Do you like to ruffle feathers? Do you find you do just because you speak your mind or because you think before you act?

On the other hand, are you quite reserved and tend to hold back your thoughts?

It's how I roll.

I am both

a mad crazy feather ruffling bitch
and the quiet watcher

I don't like to ruffle feathers just for the sake of it, but I will if I think it's important, or maybe just to tease sometimes.
I don't think I'm reserved, but I choose how I deliver a message carefully.
I really can't stand rude behavior. There's simply no excuse for it. I don't admire "brutal" honesty. There is a way to be honest and kind as well.

CarrieMpls said:

bingo

If you don't like something about someone, do you really need to express it? What's the point? If it's someone close to you and it affects your working or personal relationship, then perhaps--but show some class doing it.

I ruffle feathers all the time. One thing I have yet to learn is to keep my mouth shut!

MoniGram said:

I have a feather that needs ruffling.

Dinner!

CarrieMpls said:

agreed - it still can ruffle feathers though

I'm not into the "shock factor do it for giggles" either - if I am passionate about an issue the it will show

Wait. Let me just point out in my response to Carrie, that my hatred of certain folks will completely trump my stance.


If I really hate a person, they're fucked.

CarrieMpls said:

What if a friend of yours asked your opinion of a dress that they really loved but you thought was horrific and would make them the subject of ridicule in public. Would you tell them?

I hold back.

Unless of course I wanna sex u then i'll say it.
But other than that, I bite my tongue most of the time. If I didnt, I wouldnt have as many friends as I have now

Imago said:

oh wait.

There's also degrees of dislike and hatred. If I just find a person boring, or I don't like them all that much, I won't bother to pay much attention to them.

Who cares about my opinion, if they don't like me either? We'd just be yelling over each other.

Imago said:

some people seem to get a kick out of acting a fool - bantering - insulting and stabing - game playing

I'm not into that

I just realized why they made a P&R mod

Imago said:

Come on over!

No, I like to keep negative opinions to myself and prefer others to do the same. Humans should be silent, agreeable and subservant, keeping a tight lid on any pent-up hate. Swearing is also barbaric and is usually the first sign of a tiny intellect.

Number23 said:

Well, passing that drivers license test has transformed you into an angel!!!

Imago said:

Fuck off, cuntflaps.

Number23 said:

Number23 said:

I usually don't "ruffle feathers" just to aggravate someone, but I do it quite often because I usually speak my mind. I'm not afraid to go against popular opinion. I have however done it on occasion just to get someone frustrated.

For the most part though it comes out of the fact that I'm just an opinionated person who isn't afraid to speak her mind.

mdiver said:

Imago said:

hokie1 said:

Well your signature sucks total ass!

Imago said:

Imago said:

I'm just trying to ruffle your feathers!

Number23 said:

What an interesting word!

JDInteractive said:

Depends on how well I know them. If I know them well, I could honestly say they look like a hooker and we'd laugh about it together, cause my freinds value my opinion. If I thought that would hurt their feelings, I'd simply say it's not my taste, but I can see how they like it, cause I probably would. Fashion's always in the eye of the beholder.

I know I bite my tongue too much to avoid ruffling feathers.

I hate drama and I hate to make others feel bad.
I know..I need to find a balance.
I am working on that.

CarrieMpls said:

If I wore bear print pyjama bottoms and a vest that said 'Prince' in sparkly letters would you say I looked ridiculous?