If I could I'd change my criteria for marriage. If you could what would you change? Just curious...

Where does that make sense what you are asking? Just what is your criteria? Are you Forced to Marry somebody you don't want to? So,I guess I'd change this Question to one that actually makes sense!

Natasha said:

Ok Natasha darling, let me break it down to you in more simpler terms. I'd assume when I posted this most people would be able to read a simple question without all these words, obviously I was wrong. I got asked this question on an interview once and thought my answer was somewhat benign. What I really wanted to say was if I could change all the stupid people of the world and give them common sense I would. So here's the question again:

If there was anything you had the power to change from the past, whether it be personal, political, or social, what would it be Just curious... (better?)

SweeTea said:

Actually, I didn't really understand this either ... what would you change if you could? Do you mean you'd change yourself in order to get married, or you'd change your views on marriage? It's the "I'd change my criteria for marriage" bit that Natasha and I don't understand because you don't explain what you mean by that.

Anyway, to answer your question, I'm happy being me ... I would like to be less critical at times but apart from that, I'm quite a happy bunny

Raspberry said:

I didn't want to go into the details but people sometimes marry for the wrong reasons. I did and so did a lot of my friends. Some are still married (and wished they weren't) Some realized their mistake and escaped. I saw an Oprah Winfrey show once that featured mothers who hated being mothers and if someone had told them how hard it was being a mother, they never would have done it...Get my drift, sorry for being so vague.

ya mean you married for money,looks or status...


it isnt all bad

go shopping to drown all your sorrows

SweeTea said:

I'm with you now ... actually I think you should give yourself some credit for thinking this way ... one of the hardest things to do in life is to learn from our mistakes ... well done you!

my socks.

i've got a terrible habit of just throwing on whatever dirty socks are laying on my bedroom floor.

so it's just a good thing i don't wear underwear

DORA said:

None of the above. I got married because I was young and naive. Then one day I woke up and realized what a big mistake I'd made. But that was long ago, and there were no tears of sorrow, only tears of joy to finally be FREE!

AaronForever said:

No underwear huh? So Aaron how's it hangin?

SexLovely said:

you funny

Raspberry said:

true that!

SweeTea said:

you kind

SweeTea said:

it's a bit chilly today, so it's not really hanging, if you know what i mean.

but usually to the left

SweeTea said:

hmmm...


divorce only if you can aquire