Im going through a divorce rite now. mutual friends have now taken sides. I HATE THAT SHIT. WTF? da worst part is im labeled da bitch in all this cuzz i decided to call it quits! wat da hell? ive lost almost all of them guess it shows who your friends really are!

softNwet said:

I guess it shows how they have felt about you the entire time of being your friend
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Keep your friends out of it. That's a private matter. You did not marry your friends.

horatio said:

TRUE!

softNwet said:

Yeah... unfortunately, you're probably fucking up their Thursday night Bridge game or some shit like that...

There is no justification for living with someone you're no longer in love with.

i lost quite a few friends when i broke up with my ex.

fuck those assholes. you don't need them.

violator said:

Exactly no one seems to understand dat. no one agrees w/ me its frustrating but fuckthem they dont have to live w da person right?

I lost all my friends when I dumped my first boyfriend. They thought I was mean. He had broke up with me twice before, and I was just beating him to the next time

But it was OK! My new friends are HEAPS nicer

ZombieKitten said:

i guess i need new friends! lol!

softNwet said:

well yeah

Oh, I have been there as well. He was so angry that I ended it he made up a bunch of crap and started spreading nasty rumours about me.

Things like that used to bother me when I was younger, but I really don't give a shit what a bunch of ignorant fuckers think about me. Not giving into his pathetic attempts to get attention made my life so much easier in the end.

Im sorry... been there done that...

I lost almost all of our mutual friends because I was the one that moved out and got my own place so therefore everyone assumed that I had done something wrong.
We did not tell any friends or family about our issues so they were left to assume.
Which is fine. In the end I am glad that they were there to support him through everything.

horatio said:

you are such a bitch

Real friends will take the time to understand both sides and do their best not to pass judgement.
But sometimes it's hard. My two best friends broke up this year, I was honestly as close with both of them as one can be to a friend. As hard as it is to walk the line down the middle, you're bound to have a slip up or two.
I don't know anything about your relationship, but in my case, a family was breaking up, changing. It's hard for everyone involved.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

but he's so right

heybaby said:

I know I'm just shocked at how restrained he usually is

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you're hot and now single, new friends will be knocking at your door any minute...

Real friends are there when you need them the most. Real friends respect the decisions you make regarding your life.

I really never had a real friends it to much of a problem
with them being truthful most of them are liers an then there he said she said
game.I did try.I can't deal with that kind of shit.

Atirolopiuuk said:

exactly. so you shouldn't worry.