the aura of positivity and that there is no messing with you. It doesn't mean to say that you give the impression of being a hard nut or unapproachable but that you are okay with yourself and if anyone doesn't like it - tough! It's their problem not yours. I find that people gravitate to me because I give out a positive energy and they like being with me. I have more friends than enemies. Also (I don't know how old you are, but I find that the older I get the more I demand respect) but also give out the energy that you need to be respected. You will be surprised how this works in all situations. If someone is disrespecting you, face it head on and be proud of yourself.

As regards being left with bills. You should telephone the company concerned and explain the situation. I'm sorry but here your Mother is not respecting you and you need to take back your life - not hers. People have to pay what is due not leave it to others. If they can so it once they will do it again. Also who is not to say that she is using your name again to pay for more bills she is running up. I do not mean to disrespect anyone here but you have to right this wrong. You can write to the credit companies disassociating your name from your Mothers so she cannot use your name in any shape or form and you will not be responsible for anymore debt in her name.

As for your Father - if the children are living with him now surely he is entitled to the tax benefit but you are entitled to the benefit whilst they were living with you. You should ring the tax office and explain the situation and they will have to sort it out.

I am sorry that all this pressure is on your head but nothing is not repairable.

I send you all the support in my prayers and remember - BE POSITIVE IN ADVERSITY!

blueblossom said:

Thank you so so much. Its always good to wake up with more positive responses. As for the tax deal..u know what? They werent living with me so I guess I have to take the loss even though my mother told me specifically to do it and that no one else would claim them. I gave my mom all the money I made off my siblings..but hell..if this is what I have to do to get it off of me forever so be it.

I confronted my coworker and he apologized, he was very scared and shaky. His palms were sweaty and he told me he didnt know what Buckwheat menat

So one at a time I will shed things. I guess u are right though 2008 has to be the year I just take my own life back and demand respect...something I never really thought of. Im about 2 be 26...but people look at me like a kid cuz im short and i look real young, however now is the time to be more agressive and assertive.

Good luck to you..

When I am stressing I think of this.

Instead of asking questions of our trials, our trials are meant to ask questions of ourselves.

sag10 said:

Hi Sag

LleeLlee said:

My love!

paisleypark4 said:

You should call the IRS and set up a payment plan. It's not that hard and they are pretty flexable.
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superspaceboy said:

....proof of your residency with your roommate (like mail with your current address) and showing the bill is fraudulent should clear up the light bill. My mother asked me if she could use my name for a bill some years ago and I told her no because of this very thing.

heybaby said:

Thats a good idea!!!! Thank you I will send that information