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what should i do in this situation? i need help... mmmkay so i've been mentioning here recently that i have a date..
that date is tonight, and actually in about an hour and 20 minutes problem is, the plans he told me were not sturdy plans, i don't know if we're still on for tonight and he doesn't have any way of contacting me (he doesn't know my number, i don't know his) now i know i should've asked but we speak everyday on msn that i never thought to...(i know him from highschool) he hasn't been online yet today and im wondering if i should go anyway and sit around waiting for him...or if i should not go at all? it doesnt help that i've been feeling ill all day 
what should i do? [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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Well, if you're still up for the date (not feeling too sick) then I'd go and wait for a period of time...maybe 15-30 max and if he doesn't show then leave.
I guess if I were you even if I were feeling bad I'd at least go and tell him that I was too sick to go on the date. | |
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that's true 
thanks  [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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I agree with Hokie In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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Sweeny79 said: I agree with Hokie
Me too. | |
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jess555ja said: Sweeny79 said: I agree with Hokie
Me too. Quad-ditto!! MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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ok!
i'm getting ready  [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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Much fretting about nothing... he wouldn't pass up the opportunity to be in your company...  | |
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If you went already 
But instead of waiting for him maybe he'll be waiting for you | |
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yeah so i'm back
i was stood up i figured this would happen now i'm out 15$ from a cab oh well 
dating isn't really my thing i suppose. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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violator said: Much fretting about nothing... he wouldn't pass up the opportunity to be in your company...
 
yeah, but he did 
but that's cool [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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sammij said: violator said: Much fretting about nothing... he wouldn't pass up the opportunity to be in your company...
yeah, but he did
but that's cool Uhm... no it's not... the dude's a dick It is not known why FuNkeNsteiN capitalizes his name as he does, though some speculate sunlight deficiency caused by the most pimpified white guy afro in Nordic history.
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FuNkeNsteiN said: sammij said:
yeah, but he did
but that's cool Uhm... no it's not... the dude's a dick  i know
and i'm sure he has an excuse but i'm not trying to hear it, at least right now i think we're cool just being friends. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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Oh damn. What an idiot. 
Even if he had an excuse....that's just kind of lame. Some guys have no clue how to be a gentleman. | |
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hokie1 said: Oh damn. What an idiot.
Even if he had an excuse....that's just kind of lame. Some guys have no clue how to be a gentleman. Ditto! I mean I agree. [Edited 12/27/07 17:26pm] | |
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hokie1 said: Oh damn. What an idiot.
Even if he had an excuse....that's just kind of lame. Some guys have no clue how to be a gentleman. So true. I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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rushing07 said: hokie1 said: Oh damn. What an idiot.
Even if he had an excuse....that's just kind of lame. Some guys have no clue how to be a gentleman. So true. very true
im not quite sure how to feel at this point i mean i laughed it off and i'm aware i'm much better than this but at the same time i still have to question it, i don't know if i can handle this dating thing if any guy that shows interest in me flees for some unknown reason after i start to show interest too.... [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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sammij said: rushing07 said: So true. very true
im not quite sure how to feel at this point i mean i laughed it off and i'm aware i'm much better than this but at the same time i still have to question it, i don't know if i can handle this dating thing if any guy that shows interest in me flees for some unknown reason after i start to show interest too.... Dating is a very complex game. And a stupid game too. [Edited 12/27/07 17:30pm] I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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sammij said: rushing07 said: So true. very true
im not quite sure how to feel at this point i mean i laughed it off and i'm aware i'm much better than this but at the same time i still have to question it, i don't know if i can handle this dating thing if any guy that shows interest in me flees for some unknown reason after i start to show interest too.... Are you hurt over it? Angry? Or don't really care? Some dudes are just forgetful dinks, I dunno if you can say he just took off on you. | |
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JustErin said: sammij said: very true
