When a man has a menage trois it's considered an sexual experience,cool, and worthy of praise, but when a woman has one, she's considered a dirty slut. Why are there double standards between men and women's sexual experiences? If you were involved in a menage trois,please, feel free to tell us about it with ur response to the question, and those who fantasize about it, give us explicit details iwth ur response!!!

society's just phucked, basically.

SummerRain said:

"but when a woman has one, she's considered a dirty slut" not 4 me, I'm feminist

i don't think a woman is a "dirty slut" if she has a threesome...whatever floats your boat, i say..

What about the "double standard" that MEN
are SUPPOSED to be promiscuous and women
are NOT?

Women encourage this behaviour in men. This is why it's expected to be "norm" for men to be classified this way.

Women don't want men who are inexperienced the way men don't wany women who ARE experienced.

NEVER TOOK THE CAHNCE OF HAVING A DICK BIGGER THAN MINE
IN THE SAME ROOM :LOL:

00769BAD said:

...you have a way of cutting through the bullshit

basically it is a repercussion of our evolved needs. for men, evolutionarily speaking, it was important for him to have sex with as many women as possible to ensure the continued success of his genes.

women faced a different evolutionary need, that is to find a man who would support and protect her. get past your modern way of thinking and place yourself in the position of a women thousands of years ago and you will realize it was a very dangerous situation, thus needed men for protection.

where does that leave us? men have an evolved cognitive mechanism to be wary of women who sleep around, because if she gets pregnant it may not be his child, thus it would be a waste to provide resources for a competitors genes. there is an age old african adage :"mamam's baby, papa's maybe."

this isn't a societal issue, it is actually an issue of cognitive science. read "The Dangerous Passion: Why Jealousy is as Necessary as Love and Sex" by David M. Buss, or anything else by Buss, he is a leading expert in this field, for more info.

double standard as a reason is a oversimplification of the reason.