if u'r MARRIED u'r a CHEATER if u'r NOT Married u r NOT a Cheater.

u have a VERBAL commitment with u'r Lover not a COMMITMENT given 2 u by The Cre8tor...

i think it's HARDER 2 leave some1 when u Marry them then when u'r just say... Boy/Boy Girl/Girl or Boy/Girl...


who thinks i'm InCorrect on my PERCEPTION?

In my opinion me think both married or not married cheating still applies if a person romantically involve with someone and then go behind his or her back without letting one another know about the affair and mess around with someone else is consider cheating. If the couple knows about their mate having affairs and still with them don't care it wouldn't be cheating.I don't think its harder to leave someone once married, but it would suck if one partner refuse to sign the divorce papers.
[This message was edited Fri Oct 18 13:57:02 PDT 2002 by kondwanii]

PurpleLove7 said:

i'm not married, but i was seeing a married woman. makes me a cheater, no?

what? sorry I don't speak princebonics. well i thought i could, but you've taken it to a whole new level respect!

If you don't have an OPEN Marriage and you see another Person that's Cheating. In a Dating relationship unless you are Exclusive I wouldn't consider it Cheating. Communication is the Key and just be Honest and Open with the person so you are on the same wavelength and there are no Surprises.

Natasha said:

So I suppose I agree with you and what you are saying with your question.

Natasha said:

erm, are you talking to yourself?

Whether you are married or not is irrelevant if you are in a monogamous relationship and there is no prior agreement between the two people, then it is cheating. But having said that, I also think that once one partner has told the other partner that the relationship is over (even if the other partner is in denial) then it is not cheating as long as there is no hope of there being a reconciliation. A divorce of the heart is more final than a divorce on paper.

LittleRedCorvette said:

sag10 said:

Hi love. backatcha!

I've heard people say that once you think about someone else in those terms it's cheating.

However, would you consider internet or telephone sex cheating?
How about if you are currently in a relationship and someone you've already appears back into your life and you them again ... is that cheating? I mean, is not like they are somebody new!

ronnie talk to russia before it's too late.. before it's too late... before it's too late...

PurpleLove7 said:

OK this dork has listened to TRC one too many times.

u don't have 2 get PERSONAL, Dayum! it was JUST a Question (idiot)!

once you make a commitment, wether it's official marriage, or just a verbal promise, you gotta be faithful.

Married or not if you're in a committed relationship and one of the parties decides that they need to do some extra activities outside the relationship then it's cheating either way you look at it.

if u Fantisize about another Man Or WoMan... would that b considered Cheating???

PurpleLove7 said:

[b]No way. Thoughts R not crimes. Thinking or fantasy about anything is cool. Its Ur mind, U can think what U will with it.

Its the actions which U gotta take control of. [b/]

SexLovely said:

Well Said!