im not quite sure how to feel at this point i mean i laughed it off and i'm aware i'm much better than this but at the same time i still have to question it, i don't know if i can handle this dating thing if any guy that shows interest in me flees for some unknown reason after i start to show interest too.... Are you hurt over it? Angry? Or don't really care? Some dudes are just forgetful dinks, I dunno if you can say he just took off on you. i'm all of the above [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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sammij said: rushing07 said: So true. very true
im not quite sure how to feel at this point i mean i laughed it off and i'm aware i'm much better than this but at the same time i still have to question it, i don't know if i can handle this dating thing if any guy that shows interest in me flees for some unknown reason after i start to show interest too.... I can see how it would be difficult or possibly make you question yourself, but you seem to be a strong woman that knows what she wants. Just keep your positive attitude and there will be a guy that likes that and respects it. Not that it is an excuse but, if he didn't have your number that definitely creates some difficulty. If you talk with him you'll just have to judge for yourself if he's worth a second chance or not (if he asks for it). If you DO decide to go on a date with him make sure he has your number and if he flakes again in the slightest way kick his ass to the curb. You deserve better and more respect than that. | |
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rushing07 said: sammij said: very true
im not quite sure how to feel at this point i mean i laughed it off and i'm aware i'm much better than this but at the same time i still have to question it, i don't know if i can handle this dating thing if any guy that shows interest in me flees for some unknown reason after i start to show interest too.... Dating is a very complex game. And a stupid game too. [Edited 12/27/07 17:30pm] i hate games 
because i always lose, i'm so shitty with strategizing.  [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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sammij said: JustErin said: Are you hurt over it? Angry? Or don't really care? Some dudes are just forgetful dinks, I dunno if you can say he just took off on you. i'm all of the above I'd be upset as well. Rejection blows, no matter the reason. I dunno, something just tells me he flaked on you...and not on purpose. | |
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hokie1 said: sammij said: very true
im not quite sure how to feel at this point i mean i laughed it off and i'm aware i'm much better than this but at the same time i still have to question it, i don't know if i can handle this dating thing if any guy that shows interest in me flees for some unknown reason after i start to show interest too.... I can see how it would be difficult or possibly make you question yourself, but you seem to be a strong woman that knows what she wants. Just keep your positive attitude and there will be a guy that likes that and respects it. Not that it is an excuse but, if he didn't have your number that definitely creates some difficulty. If you talk with him you'll just have to judge for yourself if he's worth a second chance or not (if he asks for it). If you DO decide to go on a date with him make sure he has your number and if he flakes again in the slightest way kick his ass to the curb. You deserve better and more respect than that. thanks!
yeah it was a mutual fuckup that we didnt have each other's numbers, its just we're always online so we talk daily, he just didnt go online today 
but i dont think i want a second chance with him, i'm done
i dont have time to be dragged around like this. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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JustErin said: sammij said: i'm all of the above I'd be upset as well. Rejection blows, no matter the reason. I dunno, something just tells me he flaked on you...and not on purpose. i don't know but i'm not trying to hear his excuse right now he can tell me whatever the fuck happened but i won't be expected to ask him what the deal is. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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sammij said: i don't know but i'm not trying to hear his excuse right now he can tell me whatever the fuck happened but i won't be expected to ask him what the deal is. I agree completely. | |
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alwayslate said: sammij said: i don't know but i'm not trying to hear his excuse right now he can tell me whatever the fuck happened but i won't be expected to ask him what the deal is. I agree completely. i got a message from him on facebook he was in toronto the whole day and couldnt get back in time
meh. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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cut his balls off and blow his car up.guaranteed to make you feel better.
I do it all the time. | |
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BucketOfBouncyBalls said: cut his balls off and blow his car up.guaranteed to make you feel better.
I do it all the time. funny thing is, he doesn't have a car
i bussed to the destination
oh well [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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sammij said: alwayslate said: I agree completely. i got a message from him on facebook he was in toronto the whole day and couldnt get back in time
meh. If I were in your situation I'd accept that and not be upset about it since he couldn't reach me...but if he had my number that would be a totally different matter. But then again, I am the queen of giving dudes second chances...and third and forth, and so on... | |
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