CarrieMpls said:

Wasn't it clear from the start that it was for a collage though? In that case I think everybody should have expected it to get sent out to the participants. However, I agree that it shouldn't be shared beyond that circle, unless every single participant says it's okay (as opposed to not saying no).

ZombieKitten said:

I sincerely hope that it wasn't sent out to random people and was kept within the reaches of those who knew their personals were being made public. Although I am fully aware I am delusional if I think some 30 people can keep it to themselves what they have received....

A little more detail... a few sent pics amongst the girls long ago that they also thought would be kept between the girls as well... ( The good ol girls club I learned long ago was sold out to the boys .. Which I also think is very sad.) Hence this collage concept came up and said girls were never informed their particular photos where to be included. ( The thread requested participants but never said girls who participated on that night were to be included.)

One cannot unring a bell can they..

:::koom bah yah people:::

Charlotte only gave it to the participants. After that it's between those involved. I asked someone if I could see it ( ) but they didn't give it to me. That's no problem. I probably shouldn't have even asked but honestly I wasn't expecting this furore (and wouldn't have asked if I'd known about people being so uncomfortable about the whole thing, which in hindsight is fair enough). I think if we get this thread locked up and forget about it then it's done.

Fauxie said:

hokie1 said:

Guess who.

I think if we get this thread locked up and forget about it then it's done.

Fauxie said:

I think there's still some milking of this subject to be done...



milking...

Fauxie said:

Wait...I think I know who...

Fauxie said:

I think there's still some milking of this subject to be done...



milking...

hokie1 said:

Who the hell would even open a note from fauxie in the first place?

hokie1 said:

Who the hell would even open a note from fauxie in the first place?

JustErin said:

Erin, I think you and I are gonna have to whip our tits out to take the focus off all this craziness.

hokie1 said:

I did, in the other thread. It didn't help.

In fact I think it made it worse.

You give it a try.

JustErin said:

Come on, Hokie... out with 'em.. it's been 20 minutes already, jeez...

violator said:

Erin's are better.

hokie1 said:

But everyone's seen 'em...

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

I for one want to say that I'm in the now inafamous collage. I don't care. It doesn't bother me. My understanding all along was that it would be made into a collage and that it would ONLY be sent to the girls that participated in the collage. Even if some dudes saw it, which may very well have happened if some of the participants decided to share it with others, I still don't care. I know Charlotte only sent a copy to the girls that participated. I really think this thing has blown up into something it shouldn't be. It's not like flyers were made and posted all over. It's not like copies were sent out to random people. Charlotte only sent it to those that participated. If those people then sent it to others she has no control over that. I guess in hindsight maybe there should have been some type of note asking permission, but like she already said it didn't occur to her to ask because so many of us were egging her on about it. There was only one shot that MIGHT have shown more than a swimsuit. I don't know if she cares if others see it or not. I have not personally asked her. Otherwise everyone is covered! It's not like this was porn people. It's girls in their bras.

I just think this should be let go. It's getting kind of ridiculous.

Muse, I am not singling you out. I quoted you to answer your question about whether or not it had been sent to random folks or to guys. When I say people should let it go I mean everyone.
[Edited 12/23/07 19:18pm]

hokie1 said:

Oh Lady do not misunderstand... You may not realize that one participant was never asked if it was ok and it simply wasnt her style to be exposed .... One gentlemen ( Retina ) has called into question as to if it were her fault as after all, she should never have sent it if that were the case.... Now I have 2 pics of him that are on the net and at that fully clothed... Ive got 100 bucks that says even so I will be reported to moderator for posting them even though he himself passed them out and should have thought theyd be shared and the like..... I just find his excess of logic and justification ill placed.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

oh believe me, if anyone POSTS the collage, I will be first to report it.

violator said:

That's right, I'm the org's resident whore.

ZombieKitten said:

And why is everyone acting like it was shared? I haven't heard anything from anyone not involved saying they saw it...all I'm hearing is requests to see it.

JustErin said:

Never mind!
[Edited 12/23/07 20:55pm]

JustErin said:

I love you...

hokie1 said:

Oh Lady do not misunderstand... You may not realize that one participant was never asked if it was ok and it simply wasnt her style to be exposed .... One gentlemen ( Retina ) has called into question as to if it were her fault as after all, she should never have sent it if that were the case.... Now I have 2 pics of him that are on the net and at that fully clothed... Ive got 100 bucks that says even so I will be reported to moderator for posting them even though he himself passed them out and should have thought theyd be shared and the like..... I just find his excess of logic and justification ill placed.

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

I caught what you said and I said right from the get go that teasing and taunting about something you don't want others to see is seriously fucked up.

Whatever, someone made a poor choice and shared it with a dude on here. It doesn't appear to be making the rounds...but regardless, I guess lessons were learned by some.

JustErin said:

Well that can be said for more then one around here.....

Ultimately you are right... but it would be nice to think we could actually support each other and respect each others privacy.... I mean in a perfect world right? I fully support your balls out expression no matter what is the motive behind it... ( I personally ride the middle somewhere) but it would be nice if we could afford those with a far different view point the anonymity they desire out of respect... I mean I'm getting pelted to share Retinas photos.... if I were a lessor person or one who believed "I said right from the get go that teasing and taunting about something you don't want others to see is seriously fucked up"

but oh wait, the lady never teased and or taunted anymore then the male did... unlike you, they just had a different more private personality. I am not taking a personal shot at you mind you... I'm just engaging you to think outside of our personal boxes...