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Printablesextonseven said: If I was in a relationship, I could never do it. Guilt would eat away at me until I was a withered husk like minister Dimmesdale in The Scarlet Letter.
However if I was single and the other person was in a relationship then it all depends. Suppose she and her partner have agreed to an open relationship? I guess in that case it wouldn't be considered an affair? formatting [Edited 1/5/08 10:33am] I was in a situation like that, and it seemed easy in the beginning because I wasn't betraying someone I loved. But later on it was harder because I couldn't really be with her. I only got the spare time and we had to sneak around. IN the end I got my heart broken, and it was probably a horrible idea to begin with (considering I was commiting myself to someone who definitely cheated on at least one guy). My Legacy
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Serious said: Flowerz said: yeah.. but why put yourself through the heartache? there are too many single ppl out here.. to be messing up somebody else's marriage.. .. in the end you still dont win.. even if you get him.. why? .. cause.. the door is open for him to leave you too (the reaping process happens regardless if you believe it)..... it's safer to just get your own man... there's too many single fine ones out there.. I have never had an affair in my life, but you never know what will happen in the future. And every partner may leave you, no matter under what circumstances you met him. And I don't agree that it is so easy to find a man for your own who is not in a relationship. I am in a relationship, so I am not looking, but if I were and I want to find someone it has to be someone I truly fall in love with and that is so very rare. Others may fall in love easily, but I don't so it doesn't make a difference if there are many fine men out there as I only would want to be with someone I love and to find someone like that and he loves you back is so not easy to find. i disagree with that.. i dont have to resort to take somebody else's man when i can get my own ...the problem with ppl is they dont have patience to wait for that right one to come along.. and yes there is somebody for everybody... and for statue: if a man is already looking outside his marriage .. what makes you think he'll be faithful to the next relationship? usually that tells right there what the man is about .... [Edited 1/6/08 14:54pm] | |
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Food for thought from today's news:
There are websites that detail accusations of infidelity with full names and employment. womansavers.com and cheaternnews.com Some woman in town was accused of having sex on a daily basis, in her purple Ford in a Safeway parking lot.....  | |
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xplnyrslf said: Food for thought from today's news:
There are websites that detail accusations of infidelity with full names and employment. womansavers.com and cheaternnews.com Some woman in town was accused of having sex on a daily basis, in her purple Ford in a Safeway parking lot..... our friend Neal says at 5pm each day outside his office window, 2 cars pull up and the occupants get together and  in full view of everyone in the building. EVERY DAY.
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xplnyrslf said: Food for thought from today's news:
There are websites that detail accusations of infidelity with full names and employment. womansavers.com and cheaternnews.com Some woman in town was accused of having sex on a daily basis, in her purple Ford in a Safeway parking lot..... I don't even understand stuff like that  | |
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Volitan said: Flowerz said: you'd sleep with a married person .. but what if.. you are in love with someone and you marry.. and that person cheats on you? and all of what you did comes back on your marriage? .. and you are really in love... Like I said, depends on the case, plus I'm young and stupid, so I'd probably listen to my penis before I listen to my mind/heart...sad but true... no offense because i know a lot of guys are like that and it's pretty socially acceptable, but i think blaming it on being young & stupid is crap.  just like hooking up with someone when you're drunk.  you realize what you're doing, regardless. | |
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evenstar said: Volitan said: Like I said, depends on the case, plus I'm young and stupid, so I'd probably listen to my penis before I listen to my mind/heart...sad but true... no offense because i know a lot of guys are like that and it's pretty socially acceptable, but i think blaming it on being young & stupid is crap. just like hooking up with someone when you're drunk. you realize what you're doing, regardless.very true are you ready for submission
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ZombieKitten said: xplnyrslf said: Food for thought from today's news:
There are websites that detail accusations of infidelity with full names and employment. womansavers.com and cheaternnews.com Some woman in town was accused of having sex on a daily basis, in her purple Ford in a Safeway parking lot..... our friend Neal says at 5pm each day outside his office window, 2 cars pull up and the occupants get together and in full view of everyone in the building. EVERY DAY.
The couple is lucky, no one has posted their license plates on these websites. Maybe they're exhibitionists, and need an audience?  | |
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evenstar said: Volitan said: Like I said, depends on the case, plus I'm young and stupid, so I'd probably listen to my penis before I listen to my mind/heart...sad but true... no offense because i know a lot of guys are like that and it's pretty socially acceptable, but i think blaming it on being young & stupid is crap. just like hooking up with someone when you're drunk. you realize what you're doing, regardless.Oh damn, I turned down a drunken solicitation once because I thought "she doesn't know what she's doing". I missed out!  | |
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evenstar said: Volitan said: Like I said, depends on the case, plus I'm young and stupid, so I'd probably listen to my penis before I listen to my mind/heart...sad but true... no offense because i know a lot of guys are like that and it's pretty socially acceptable, but i think blaming it on being young & stupid is crap. just like hooking up with someone when you're drunk. you realize what you're doing, regardless.true ... but ... you're going to England soon. You'll witness there that people CAN get so wasted that they don't even know their own first name ... | |
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sextonseven said: evenstar said: no offense because i know a lot of guys are like that and it's pretty socially acceptable, but i think blaming it on being young & stupid is crap. just like hooking up with someone when you're drunk. you realize what you're doing, regardless.Oh damn, I turned down a drunken solicitation once because I thought "she doesn't know what she's doing". I missed out!  | |
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One4All4Ever said: evenstar said: no offense because i know a lot of guys are like that and it's pretty socially acceptable, but i think blaming it on being young & stupid is crap. just like hooking up with someone when you're drunk. you realize what you're doing, regardless.true ... but ... you're going to England soon. You'll witness there that people CAN get so wasted that they don't even know their own first name ...
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sextonseven said: evenstar said: no offense because i know a lot of guys are like that and it's pretty socially acceptable, but i think blaming it on being young & stupid is crap. just like hooking up with someone when you're drunk. you realize what you're doing, regardless.Oh damn, I turned down a drunken solicitation once because I thought "she doesn't know what she's doing". I missed out! a whole new world just opened up!My Legacy
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NDRU said: sextonseven said: Oh damn, I turned down a drunken solicitation once because I thought "she doesn't know what she's doing". I missed out! a whole new world just opened up!Drunk women are now fair game!  | |
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sextonseven said: NDRU said: a whole new world just opened up!Drunk women are now fair game!  With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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jonylawson said: ever had one?
would you? if nobody EVER found out(hyperthetically coz of course this is posted now) would you/have you? some would argue that theres nothing more exciting than naughty sex..... me? im just curious 1. no .. (i dont need somebody else's man) 2. nope 3. nope 4. you can have naughty sex without taking somebody else's 'property' | |
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Sometimes a good affair is just what the doctor ordered. Think Bridges of Madison County. 
Seriously though, life is too short to be miserable and there's nothing worse than being indecisive, stuck in a situation you don't want to be in. That's when you know you have to make a leap of faith-- whether it's re-committing one's self wholly to the current relationship or finding something new--believing that everything will work out fine in the end. |
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